Ep 14 | Emptying the Family Backpack: Building a Legacy After Losing a Son with Lisa McCullom

Ep 14 | Emptying the Family Backpack: Building a Legacy After Losing a Son with Lisa McCullom

"I can't carry any more. It’s already so heavy." Most high-level leaders are carrying a 20-year-old backpack overstuffed with professional pressure and the "Expert Identity" they used to build their businesses. But what happens when that backpack is filled with a weight that logic cannot shift? In this raw and unfiltered episode, Curtis McCullom is joined by the President of Bespoke Human Potential Coaching—and his wife of 35 years—Lisa McCullom. For the first time, they pull back the curtain on the foundation of the L.G.E.T. Mindset™. This isn't an episode about theory; it’s a masterclass in survival and transformation. Together, they discuss how they utilized Subconscious Surgery to keep from being crushed by the ultimate "backpack": the loss of their son, Adam, five years ago. Inside this episode, you’ll discover: * The Somatic Reality of Grief: How Lisa’s internal "heaviness" manifested as physical weight that no diet or exercise could budge—until she changed her subconscious language. * The Two-Hand Metaphor: A paradigm-shifting tool for leaders to hold profound sadness in one hand and immense gratitude in the other without shrinking their capacity. * The Gift of Grief: How the "Must Change" reality of loss forces a data wipe of the old identity, allowing you to authentically choose who you want to become. * Rapid Neural Surgery: Lisa’s first-hand account of using MER® (Mental and Emotional Release) to clear years of emotional baggage in just 15 minutes. * Integrated Capacity: How to lead a legacy from a "Sanitized Core" even in the midst of life's hardest seasons. If your success is currently costing you your sanctuary, it is time to unbuckle the straps. Connect with Lisa & Curtis: 👉 Book your Subconscious Audit™ (15-Minute Clarity Call): BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com [https://www.google.com/search?q=https://BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com] 🔗 Join the conversation on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtis-mccullom/ Be Legit.

Ep 13 | The Burden of the "Best Employee": Unbuckling the Success Backpack with StoneAge CEO Kerry Siggins

You’ve built the revenue, the status, and the leadership title. So why does it feel so HEAVY? If you are a high-level business owner or CEO, you likely feel like every new win is just another brick added to a backpack you’ve been wearing for twenty years. You think you need a new strategy, but what you actually need is Capacity. In this episode of The (Legit) L.G.E.T. Mindset™ Podcast, Curtis McCullom sits down with Kerry Siggins, CEO of StoneAge and author of The Next Generation Leader. Kerry shares a raw, "Grandmaster" look at the transition from being the "Best Employee" to becoming a truly light, impactful leader. We move past traditional leadership advice into Subconscious Surgery, exploring how the narrative of "not being good enough" creates an invisible ceiling that no amount of logic can surpass. If you are tired of being a "passenger" to your own traumatic cycles, this conversation is your roadmap to a System Data Wipe. Inside this episode, you’ll discover: * The "Best Employee" Trap: Why the very grit and "push" you used to build your business is now the Handbrake keeping you stuck. * Success Fatigue: Identifying the somatic "heaviness" that signals your nervous system has reached its maximum capacity. * The "Not Good Enough" Narrative: How past wounds drive a constant need to perform, prove, and overachieve—and how to sanitize that soil. * Universal Capacity: Based on Ephesians 3:20—why you must empty your internal vessel to make room for the "Immeasurably More." * Leading with Lightness: How Kerry unbuckled the straps of her 20-year-old backpack to lead with Pure Intent. Stop brute-forcing your outcomes. It’s time to trade Success with Pressure for Success with Lightness. Connect with Kerry Siggins: 🔗 LinkedIn: Kerry Siggins [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/] 📘 Book: The Next Generation Leader [https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.kerrysiggins.com/book] Connect with Curtis: 👉 Book your Subconscious Audit™ (15-Minute Clarity Call): BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com [https://www.google.com/search?q=https://BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com] 🔗 Join the conversation on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtis-mccullom/ Be Legit.

