The Rooted Family

Ep 14 | How We Afford a Family of 9 (Part 1: The Mindset That Changed Everything)

53 min · 14 de may de 2026
Portada del episodio Ep 14 | How We Afford a Family of 9 (Part 1: The Mindset That Changed Everything)

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“How do you afford 7 kids?” It’s one of the questions we get asked the most. Because most people assume that more kids automatically means more financial stress. But in many ways, we’ve found the opposite to be true. In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on how we’ve made life work as a family of 9 — mostly on one income for the majority of our marriage — and why we’ve never believed our children were the problem. This conversation isn’t just about budgeting or saving money. It’s about the mindset shifts that changed everything for us: * Why we believe children are a blessing, not a financial burden * How learning stewardship early shaped our marriage * The reason we’ve always prioritized unity around money * Why we ask “How can we make this work?” instead of “Can we afford this?” * How simplicity, generosity, and intentional living have created peace in our home * And why rooted families build their lives around values — not fear We also share stories from our early marriage, living on a very small income, learning to budget together, trusting God in uncertain seasons, and raising children without passing financial fear down to them. Whether you have no kids, one child, or a house full like ours, we hope this episode encourages you to think differently about money, family, and what it really means to build a rooted life. And next week in Part 2, we’re getting REALLY practical — sharing the actual rhythms, budgeting habits, meal planning strategies, and everyday decisions that help us make life work as a family of 9. Resources Mentioned: • Financial Peace University by Dave Ramsey [https://store.ramseysolutions.com/money/financial-peace-university/financial-peace-university?campaign_id=701PY00000HaAOrYAN&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23538631325&gbraid=0AAAAADHboO7z2t6qNrwEnc0s70AdRyEUf&gclid=CjwKCAjwwpDQBhAuEiwAa-4WoxqoZ6eGFGlYJFiuCdI8NuPyddhtfYr-2intjqv3xDkEcT3E_T7weBoCMfoQAvD_BwE] •6-Week Meal Planning Reset (Free) [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/freemealplan] * The Slow & Savor Society [https://legacyrootsco.com/mailclub] (use code PODCAST) for 50% off your first month Connect With Us: Instagram: @KaylaTCornish @Legacyrootsco Website: LegacyRootsCo.com [http://LegacyRootsCo.com] Join The Rooted Dad [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/rooteddad] monthly email community If this episode encouraged you, would you take a moment to leave a review and share it with a friend? Your support helps us continue spreading the message of rooted, intentional family life.

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Portada del episodio Ep 20 | How We Roadtrip with 7 Kids (Without Losing Our Minds)

Ep 20 | How We Roadtrip with 7 Kids (Without Losing Our Minds)

Does the thought of a road trip with kids sound exhausting? Maybe you've convinced yourself it's easier to stay home, fly instead, or wait until your children are older. Between the snacks, the screen time debates, the potty breaks, and the inevitable "Are we there yet?" questions, roadtripping can feel more overwhelming than enjoyable. But what if some of your family's most meaningful memories are waiting between destinations? In this episode, we're sharing why we've continued to choose road trips throughout every season of family life, even with seven kids. We talk about the simple rhythms, traditions, expectations, and practical systems that have helped turn long days in the car into opportunities for connection, conversation, and lasting family memories. In this episode, you'll hear: * Why road trips can offer something that flying often can't * How to know your family's limits in the season you're in * The road trip rules that help keep peace in the car * Simple traditions that give kids something to look forward to * Our favorite tips for snacks, activities, screen time, and packing Whether you're planning a cross-country adventure or a simple day trip this summer, we hope this conversation gives you the confidence to start where you are and enjoy the journey along the way. Resources & Links Join the Slow & Savor Society: legacyrootsco.com/mailclub [http://legacyrootsco.com/mailclub] Connect with us: Instagram: @‌kaylatcornish Website: legacyrootsco.com [http://legacyrootsco.com] Sign-up for our FREE 6-Week Meal Plan Reset [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/freemealplan] Enjoying The Rooted Family Podcast? Would you take 30 seconds to leave a review? Your ratings and reviews help us reach more families and continue creating conversations like this one.

