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Caught on Camera: Cheaters, Surveillance, and the Spectacle of Betrayal

53 min · 19 de may de 2026
Portada del episodio Caught on Camera: Cheaters, Surveillance, and the Spectacle of Betrayal

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Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966216/fan_mail/new] If you’ve been listening to this podcast for a while, you know we usually live in the deep end of… everything. Politics, policy, democracy on fire, institutions crumbling—you know, light, breezy stuff. And look—we’re not abandoning that. The world is still doing whatever this is. But every once in a while, for our own sanity—and frankly, yours—we need a break. Not a “head in the sand” break. More like a “let’s examine something chaotic, ridiculous, and deeply revealing… but also kind of funny” break. Because sometimes the best way to understand society… is to watch people sprint across a parking lot while being chased by a camera crew.  Cheaters and the sinister normalisation of our surveillance society | Naomi Wolf | The Guardian [https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/nov/26/cheaters-sinister-normalisation-surveillance-society?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Cheaters host Joey Greco’s stabbing was staged, paid actor says [https://www.realityblurred.com/realitytv/2009/11/other-shows-cheaters_staged/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] This Wild 2000s Reality Show Allegedly Faked a Stabbing [https://collider.com/cheaters-reality-show-stabbing/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] With Joey Greco of 'Cheaters' - Los Angeles Times [https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2009-dec-13-la-ca-conversation13-2009dec13-story.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Atkins, D. C., Baucom, D. H., & Jacobson, N. S. (2001). Understanding infidelity: Correlates in a national sample. Journal of Family Psychology, 15(4), 735–749.  [https://doi.org/10.1037/0893-3200.15.4.735] Brown, B. (2006). Shame resilience theory: A grounded theory study on women and shame. Families in Society: The Journal of Contemporary Social Services, 87(1), 43–52.  [https://doi.org/10.1606/1044-3894.3483] Coyle, P., Van Doorn, G., Teese, R., & Dye, J. (2025). Adverse childhood experiences and infidelity: The mediating roles of anxious and avoidant attachment styles. Family Process. ⚑ verify publication date Festinger, L. (1954). A theory of social comparison processes. Human Relations, 7(2), 117–140.  [https://doi.org/10.1177/001872675400700202] Freyd, J. J. (1996). Betrayal trauma: The logic of forgetting childhood abuse. Harvard University Press. Ghiasi, N., Rasoal, D., Haseli, A., & Feli, R. (2023). The interplay of attachment styles and marital infidelity: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Heliyon, 10(1), e23261.  [https://doi.org/10.1016/j.heliyon.2023.e23261] Glass, S. P., & Staeheli, J. C. (2003). Not just friends: Protect your relationship from infidelity and heal the trauma of betrayal. Free Press. Gordon, K. C., Baucom, D. H., & Snyder, D. K. (2004). An integrative intervention for promoting recovery from extramarital affairs. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 30(2), 213–231.  [https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1752-0606.2004.tb01235.x] Gottman, J. M. (2011). The science of trust: Emotional attunement for couples. W. W. Norton & Company. Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (2012). What makes love last? How to build trust and avoid betrayal. Simon & Schuster. Knopp, K., Scott, S., Ritchie, L., Rhoades, G. K., Markman, H. J., & Stanley, S. M. (2017). Once a cheater, always a cheater? Serial infidelity across subsequent relationships. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 46(8), 2301–2311 Marín, R. A., Christensen, A., & Atkins, D. C. (2014). Infidelity and behavioral couple therapy: Relationship outcomes over 5 years following therapy. Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, 3(1), 1–12. Ortman, D. C. (n.d.). Transcending post-infidelity stress disorder (PISD): The six stages of healing. ⚑ verify full title, publisher, and publication year Perel, E. (2017). The state of affairs: Rethinking infidelity. Harper Collins. Real, T. (1997). I don't want to talk about it: Overcoming the secret legacy of male depression. Scribner. Real, T. (2022). Us: Getting past you and me to build a more loving relationship. Rodale Books. Tangney, J. P., Stuewig, J., Mashek, D., & Hastings, M. (2011). Assessing jail inmates' proneness to shame and guilt: Feeling bad about the behavior or the self? Criminal Justice and Behavior, 38(7), 710–734.  [https://doi.org/10.1177/0093854811405762]

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Portada del episodio Ghosts of the Invisible Empire: The History of the KKK, Memory Wars, and the Psychology of Extremism

