The Rooted Family

Ep 15 | How We Afford a Family of 9 (Part 2: Practical Ways We Make It Work)

“How do you actually make a family of 9 work financially?” After sharing the mindset shifts that shaped our family in Part 1 (Ep 14) [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-14-how-we-afford-a-family-of-9-part-1-the/id1876353563?i=1000767745892], today we’re getting REALLY practical. Because while peace with money doesn’t come from how much you make, it does require intentional rhythms, wise stewardship, and everyday decisions that support the life you’re trying to build. In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the actual systems and habits that help our family live with peace financially — even in seasons where money has been tight. This conversation isn’t about perfection or extreme frugality. It’s about building a more rooted way of living through practical rhythms like: * Creating a monthly budget rhythm and weekly money check-ins * Avoiding unnecessary debt and learning to live within our means * Meal planning in a way that dramatically reduces stress and overspending * Simplifying our home, kids’ toys, technology, and lifestyle choices * Prioritizing experiences, togetherness, and outdoor life over constant consumption * And learning how to live open-handed with generosity in every season We also share stories from our own journey — from buying used vehicles in cash, to budgeting through job loss seasons, to raising seven kids without constantly feeling like we have to keep up with the expectations of modern culture. At the end of the day, this episode isn’t just about money. It’s about creating a peaceful, intentional, deeply rooted family life that aligns with your values and honors what matters most. Resources Mentioned: • Financial Peace University by Dave Ramsey [https://store.ramseysolutions.com/money/financial-peace-university/financial-peace-university?campaign_id=701PY00000HaAOrYAN&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23538631325&gbraid=0AAAAADHboO5PmuWpjShCprYdajDcLhHGA&gclid=CjwKCAjwt7XQBhBkEiwAtStpp4WeeLWv7JOSqoy17qqjJr6f4DxyB8K16KHaL5qQt0P6-Zf-fJIItxoCwTkQAvD_BwE] • EveryDollar budgeting app [https://www.ramseysolutions.com/money/everydollar?srsltid=AfmBOors1BNIH1cjNbQMrA2v0kr8uUF2yxVkCbu40P3Vrb9AUEGnjkxe] • Zero-based budgeting [https://www.ramseysolutions.com/budgeting/how-to-make-a-zero-based-budget] • FREE 6-Week Meal Planning Resource [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/freemealplan] Connect With Us: Instagram: @KaylaTCornish Website: LegacyRootsCo.com [http://LegacyRootsCo.com] Podcast Instagram: @Legacyrootsco If this episode encouraged you, would you take a moment to leave a review and share it with a friend? Your support helps us continue spreading the message of rooted, intentional family life.

Ep 14 | How We Afford a Family of 9 (Part 1: The Mindset That Changed Everything)

“How do you afford 7 kids?” It’s one of the questions we get asked the most. Because most people assume that more kids automatically means more financial stress. But in many ways, we’ve found the opposite to be true. In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on how we’ve made life work as a family of 9 — mostly on one income for the majority of our marriage — and why we’ve never believed our children were the problem. This conversation isn’t just about budgeting or saving money. It’s about the mindset shifts that changed everything for us: * Why we believe children are a blessing, not a financial burden * How learning stewardship early shaped our marriage * The reason we’ve always prioritized unity around money * Why we ask “How can we make this work?” instead of “Can we afford this?” * How simplicity, generosity, and intentional living have created peace in our home * And why rooted families build their lives around values — not fear We also share stories from our early marriage, living on a very small income, learning to budget together, trusting God in uncertain seasons, and raising children without passing financial fear down to them. Whether you have no kids, one child, or a house full like ours, we hope this episode encourages you to think differently about money, family, and what it really means to build a rooted life. And next week in Part 2, we’re getting REALLY practical — sharing the actual rhythms, budgeting habits, meal planning strategies, and everyday decisions that help us make life work as a family of 9. Resources Mentioned: • Financial Peace University by Dave Ramsey [https://store.ramseysolutions.com/money/financial-peace-university/financial-peace-university?campaign_id=701PY00000HaAOrYAN&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23538631325&gbraid=0AAAAADHboO7z2t6qNrwEnc0s70AdRyEUf&gclid=CjwKCAjwwpDQBhAuEiwAa-4WoxqoZ6eGFGlYJFiuCdI8NuPyddhtfYr-2intjqv3xDkEcT3E_T7weBoCMfoQAvD_BwE] •6-Week Meal Planning Reset (Free) [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/freemealplan] * The Slow & Savor Society [https://legacyrootsco.com/mailclub] (use code PODCAST) for 50% off your first month Connect With Us: Instagram: @KaylaTCornish @Legacyrootsco Website: LegacyRootsCo.com [http://LegacyRootsCo.com] Join The Rooted Dad [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/rooteddad] monthly email community If this episode encouraged you, would you take a moment to leave a review and share it with a friend? Your support helps us continue spreading the message of rooted, intentional family life.