Ep 12 | Subconscious Surgery: Transforming Setbacks into Strategic Intuition

What happens when the business you built your entire identity around disappears? For most high-level leaders, a major setback isn't just a financial loss—it’s a physical weight. In this episode, Curtis McCullom sits down with Haren Bhakta, CFA, founder of the Inside Ownership Index, to discuss the raw reality of hitting a "Must Change" state. Haren shares his journey from managing a $6M market cap battle to losing his business in 2020. He describes the 18-month "Success Fatigue" that followed and the grueling process of "clearing the weeds" in his own mind. This is a masterclass in the L.G.E.T. Mindset™—moving from the heavy "Backpack" of past failures to the "Universal Capacity" required to lead a legacy. Inside this episode, you’ll discover: * The $6M Pressure Cooker: The reality of leading a public company through a crisis and the "Invisible Success Tax" it extracts. * The 18-Month Reset: Why Haren had to stop "doing" to start "being" before his next breakthrough could manifest. * Inside Ownership: Why the best investments (and the best leaders) are those with "Skin in the Game" and long-term incentives. * Universal Capacity: Why Haren’s rock bottom was actually a Surgical Data Wipe that created the room for his "Immeasurably More." * The Identity Shift: How to let go of the version of you that "failed" so you can become the version that leads with Lightness. Real success isn’t about avoiding the crash; it’s about the Subconscious Surgery that happens in the aftermath. Connect with Haren Bhakta: 🔗 LinkedIn: Haren Bhakta, CFA [https://www.linkedin.com/in/harenbhakta/] Connect with Curtis: 👉 Book your Subconscious Audit™ (15-Minute Clarity Call): BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com [https://www.google.com/search?q=https://BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com] Be Legit.

Ep 11 | The Physics of Lightness: Why Success Feels Like a Grind

You’ve built the revenue, the status, and the lifestyle. So why does it feel so HEAVY? If you are a high-level business owner or CEO, you likely feel like every new win is just another brick added to a backpack you’ve been wearing for twenty years. You aren't lacking discipline, and you don’t need a new strategy. You are lacking capacity. In this episode of The (Legit) L.G.E.T. Mindset™ Podcast, Curtis McCullom dives into "The Physics of Lightness." We move beyond traditional coaching and into the "Must Change" reality of the Heavy Achiever. If your nervous system is trapped in a constant "doing" conflict, it’s because your subconscious soil is compacted with decades of accumulated pressure, staff betrayals, and midnight doubts. It’s time to perform a "System Data Wipe" and trade Success with Pressure for Success with Lightness. Inside this episode, you’ll discover: * The Backpack State: Why you’re carrying a 20-year "Success Tax" into every board meeting. * The Strategy Trap: Why "better seeds" (new hires and systems) won't work if your subconscious soil is compacted. * The Identity Audit: Why the "Expert Identity" that built your first million is now the "Invisible Ceiling" stopping your next ten. * The Handbrake: How to identify the primary negative emotion that is sabotaging your acceleration. * Universal Capacity: Based on Ephesians 3:20—why you must empty your internal vessel to manifest the "Immeasurably More" promise of your legacy phase. Stop brute-forcing outcomes. It’s time to unbuckle the straps and lead with pure intent. Connect with Curtis: 👉 Book your Subconscious Audit™ (15-Minute Clarity Call): BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com [https://www.google.com/search?q=https://BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com] 🔗 Join the conversation on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtis-mccullom/ Be Legit.

Firing Bullets, Not Cannonballs: Navigating Growth and Mid-Course Corrections with Drew Allen

What do you do when a $400,000 "cannonball" results in zero sales? In this episode of The (Legit) L.G.E.T. Mindset™ Podcast, host Curtis McCullom sits down with Drew Allen, President and CEO of Grace Technologies. Drew provides a masterclass in navigating the high-stakes world of second-generation family business and industrial innovation, sharing the "scar tissue" he earned from one of his most expensive business failures. We explore the transformative concept of "Firing Bullets, Not Cannonballs"—a strategy that allows leaders to iterate, find their target, and de-risk growth before committing massive resources. If you’ve ever felt the pressure to launch big or felt "shackled" by a past mistake, this conversation is for you. IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS: * The $400,000 "Cricket" Moment: Why Drew's biggest product failure became his most valuable lesson in market validation. * Bullets vs. Cannonballs: How to test ideas with small, low-risk "bullets" before launching the "cannonballs" that can sink a ship. * The Danger of the "Bad Position": Why strategic decisions made with your back against the wall are almost always the wrong ones. * The Skill of Forgiveness: Why letting go of past failures is a prerequisite for future success and team trust. * Youthful Knowing vs. Earned Wisdom: Drew’s journey from thinking he had all the answers to realizing the power is in the process. About Our Guest: Drew Allen is the President and CEO of Grace Technologies, a leader in electrical safety and predictive maintenance. Under his leadership, the company has expanded into new markets by merging advanced hardware with intelligent software. Connect with Drew Allen: * LinkedIn: Drew Allen [https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.linkedin.com/in/allen-drew/] * Website: gracetechnologies.com [https://www.gracetechnologies.com] Connect with Curtis McCullom: * Work with Curtis: BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com [https://www.google.com/search?q=https://BespokeHumanPotentialCoaching.com] * Follow the Podcast: The (Legit) L.G.E.T. Mindset™ If this episode helped you rethink your approach to growth, please leave a review and share it with a fellow leader or entrepreneur!