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Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966216/fan_mail/new] In 1925, forty thousand robed Klansmen marched down Pennsylvania Avenue in broad daylight. By then, the Klan wasn't a fringe movement—it was mainstream. It elected governors and mayors, and for many Americans, membership was a sign of status, not shame. We're talking about it now because history has a way of repeating itself. As extremist groups become more visible under the current presidential administration and some on the right try to rewrite the Klan's history by claiming it was simply a movement of "the left," it's worth looking at what the Klan actually was, how it gained power, and what finally brought it down. - Jones, Ja'han. "The MAGA movement's KKK revisionism is revealing." *MS NOW* (Opinion), May 2026. https://www.ms.now/opinion/the-maga-movements-kkk-revisionism-is-revealing  **On the SPLC's 2025 Year in Hate & Extremism report and its "from extreme to establishment" framing:**  - "SPLC Releases Annual Year in Hate & Extremism Report." Southern Poverty Law Center, June 9, 2026. https://www.splcenter.org/presscenter/annual-year-hate-extremism-report-hard-right-groups-power-government/  - "Hate Map." Southern Poverty Law Center. https://www.splcenter.org/hate-map/  - "Frequently asked questions about hate and antigovernment groups." Southern Poverty Law Center, March 2026. https://www.splcenter.org/resources/guides/frequently-asked-questions-about-hate-and-antigovernment-groups/  - "SPLC's latest 'Year in Hate' report details shift 'From Extreme to Establishment' in Gulf South." WWNO, June 26, 2026. https://www.wwno.org/local-regional-news/2026-06-26/splcs-latest-year-in-hate-report-details-shift-from-extreme-to-establishment-in-gulf-south  - "SPLC report warns of far-right extremism in Alabama." Alabama Political Reporter (APR), June 2026. https://www.alreporter.com/2026/06/15/splc-report-warns-of-far-right-extremism-in-alabama/  **On the SPLC's federal indictment and the congressional hearing pushback:**  - "SPLC releases 'Year in Hate' report amid House grilling over fraud indictment." Courthouse News Service, June 2026. https://www.courthousenews.com/splc-releases-year-in-hate-report-amid-house-grilling-over-fraud-indictment/  **On methodological criticism of SPLC-derived extremism research:**  - "CSIS Study on Right-Wing Extremism Under Scrutiny for Relying on SPLC Data, Critics Say It Distorts Threat Landscape." political.org, May 1, 2026. https://political.org/2026/05/01/csis-study-on-right-wing-extremism-under-scrutiny-for-relying-on-splc-data-critics-say-it-distorts-threat-landscape/ **Books referenced on 1920s Klan history and its parallels to MAGA (discussed in the episode, not directly quoted):**  - Egan, Timothy. *A Fever in the Heartland: The Ku Klux Klan's Plot to Take Over America, and the Woman Who Stopped Them.* Viking, 2023. (As discussed in: "'A Fever in the Heartland' links Klan history to MAGA movement." *National Catholic Reporter*, August 2023. https://www.ncronline.org/culture/book-reviews/fever-heartland-links-klan-history-maga-movement)  - Gordon, Linda. *The Second Coming of the KKK: The Ku Klux Klan of the 1920s and the American Political Tradition.* Liveright, 2017.  **Additional commentary on Klan/MAGA historical parallels consulted for framing (presented in the episode as one side of a contested argument, not as settled fact):**  - "Opinion: A direct line from the Ku Klux Klan to MAGA." *Concord Monitor*, July 24, 2023. https://www.concordmonitor.com/2023/07/24/my-turn-the-direct-line-from-the-ku-klux-klan-to-maga-51688420/  - "From White Hoods to Red Hats: How MAGA revives the ideological legacy of the Klan in Trump's America." *Milwaukee Independent*, April 7, 2025. https://www.milwaukeeindependent.com/editorial/white-hoods-red-hats-maga-revives-ideological-legacy-klan-trumps-america/  - "The MAGA movement is a KKK re-up. The latest Jan. 6 hearing proves it." *MS NOW* (The ReidOut Blog), 2022. https://www.ms.now/the-reidout/reidout-blog/summary-jan-6-hearing-kkk-rcna37960  - Barbero, Andrew Scott. "Republican Klansmen: The Ku Klux Klan and the Grand Old Party in Prohibition-Era Indiana." Dissertation, Southern Illinois University. https://opensiuc.lib.siu.edu/dissertations/2236/  **Psychological and sociological frameworks referenced (standard academic literature, not drawn from the above news sources):**  - Tajfel, Henri, and John Turner. Social Identity Theory (1970s work on minimal group paradigm).  - Adorno, Theodor W., et al. *The Authoritarian Personality* (1950). Later revised in: Altemeyer, Bob. Work on right-wing authoritarianism (RWA scale).  - Mutz, Diana C. "Status threat, not economic hardship, explains the 2016 presidential vote." *Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences*, 2018.  - Bandura, Albert. Moral disengagement theory (multiple works, e.g., *Moral Disengagement: How People Do Harm and Live with Themselves*, 2016).  - Arendt, Hannah. *Eichmann in Jerusalem: A Report on the Banality of Evil* (1963).  - Moghaddam, Fathali M. "The Staircase to Terrorism: A Psychological Exploration." *American Psychologist*, 2005.  - Solomon, Sheldon, Jeff Greenberg, and Tom Pyszczynski. Terror Management Theory (multiple works since the late 1980s).  - McAdam, Doug. Political process model of social movements (e.g., *Political Process and the Development of Black Insurgency, 1930–1970*, 1982).  *Note: the psychological and sociological theory citations above reflect well-established academic literature drawn from general knowledge rather than the web searches conducted for this script; readers should consult the original papers/books directly for full citations and any subsequent scholarly debate or revision.*