Ep 13 | When God Asks You to Let Go of Something Good

Discerning God’s voice in big decisions. What do you do when God asks you to let go of something good? When life finally feels settled…and yet you sense Him calling you into something unknown? How do you know if it’s really God—and how do you say yes when it costs you everything? ---------------------------------------- 🏔️ WHAT THIS EPISODE IS ABOUT In this episode, we share how we discerned God’s voice in a life-changing decision to move our family from Asheville, North Carolina to Pagosa Springs, Colorado—a place we had never been. We had just bought our dream home, built deep community, and had no logical reason to leave. But through prayer, wise counsel, and unexpected open doors, we knew God was asking us to take a step of faith. If you’re facing a big decision, this episode will help you learn how to discern God’s voice with both faith and wisdom. In this episode, we cover: * How to know when God is asking you to take a leap of faith * How to discern God’s voice in big decisions * What to do when God’s plan doesn’t make sense * The role of prayer, stillness, and wise counsel * How to recognize open doors (and not rush them) * Why peace and fear can exist at the same time ---------------------------------------- 🎧 RESOURCES & LINKS * Building Roots (HGTV) [https://www.youtube.com/show/SCJO5QM3yV49ONGl4oiWENzA?sbp=KgtGM0hEem9qOGRlQUAB] * Sharing our Asheville story on The Leap of Faith Podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/kayla-cornish-knowing-your-roots-establishing-rhythms/id1601497435?i=1000626937525] ---------------------------------------- 🤍 CONNECT WITH US * Instagram: @kaylatcornish @legacyrootsco @legacyrootsstudio * Sign-up for our FREE 6-Week Meal Plan Reset [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/freemealplan] * Join The Rooted Dad free monthly newsletter [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/rooteddad] * Website: www.legacyrootsco.com [http://www.legacyrootsco.com] * Join The Slow & Savor Society. [https://www.legacyrootsco.com/mailclub] ---------------------------------------- If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone walking through a big decision. On the other side of your obedience might be a life you didn’t even know to dream of.

Ep 12 | The Daily Reset Your Family Might Be Missing (Our Quiet Afternoon Rhythm with 7 Kids)

What if your child’s meltdown… isn’t disobedience— but exhaustion? And what if one simple rhythm in the middle of your day could completely change the atmosphere of your home? ---------------------------------------- 🎙️ Episode Overview In this episode, we’re sharing one of the most foundational rhythms in our home: quiet afternoons. With seven kids, this hasn’t always been easy—but it has been one of the most powerful ways we’ve learned to protect peace in our family. Most of us move through the day in constant “go mode”—handling responsibilities, responding to needs, and pushing through without ever truly slowing down. And over time, that pace catches up to us. We see it in ourselves… and we see it in our kids. Afternoon meltdowns, irritability, overstimulation—it’s often not just behavior. It’s a lack of rest. We’ll walk you through what quiet time actually looks like in our home, why it matters more than most parents realize, and how to start building this rhythm in your own family—even if your days feel full. ---------------------------------------- 🌿 What You’ll Hear in This Episode * Why constant “go mode” leads to overwhelm * The connection between rest and emotional regulation * How to implement quiet time (even with resistant kids) * The biggest mistakes parents make with naps and quiet time * Simple ways to create a daily reset in your home ---------------------------------------- 🌱 Take the Next Step Try this for one week: Pick a consistent time (even 30–60 minutes), set clear expectations, and hold the boundary. Consistency—not perfection—is what creates peace. ---------------------------------------- 💬 Connect With Us We’d love to hear from you—what part of this episode resonated most? Find us on Instagram: @KaylaTCornish @Legacyrootsco Join The Slow & Savor Society [https://www.legacyrootsco.com/mailclub](our monthly snail mail club) Download the FREE 6-Week Meal Planning Reset [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/freemealplan] Visit our website at legacyrootsco.com [http://legacyrootsco.com] ---------------------------------------- ⭐️ If This Episode Encouraged You… It would mean so much if you left a review or shared this episode with another parent. 🎉 Leave a review by the end of May 2026 to be entered into our Amazon giveaway—and you might hear your review featured on a future episode 💛