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Portada del episodio Ep 19 | What is a Rooted Dad?: Purposeful, Present, Passionate, and Pastor

Ep 19 | What is a Rooted Dad?: Purposeful, Present, Passionate, and Pastor

How do you become the dad your family actually needs? Most fathers aren't intentionally abandoning their families. They deeply love their wives and children. But somewhere between work, distractions, exhaustion, and the pressures of everyday life, many dads find themselves drifting away from the father they hoped they would become. In this Father's Day episode, we're talking about what it means to be a Rooted Dad—not a perfect dad or a superhero dad, but a father who is deeply rooted in his faith, intentional in his leadership, and present for the people who matter most. We explore four characteristics that define a Rooted Dad: being purposeful, present, passionate, and a pastor to your family. Along the way, we discuss the struggles modern fathers face, why so many men feel inadequate, and how small daily choices can shape a family's legacy for generations. In this episode, you'll hear: • Why many dads slowly drift away from their potential • The difference between being present and simply being around • How healthy passion impacts your marriage and children • What it means to pastor your home without having all the answers • Practical ways to become more intentional in your fatherhood this week If you've ever wondered whether you're becoming the father God is calling you to be, this conversation is for you. Resources & Links: → Join the free Rooted Dad Newsletter [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/rooteddad] → Learn more about Legacy Roots Co. [https://legacyrootsco.com] → Join the Slow & Savor Society. [https://legacyrootsco.com/mailclub/]Use code PODCAST to get 50% off your first month! If this episode encouraged you, would you take a minute to leave a review? It helps us reach more families who are working to build deeper roots.

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Portada del episodio Ep 18 | 3 Summer Rhythms That Matter More Than Your Bucket List

Ep 18 | 3 Summer Rhythms That Matter More Than Your Bucket List

What if the moments that shape your family most aren't the big trips, special outings, or activities on the calendar—but the ordinary moments in between? Many parents head into summer carrying a burden they were never meant to carry: the pressure to create the perfect summer. Between bucket lists, vacations, camps, and endless ideas online, it's easy to feel like you need to constantly entertain your kids or make every day memorable. But what if a meaningful summer isn't built through more activities? What if it's built through simple rhythms that create peace, connection, and space for your family to actually enjoy being together? In this episode, we share three summer rhythms that have made a significant difference in our home. These rhythms help reduce daily stress, create opportunities for deeper family connection, and make the special moments of summer even sweeter. Because while bucket lists create moments, rhythms create culture. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL HEAR: • Why the atmosphere of your home matters more than the activities on your calendar • How a simple lunch rhythm can reduce stress and decision fatigue • Why quiet time helps children develop creativity, independence, and rest • How family connection rhythms create lasting memories and stronger relationships • Why extraordinary moments are supported by ordinary rhythms If you're longing for a slower, more intentional summer, this conversation will help you focus on what matters most. RESOURCES MENTIONED • Episode 12: [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-12-the-daily-reset-your-family-might-be-missing/id1876353563?i=1000764726819]The Daily Reset Your Family Might Be Missing * FREE Summer Lunch Meal Plan Guide [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/p0xvqa9ck6] * Join The Slow & Savor Society. [https://www.legacyrootsco.com/mailclub] Use code PODCAST to get 50% off your first month! ENJOYING THE ROOTED FAMILY PODCAST? Leaving a review is one of the best ways to help other families discover the show. Thank you for listening and sharing these conversations with others. CONNECT WITH US! WEBSITE: LEGACYROOTSCO.COM [http://LegacyRootsCo.com] INSTAGRAM @LEGACYROOTSCO @KAYLATCORNISH

