From the Playing Field to Everyday Life: The Psychology of Thriving

From the Playing Field to Everyday Life: The Psychology of Thriving

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2443854/fan_mail/new] High performance isn't reserved for professional athletes. In this episode of Thursday Tea with Sami, I sit down with Dr. Jonathan "JJ" Jenkins, clinical and sport psychologist, educator, and co-author of Mentality Wins, to explore how the same mental skills used by elite athletes can help all of us navigate pressure, build resilience, and thrive in everyday life. Together, we discuss what it means to perform under pressure without burning out, the difference between confidence and competence, and how small, intentional habits can transform the way we approach work, relationships, and personal growth. In this episode, we explore: * Lifestyle medicine and mental performance * The power of micro-habits and "self-care snacks" * Building resilience through intentional discomfort * Self-compassion instead of self-criticism * Why play may be one of the best defenses against anxiety * Why rest is a performance strategy—not a reward Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, growing your career, or simply looking for practical ways to improve your wellbeing without adding more to your plate, this conversation is full of actionable strategies you can start using today. Connect with Dr. Jonathan "JJ" Jenkins: 🌐 Website: www.mentalitywins.com 📖 Mentality Wins is available on Amazon. 📱 Instagram: @dr.jonathanjenkins Dr. Jonathan Jenkins also welcomes your questions—feel free to connect with him on Instagram to learn more about his work and the ideas we discussed in this episode. Support the show [https://buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami] Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com [https://DignusWellness.com]  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

Ditch "No Pain, No Gain": The Smarter Way to Move for Energy, Mood, and Mental Clarity

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2443854/fan_mail/new] What if the key to better energy, focus, and mental clarity wasn't a 60-minute workout — but a few minutes of movement sprinkled throughout your day? In this episode of Thursday Tea with Sami, Dr. Sami Estrada sits down with Lois Manzella Marchitto, health and fitness expert with over 20 years of experience and founder of Fitness Knocking, to talk about one of the most accessible wellness tools out there: movement snacks. Lois shares how small, consistent bursts of movement — what scientists call non-exercise activity thermogenesis (NEAT) — can have a powerful impact on both physical and mental health, even for the busiest people, those with chronic conditions, or anyone who's never loved the gym. In this episode, you'll hear: * What movement snacks are and why our bodies were never designed to sit as much as we do * The science behind NEAT (non-exercise activity thermogenesis) and why it counts more than you think * How to bust the "all or nothing" mindset around exercise * Why "no pain, no gain" might actually be keeping you from showing up tomorrow * The surprising connection between movement, oxygen, and brain clarity * Simple go-to movement snacks for fatigue, brain fog, stiffness, and chronic pain * Why stress might not be what you think it is — and what Lois recommends instead * How movement fits into the bigger picture of sleep, nutrition, connection, and emotional wellbeing Whether you're chained to a desk, juggling a packed schedule, or just starting your wellness journey, this episode will give you practical, no-excuses strategies to move more — starting today. Connect with Lois: 🌐 fitnessknocking.com 📱 @fitnessknocking on Instagram, LinkedIn, and TikTok Support the show [https://buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami] Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com [https://DignusWellness.com]  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

That Voice in Your Head: Understanding Your Inner Critic with Amber Mikesell

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2443854/fan_mail/new] In this episode, Dr. Samia sits down with Amber Mikesell, founder of Suivera and author of Silence Your Inner Critic, to explore how our inner dialogue quietly shapes everything — from how we sleep and move, to how we show up in relationships and make daily choices. Amber shares her personal journey through a life-altering health crisis at 21 that led her to integrative health and Eastern philosophy, and explains why that inner critical voice isn't a flaw — it's a protective mechanism that may have outlived its purpose. Together, they unpack how the inner critic shows up across the six pillars of lifestyle medicine and, more importantly, what you can do to start shifting it — without shaming yourself in the process. From personifying your inner critic as a supervillain to the simple practice of accepting a compliment, this episode is full of practical, grounded tools for building a kinder, more trusting relationship with yourself. Whether you feel behind on your wellness journey or you're just starting to notice that voice in your head, this episode meets you exactly where you are. Support the show [https://buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami] Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com [https://DignusWellness.com]  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

