Daddy's Not in Charge- A World Without Patriarchy

Daddy's Not in Charge- A World Without Patriarchy

We’re back! This week, Annie takes us on a journey to learn about the history and origins of patriarchy, and asks the question- can a world without patriarchy really exist? We cover how white colonialism influenced patriarchy, why medieval peasant women didn’t even know they were lacking rights, and how one amazing Nigerian tribe fought back against British rule. Other topics include Annie’s vision trauma, and her anger at wealthy Canadian golf men. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com [https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Hot Naked Chicks-The surprising legacy of Hugh Hefner

This week, Chloe leads us on a journey of learning about Playboy founder Hugh Hefner. Was he actually as bad as he first appears? Well, yes! But he was also a surprisingly staunch advocate of a number of social justice issues, including civil and gay rights. Throughout this journey we will be taking minor detours to hear about Chloe’s champagne problems, Annie’s struggles with Chemistry, and a high school trend that never actually existed. Sources: * https://www.biography.com/business-leaders/hugh-hefner [https://www.biography.com/business-leaders/hugh-hefner] * https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1447862/ [https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1447862/] * https://classic.esquire.com/issue/19500801 [https://classic.esquire.com/issue/19500801] * https://www.biography.com/actors/marilyn-monroe-playboy-first-issue-didnt-pose [https://www.biography.com/actors/marilyn-monroe-playboy-first-issue-didnt-pose] * https://www.renevanmaarsseveen.nl/wp-content/uploads/overig3/Playboy%20nov%201953%20first%20issue.pdf [https://www.renevanmaarsseveen.nl/wp-content/uploads/overig3/Playboy%20nov%201953%20first%20issue.pdf] * https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-41426419 [https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-41426419] * https://thehundreds.com/blogs/content/reading-playboy-for-the-articles-13-must-read-journalism-literature-pieces-from-playboy-magazine?srsltid=AfmBOop7TTFvXdg7czCeNqD_0efIQIgFvE3nKpNuwrvrW2_lje337QER [https://thehundreds.com/blogs/content/reading-playboy-for-the-articles-13-must-read-journalism-literature-pieces-from-playboy-magazine?srsltid=AfmBOop7TTFvXdg7czCeNqD_0efIQIgFvE3nKpNuwrvrW2_lje337QER] * https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2017/10/playboy-published-gay-short-story-1955-worth-reading/ [https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2017/10/playboy-published-gay-short-story-1955-worth-reading/] * https://journalofethics.ama-assn.org/article/decriminalization-sodomy-united-states/2014-11 [https://journalofethics.ama-assn.org/article/decriminalization-sodomy-united-states/2014-11] * https://www.crmvet.org/nars/6501_mlk_playboy.pdf [https://www.crmvet.org/nars/6501_mlk_playboy.pdf] * https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Playboy_Mansion [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Playboy_Mansion] * https://undercover.hosting.nyu.edu/files/original/5c9de8d1db51cede1395f6d6fa480ca24e872b76.pd [https://undercover.hosting.nyu.edu/files/original/5c9de8d1db51cede1395f6d6fa480ca24e872b76.pdf]f * https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2017/09/29/554574570/hugh-hefner-s-final-resting-place-the-plot-he-bought-next-to-marilyn-monroe [https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2017/09/29/554574570/hugh-hefner-s-final-resting-place-the-plot-he-bought-next-to-marilyn-monroe] * Books: * Sexual Behavior of the Human Female, Alfred Kinsey. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com [https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

A Harlot but Never a Traitor- The Tragedy of Mata Hari

Annie takes us through the tragic (yet very iconic) tale of Mata Hari, the woman falsely accused of espionage and treason against France during WWI and one of the most infamous victims of being “woman’d.” Because, as it turns out, a woman shaking ass can be responsible for the shortcomings of an entire nation. Also this week, Chloe and Annie exercise their superior intellect in finally figuring out the difference between the Dutch, Danish, and Norwegians. Sources: https://hazelstainer.wordpress.com/tag/vadim-maslov/ https://www.friesmuseum.nl/en/collection/icons/mata-hari https://www.history.com/articles/the-exotic-dancer-who-became-wwis-most-notorious-spy This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com [https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Laughing at the Taliban's expense- a look at the oppression of women in Afghanistan

Sources: https://history.state.gov/milestones/1977-1980/soviet-invasion-afghanistan [https://history.state.gov/milestones/1977-1980/soviet-invasion-afghanistan] https://www.britannica.com/topic/Deoband-school [https://www.britannica.com/topic/Deoband-school] https://www.npr.org/2021/09/08/1034754547/taliban-ideology-roots-deobandi-islam-india [https://www.npr.org/2021/09/08/1034754547/taliban-ideology-roots-deobandi-islam-india] https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-16047709 [https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-16047709] https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries-where-burqa-is-mandatory [https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries-where-burqa-is-mandatory]  https://1997-2001.state.gov/global/human_rights/1996_hrp_report/afghanis.html [https://1997-2001.state.gov/global/human_rights/1996_hrp_report/afghanis.html]  https://media.un.org/photo/en/photo-essays/unveiled-history-afghan-womens-rights [https://media.un.org/photo/en/photo-essays/unveiled-history-afghan-womens-rights]  https://genderdata.worldbank.org/en/economies/afghanistan [https://genderdata.worldbank.org/en/economies/afghanistan]  https://www.cfr.org/backgrounders/taliban-afghanistan [https://www.cfr.org/backgrounders/taliban-afghanistan]  https://rukhshana.com/en/i-cant-even-say-my-own-name-how-women-journalists-in-afghanistan-have-been-silenced/ [https://rukhshana.com/en/i-cant-even-say-my-own-name-how-women-journalists-in-afghanistan-have-been-silenced/] https://iwpr.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/C392.pdf [https://iwpr.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/C392.pdf] For links to Afghani women-run journalism: https://rsf.org/en/afghanistan-rsf-calls-continued-support-media-exile-essential-sources-information-face-censorship [https://rsf.org/en/afghanistan-rsf-calls-continued-support-media-exile-essential-sources-information-face-censorship] This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com [https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

The untapped industry of offing your husband- the misogyny of men who kill their wives

This week, join us for a discussion of intimate partner violence through the lens of country music that talks about- you guessed it- killing your spouse. Annie pulls a few iconic lyrics from both male and female country singers to look at the reasons men kill their wives and the very different reasons women kill their husbands. Digressions include trauma of the quail and marmot type. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com [https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]