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Portada del episodio Caught on Camera: Cheaters, Surveillance, and the Spectacle of Betrayal

Caught on Camera: Cheaters, Surveillance, and the Spectacle of Betrayal

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966216/fan_mail/new] If you’ve been listening to this podcast for a while, you know we usually live in the deep end of… everything. Politics, policy, democracy on fire, institutions crumbling—you know, light, breezy stuff. And look—we’re not abandoning that. The world is still doing whatever this is. But every once in a while, for our own sanity—and frankly, yours—we need a break. Not a “head in the sand” break. More like a “let’s examine something chaotic, ridiculous, and deeply revealing… but also kind of funny” break. Because sometimes the best way to understand society… is to watch people sprint across a parking lot while being chased by a camera crew.  Cheaters and the sinister normalisation of our surveillance society | Naomi Wolf | The Guardian [https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/nov/26/cheaters-sinister-normalisation-surveillance-society?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Cheaters host Joey Greco’s stabbing was staged, paid actor says [https://www.realityblurred.com/realitytv/2009/11/other-shows-cheaters_staged/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] This Wild 2000s Reality Show Allegedly Faked a Stabbing [https://collider.com/cheaters-reality-show-stabbing/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] With Joey Greco of 'Cheaters' - Los Angeles Times [https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2009-dec-13-la-ca-conversation13-2009dec13-story.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Atkins, D. C., Baucom, D. H., & Jacobson, N. S. (2001). Understanding infidelity: Correlates in a national sample. Journal of Family Psychology, 15(4), 735–749.  [https://doi.org/10.1037/0893-3200.15.4.735] Brown, B. (2006). Shame resilience theory: A grounded theory study on women and shame. Families in Society: The Journal of Contemporary Social Services, 87(1), 43–52.  [https://doi.org/10.1606/1044-3894.3483] Coyle, P., Van Doorn, G., Teese, R., & Dye, J. (2025). Adverse childhood experiences and infidelity: The mediating roles of anxious and avoidant attachment styles. Family Process. ⚑ verify publication date Festinger, L. (1954). A theory of social comparison processes. Human Relations, 7(2), 117–140.  [https://doi.org/10.1177/001872675400700202] Freyd, J. J. (1996). Betrayal trauma: The logic of forgetting childhood abuse. Harvard University Press. Ghiasi, N., Rasoal, D., Haseli, A., & Feli, R. (2023). The interplay of attachment styles and marital infidelity: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Heliyon, 10(1), e23261.  [https://doi.org/10.1016/j.heliyon.2023.e23261] Glass, S. P., & Staeheli, J. C. (2003). Not just friends: Protect your relationship from infidelity and heal the trauma of betrayal. Free Press. Gordon, K. C., Baucom, D. H., & Snyder, D. K. (2004). An integrative intervention for promoting recovery from extramarital affairs. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 30(2), 213–231.  [https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1752-0606.2004.tb01235.x] Gottman, J. M. (2011). The science of trust: Emotional attunement for couples. W. W. Norton & Company. Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (2012). What makes love last? How to build trust and avoid betrayal. Simon & Schuster. Knopp, K., Scott, S., Ritchie, L., Rhoades, G. K., Markman, H. J., & Stanley, S. M. (2017). Once a cheater, always a cheater? Serial infidelity across subsequent relationships. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 46(8), 2301–2311 Marín, R. A., Christensen, A., & Atkins, D. C. (2014). Infidelity and behavioral couple therapy: Relationship outcomes over 5 years following therapy. Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, 3(1), 1–12. Ortman, D. C. (n.d.). Transcending post-infidelity stress disorder (PISD): The six stages of healing. ⚑ verify full title, publisher, and publication year Perel, E. (2017). The state of affairs: Rethinking infidelity. Harper Collins. Real, T. (1997). I don't want to talk about it: Overcoming the secret legacy of male depression. Scribner. Real, T. (2022). Us: Getting past you and me to build a more loving relationship. Rodale Books. Tangney, J. P., Stuewig, J., Mashek, D., & Hastings, M. (2011). Assessing jail inmates' proneness to shame and guilt: Feeling bad about the behavior or the self? Criminal Justice and Behavior, 38(7), 710–734.  [https://doi.org/10.1177/0093854811405762]

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