When Doing More Stops Working: Nervous System Healing with Alyssa Booth

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2443854/fan_mail/new] Do you look like you have it all together on the outside while quietly running on stress, overwhelm, and survival mode on the inside? You're not alone — and there's actually a name for it. In this episode, Dr. Samia Estrada sits down with licensed therapist and coach Alyssa Booth to unpack the "go-go-go crash cycle" — the exhausting pattern that keeps high-functioning women, perfectionists, and people-pleasers stuck in burnout without even realizing it. Alyssa breaks down how chronic stress and nervous system dysregulation show up in ways we don't always connect to stress — disrupted sleep, digestive issues, irritability, brain fog, emotional eating, and feeling disconnected from the people we love most. They also dig into the surprising link between unresolved trauma and our relationship with food and body image. Most importantly, this episode is packed with real, practical tools you can start using today — from simple body check-ins to setting boundaries, asking for help, and giving yourself permission to slow down without guilt. Whether you're a busy mom, a business owner, a caregiver, or just someone who's tired of feeling tired, this one's for you. Want to connect with Alyssa? Visit her at heyalyssabooth.com or find her on social media at @heyalyssabooth. Support the show [https://buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami] Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com [https://DignusWellness.com]  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...

Why Your Clutter Is Stressing You Out (And What to Do About It)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2443854/fan_mail/new] Ever feel drained just looking around your home? You're not imagining it — your environment has a real impact on your stress levels and mental clarity. In this week's episode of Thursday Tea with Sami, Dr. Samia Estrada sits down with Tina O'Keeffe, professional organizer and Chief Organizing Officer of Stow and Behold, to talk about what clutter is really costing you — and what you can do about it. With over a decade of experience and a background that includes communications, copywriting, and even a stint in the Peace Corps in Ukraine, Tina brings a uniquely empathetic approach to organizing. She shares why disorganization is one of the most overlooked sources of stress, how to move past the shame of clutter, and why a truly organized space isn't about Pinterest-perfect aesthetics — it's about creating systems that actually work for you. In this episode, you'll learn: * The surprising connection between clutter and mental health * Tina's "purge, assess, return, exit" method for getting started * Why buying containers before organizing is the #1 mistake people make * How to build simple systems that reduce daily stress (hello, mail pile!) * When it might be time to bring in a professional — and how to find one near you Whether you're dealing with a junk drawer or years of accumulated stuff, Tina's message is clear: you don't have to do it perfectly, you just have to start. 🌐 Find Tina at stowandbehold.com [http://stowandbehold.com] or on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn @StowandBehold 🔍 Find a professional organizer near you at napo.net Support the show [https://buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami] Find Samia Estrada of Dignus Wellness on social media @DignusWellness Enjoying the show? Your support means the world to me. ☕ buymeacoffee.com/thursdayteawithsami  🎶Special thanks to Nothing Short of Tragic for creating the amazing music you hear in our intro and outro—bringing the perfect vibe to each episode!   Curious about more? Check out everything I’m working on at Dignus Wellness. https://DignusWellness.com [https://DignusWellness.com]  Sign up for my newsletter at https://subscribe.dignuswellness.com/ Email me at: SamiaEstrada@DignusWellness.com Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or mental health care. Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinician–patient relationship. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Dr. Samia Estrada, Psy.D., DipABLM, or Dignus Wellness. Content discussed on this podcast reflects general wellness, lifestyle medicine, and mental health education and may not be appropriate for everyone. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional for personalized advice or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or are in crisis, please seek immediate support from local emergency services or a trusted crisis ...