Ep 11 | The Invisible Stress Parents Carry (and How to Actually Break Free)

You might feel fine… but your body could be living in a constant state of stress. If you’re a parent who feels tired, overwhelmed, or always “on,” this episode will help you understand why—and how to finally find real rest. ---------------------------------------- 🎙️ EPISODE OVERVIEW In this episode, we’re talking about the invisible stress of parenthood—the kind of hidden stress that builds quietly while you’re raising kids, managing a home, and carrying the mental and emotional load of everyday life. Many parents don’t even realize how much stress they’re holding, because it feels normal. But over time, that constant pressure can leave you feeling: * exhausted * overstimulated * and unable to truly rest We share a personal look into what we’ve been walking through in this season, how we discovered our own hidden stress, and what it looks like to shift from simply “getting through the day” to actually living in a more restful, restorative rhythm. If you’ve ever wondered why you feel tired even when you try to rest… this episode will connect the dots. ---------------------------------------- 🌿 WHAT YOU’LL HEAR IN THIS EPISODE * The hidden stress most parents carry (without realizing it) * Why you can feel “fine” but still be living in a constant stress response * The difference between relaxing vs. restoring your body * How chronic stress impacts your energy, emotions, and daily life * Why unprocessed stress builds over time (and doesn’t just go away) * Simple daily rhythms to reduce stress and feel more grounded * Surprising phone habits that are increasing your stress * Practical ways to create more peace, calm, and rest as a parent ---------------------------------------- 🤍 OUR HEART BEHIND THIS EPISODE We’re not sharing this from a place of having it all figured out. We’re sharing this as parents who are actively learning how to slow down, become more aware of what we’re carrying, and live in a way that reflects the peace God offers. If you’ve been feeling stretched thin or constantly “on,” we want you to know—you’re not alone. And there is a different way to live. ---------------------------------------- 🎁 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👉 The Busy Mom's Peaceful Daily Checklist (Create daily rhythms of peace and rest) [https://legacyroots.myflodesk.com/peacefulchecklist] 👉 My Oura Ring 10% Discount [https://ouraring.com/discount/23a928c42d?utm_source=user&utm_medium=iac_raf&utm_type=alwayson-cvr&utm_campaign=2026RAF&utm_variant=2026_raf_mar] (Limited to first 10 people) ---------------------------------------- 🌱 TAKE THE NEXT STEP Pause today and ask yourself: Where am I carrying stress that I haven’t acknowledged? Then choose one simple, restorative rhythm to try this week: like a morning quiet time, a short walk, or putting your phone away first thing in the morning. Small shifts lead to real change. ---------------------------------------- 💬 CONNECT WITH US We would love to hear from you! What part of this episode resonated most with you? Send us a message on Instagram @KaylaTCornish or @Legacyrootsco or leave a comment—we read every one. ---------------------------------------- ⭐️ IF THIS EPISODE ENCOURAGED YOU… It would mean so much if you left a review or shared this episode with another parent who feels overwhelmed or constantly “on.” You’re helping more families find a slower, more intentional way of living. 🌿