3121: What's Wrong with Strict Parenting? by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Positive Parenting

3121: What's Wrong with Strict Parenting? by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Positive Parenting

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3121: Dr. Laura Markham lays out seven reasons strict parenting produces the opposite of what parents hope for, including lower self esteem, more rebellion, and kids who behave only when someone is watching. She argues the research points somewhere other than a compromise between strict and permissive, and makes the case for what she calls empathic limits. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.peacefulparenthappykids.com/read/strict-parenting [https://www.peacefulparenthappykids.com/read/strict-parenting] Quotes to ponder: "Harsh limits may temporarily control behavior, but they don't help a child learn to self-regulate." "They learn to obey, but they don't learn to think for themselves." "That combination of empathy and limits is the sweet spot that raises amazing kids -- and makes for the best parenting." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3120: How to Get Over a Breakup by Sarah Von Bargen of Yes and Yes on Breakup Recovery

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3120: Sarah Von Bargen answers a reader who is in the middle of a breakup she did not choose. Writing from her own recent experience, she offers eight steps that are less about getting over someone quickly and more about turning the corner, from removing the ex for a while to being honest about what actually did not work. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.yesandyes.org/2009/08/how-to-get-over-break-up.html [https://www.yesandyes.org/2009/08/how-to-get-over-break-up.html] Quotes to ponder: "You can't control your ex's decisions, you can only control your responses to them." "It means that they weren't the right person for you right now." "Do so many fun things that you're too busy to think about whats-their-name." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3119: Are Our Emotions Irrational or Logical? by Alysha Jeney of Modern Love Counseling on Self-Love

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3119: Alysha Jeney describes the internal argument that starts the moment she feels an emotion coming on, and the voice that tells her she is being ridiculous. She traces where that voice comes from and explains how years of avoiding her own feelings left her settling for relationships that never felt understood. Her way out starts with acceptance rather than logic. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/emotions-irrational-or-logical/ [https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/emotions-irrational-or-logical/] Quotes to ponder: "Acceptance can actually become very empowering." "When we mask our feelings and natural responses as adults, we run the risk of never being understood by anyone or ever experiencing true intimacy." "Sometimes, you don't need to know the answer, but rather just give yourself permission to be messy." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3118: 5 Ways to Love an Introvert Who Is Grieving by Courtney Ferguson with Introvert Dear on Emotional Intimacy

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3118: Courtney Ferguson shares what she and her extrovert husband learned about each other after losing their first pregnancy, and how differently the two of them processed the same loss. She offers five ways to love an introvert through grief, from giving them room to think to gently testing when they are ready for people again. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/how-to-love-an-introvert-who-is-grieving/ [https://introvertdear.com/news/how-to-love-an-introvert-who-is-grieving/] Quotes to ponder: "Introverts process things internally, and we need time to wrap our head around something before we talk about it." "We move slower and with deep intention, especially when navigating grief." "Remember to ask what they need and how you can help." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3117: Is Holding a Grudge a Rational Thing To Do? by Keith Wilson of Keith Wilson Counseling on Conflict Resolution

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3117: Keith Wilson revisits his own advice that grudges should be abolished after reading a philosopher's argument that holding one can be perfectly rational. He walks through what anger is actually signaling, why it is a legitimate response to injustice, and where it starts to cost the person carrying it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/is-holding-a-grudge-a-rational-thing-to-do-62f1609b75c6 [https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/is-holding-a-grudge-a-rational-thing-to-do-62f1609b75c6] Quotes to ponder: "Grudges begin in anger and retain many of the characteristics of that hot emotion." "Feeling angry is a useful indication that you're the victim of an injustice." "She says holding a grudge is a perfectly rational thing to do." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]