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Portada del episodio Ep 17 | Why We Couldn't Relax on Sabbath (Until We Started Doing This)

Ep 17 | Why We Couldn't Relax on Sabbath (Until We Started Doing This)

Have you ever stopped working… but still felt like you couldn't relax? Maybe you've tried taking a Sabbath. Maybe you've blocked off the time, put away your to-do list, and told yourself it was time to rest. But instead of feeling refreshed, your mind kept racing, your body stayed tense, and it felt like you never fully made the transition from work into rest. We know that feeling because we've lived it. In this episode, we're sharing the simple rhythm that changed our Sabbath experience: our weekly Sabbath Kickoff. We talk about why we realized that stopping work wasn't enough, how we learned to intentionally mark the beginning of rest, and the practical steps we take every Friday night to help our whole family slow down together. You'll hear: • Why transitions matter more than most people realize • How a clear boundary helps you leave work behind • The Sabbath Kickoff rhythm we use every week • How we involve our children in the process • Simple ideas you can adapt for your own family, even if you're brand new to Sabbath Whether you're already practicing Sabbath or simply longing for more peace, margin, and presence in your week, we hope this conversation inspires you to create a meaningful transition from striving into rest. Because Sabbath isn't just about stopping work. It's about entering rest. CONNECT WITH US Website: LegacyRootsCo.com [http://LegacyRootsCo.com] Instagram: @legacyrootsco Instagram: @kaylatcornish MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Free Download --> 30 Table Conversation Questions [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/30-questions] Join The Slow & Savor Society (use promo code PODCAST for 50% off your first month) [https://www.legacyrootsco.com/mailclub] If this episode encouraged you, we'd be so grateful if you would leave a review and share it with a friend. Your reviews help more families discover The Rooted Family Podcast and join us on the journey toward a more intentional, Christ-centered life.

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Portada del episodio Ep 16 | Why Friendships Feel Harder in Your 30s (And How to Build Deep Community)

Ep 16 | Why Friendships Feel Harder in Your 30s (And How to Build Deep Community)

Why does friendship suddenly feel so much harder in your 30s and 40s? Why does it seem like everyone wants deeper community… but nobody actually has time for it anymore? In this episode, we’re talking honestly about the loneliness, drift, and disconnect so many adults quietly feel — and the intentional rhythms that have helped us build deep, lasting friendships through 14 years of marriage, seven kids, multiple moves, and very full seasons of life. Because meaningful friendship in adulthood usually doesn’t happen accidentally anymore. It has to be built intentionally. In this conversation, we share practical ways we’ve cultivated rooted friendships over the years, including: * Why friendships often drift apart in adulthood * The importance of being the initiator instead of waiting for invitations * How hosting rhythms and recurring gatherings have shaped our community * Why “rhythms without timestamps” don’t exist * The difference between dedicated friendship rhythms and open-space rhythms * How we think about daily, weekly, monthly, and seasonal relationships * The role vulnerability, consistency, and follow-through play in deep friendship * And how to begin building community again — even if you feel lonely or discouraged right now We also share personal stories from our years in college, Wisconsin, Asheville, and now Colorado — including the monthly dinner rhythm that led to one of the deepest friendships in our lives. At the end of the day, this episode is really about hope. Deep, rooted friendship is still possible in your 30s and 40s and beyond. But it often requires intentionality, courage, hospitality, and a willingness to go first. Resources Mentioned: • How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie • Settlers of Catan game nights * Sign up for our free 6-Week Meal Planning Reset [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/freemealplan] * Join The Slow & Savor Society [https://www.legacyrootsco.com/mailclub], and use code PODCAST for 50% off your first month Connect With Us: Instagram: @KaylaTCornish Website: LegacyRootsCo.com [http://LegacyRootsCo.com] Podcast Instagram: @Legacyrootsco If this episode encouraged you, would you take a moment to leave a review and share it with a friend? Your support helps us continue spreading the message of rooted, intentional family life.

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