Dry Seasons

Accountability: Who Gon' Check Me, Boo?

Who gon’ check you, boo? In this episode of The Unraveled Pod, Tierra and Stephanie get honest about accountability, correction, character, boundaries, and the moments when “helping” people turns into trying to control them. This conversation starts with a simple question: who in your life is allowed to hold you accountable? But it quickly unravels into something deeper. How do you receive correction without becoming defensive? Who actually has access to speak into your life? Can someone with bad motives still tell you the truth? And what happens when the person you keep trying to help is not ready to change? Tierra and Stephanie unpack why accountability requires a standard, how idols reveal themselves through secrecy and defensiveness, why some people reject correction, and how compassion fatigue can expose where you have taken on responsibility God never gave you. This episode is for anyone who wants to grow, but also for the fixer, the over-helper, the strong friend, the one who keeps repeating the same advice, and the one who needs to finally admit: their life is their responsibility, and mine is mine. Because accountability does not start with everybody else. It starts with you.

The Grace Gap

Stay connected + Work with us: Tierra Sade Certified Disruption Coach | Speaker | Creator Helping high-functioning believers break toxic cycles, reset their confidence, and live boldly in purpose. Follow: @thetierrasade on IG & @tierrasade on TikTok Shop: Disruption Decks: disruptionshop.myshopify.com/ Stephanie Alexis Licensed Mental Health Therapist | Founder of Arabella Counseling Serving residents across Texas with compassionate, client centered services Follow: @officialstephaniealexis on IG & TikTok Book a Session or Learn More: www.arabellacouns.com

Certified Lover Girl

What does it really mean to be a Certified Lover Girl? Is it romance? Softness? Being obsessed with love? Or have we romanticized unhealthy relationship patterns and called them normal? In this episode, we're unraveling the difference between being a woman who loves deeply and becoming a woman who loses herself in the pursuit of love. We talk about boundaries, emotional availability, dating with intention, why so many people keep repeating the same relationship cycles, and the hard truth about doing second things first. If you've ever found yourself chasing potential, ignoring red flags, leading with emotions, or wondering why your relationships keep ending the same way, this conversation is for you. Topics we cover: • Boundaries vs. requests • Why chemistry isn't enough • Dating from fantasy versus dating from data • The danger of making relationships your identity • Emotional highs versus healthy love • Commitment, intimacy, and God's design for relationships • How to protect your heart without hardening it • What it means to love wisely This one might step on a few toes, but sometimes healing starts there.

Dry Seasons

Sometimes following God feels passionate, intimate, and full of clarity. Other times it feels dry, quiet, uncomfortable, and honestly… hard. In this episode, Tierra and Stephanie have a raw conversation about wilderness seasons, spiritual dryness, emotional numbness, and what happens when God begins refining the parts of us we’d rather avoid. They discuss divorce, disappointment, pruning, spiritual apathy, idols, discomfort, and why some seasons with God feel barren on purpose. This conversation is for the person who still loves God but doesn’t “feel” Him the same right now. The person wondering if they did something wrong. The person trying to survive a season that feels uncertain, lonely, or spiritually exhausting. The wilderness is not punishment. It’s preparation. And if you let Him, God will use this season to transform you instead of destroy you. Stay connected + Work with us: Tierra Sade Certified Disruption Coach | Speaker | Creator Helping high-functioning believers break toxic cycles, reset their confidence, and live boldly in purpose. Follow: @thetierrasade on IG & @tierrasade on TikTok Shop: Disruption Decks: disruptionshop.myshopify.com/ Stephanie Alexis Licensed Mental Health Therapist | Founder of Arabella Counseling Serving residents across Texas with compassionate, client centered services Follow: @officialstephaniealexis on IG & TikTok Book a Session or Learn More: www.arabellacouns.com

Jealous Friends

Let’s be honest. One of the hardest things to admit is that someone you love may secretly be jealous of you… or that you’ve wrestled with jealousy yourself.In this episode, we’re unraveling friendship, comparison, insecurity, discernment, and the subtle ways jealousy can show up in relationships. From backhanded compliments to weird energy when you’re winning, we unpack the signs we often ignore and why unmanaged insecurity can quietly damage even long-term friendships.We also talk about the difference between admiration and envy, how comparison steals your peace, and why healing your own heart matters more than competing with the next woman. This conversation gets personal, funny, emotional, and deeply rooted in faith as we discuss self-awareness, prayer, discernment, and the importance of keeping your heart pure in every season. If you’ve ever felt tension in a friendship, struggled with comparison, or realized someone’s discomfort with you had nothing to do with you at all… this episode is for you. Stay connected + Work with us: Tierra SadeCertified Disruption Coach | Speaker | CreatorHelping high-functioning believers break toxic cycles, reset their confidence, and live boldly in purpose.Follow: @thetierrasade on IG & @tierrasade on TikTokShop: Disruption Decks: disruptionshop.myshopify.com/ Stephanie AlexisLicensed Mental Health Therapist | Founder of Arabella CounselingServing residents across Texas with compassionate, client centered servicesFollow: @officialstephaniealexis on IG & TikTokBook a Session or Learn More: www.arabellacouns.com