Emotional Eating Explained by a Dietitian & Therapist: How to Break the Cycle

Why Understanding Your Trauma Isn't Healing It

Have you ever felt like you understand your trauma but still can't seem to move past it? In this episode of Trauma, Tea, and Tangents, host Hannah Guy sits down with EMDR Intensive Therapist and Hello Calm Therapy owner Hannah Ciampini, LCSW, to explore one of the most common frustrations in trauma recovery: feeling stuck despite years of insight and self-awareness. Together, they unpack why intellectual understanding alone isn't always enough to heal trauma, how emotional processing differs from simply talking about your experiences, and why nervous system regulation plays such a critical role in recovery. Hannah Ciampini shares her expertise on evidence-based trauma treatments including EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Brainspotting, explaining how these approaches help clients access and process trauma stored in the body. The conversation also explores how to recognize meaningful progress in therapy, what healing actually looks like, and how to find a therapist who is the right fit for your unique needs. Whether you're currently in therapy, considering trauma treatment, or simply curious about how trauma impacts the brain and body, this episode offers practical insights and compassionate guidance for anyone navigating the healing journey. In This Episode, We Discuss: * Why insight alone doesn't always create lasting change • The difference between intellectualizing trauma and truly processing it • How trauma affects the nervous system • The role of body awareness in healing • EMDR therapy and Brainspotting explained • Signs that trauma therapy is working • How to find a therapist who aligns with your needs • Why feeling stuck doesn't mean you're failing About Our Guest: Hannah Ciampini, LCSW, is a trauma therapist, EMDR Intensive Therapist, and owner of Hello Calm Therapy. She specializes in helping individuals move beyond survival mode through trauma-informed approaches that support nervous system regulation, emotional processing, and lasting healing. CHAPTERS 00:00 – Introduction to Trauma and Therapy 01:36 – Why Understanding Trauma Isn't Always Enough 04:29 – Intellectualizing Trauma vs. Emotional Processing 08:59 – EMDR Therapy and How It Supports Healing 16:18 – Recognizing Progress in Trauma Recovery 24:19 – Finding the Right Therapist for You   ✨ Connect with Hannah Ciampini: Instagram: @blueprintandbloomlab Website: http://www.peacefullivingmentalhealthcounseling.comwww.Hellocalmtherapy.com  ✨Looking for trauma therapy in Pennsylvania or Colorado? Revive Therapy Services specializes in trauma therapy, EMDR therapy, eating disorder treatment, body image concerns, PTSD, complex trauma, and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP). We offer virtual and in person therapy throughout Pennsylvania and Colorado. Learn more: www.revivetherapyservices.com [http://www.revivetherapyservices.com]Instagram & TikTok: @revivetherapyservices If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow Trauma, Tea, and Tangents on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you listen to podcasts. Leaving a rating and review helps more people discover conversations about trauma, healing, mental health, and personal growth.

EMDR Therapy Explained: Healing Trauma, PTSD & Attachment Wounds

What is EMDR therapy, and how does it actually help people heal from trauma? In this episode of Trauma, Tea, and Tangents, host Hannah Guy, LCSW, sits down with EMDR consultant and therapist Dana Carretta-Stein, LMHC, to break down one of the most misunderstood trauma therapies available today. Together, they explore how EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) works, why trauma gets "stuck" in the nervous system, and how healing happens when traumatic memories are safely reprocessed. Whether you're a therapist, someone considering EMDR therapy, or a trauma survivor looking to better understand your experiences, this episode offers practical insights into trauma recovery, PTSD treatment, complex trauma, attachment wounds, nervous system regulation, and emotional healing. Dana explains how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, why triggers continue showing up long after a traumatic event has ended, and how EMDR can help people move from survival mode into a greater sense of safety, connection, and self-compassion. In this episode, you'll learn: * What EMDR therapy is and how it works • Common misconceptions about EMDR • How trauma impacts the brain and nervous system • Why attachment wounds continue affecting adult relationships • The role of self-regulation and co-regulation in healing • How EMDR helps process complex trauma and PTSD • What clients can expect during EMDR sessions • Using EMDR with addiction, OCD, and developmental trauma • Why therapists must prioritize their own nervous system health • Practical tools for healing both inside and outside of therapy Whether you're new to EMDR or already familiar with trauma treatment, this conversation provides a compassionate and accessible look at one of the most effective evidence-based approaches for trauma recovery. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction to Dana and EMDR 01:07 Media Representation of EMDR 02:05 What EMDR Actually Is 02:57 Attachment Trauma and Unmet Needs 03:58 How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Adulthood 05:25 Understanding Trauma Responses 06:24 Child Parts vs. Adult Parts 07:12 Trauma Activation and Triggers 08:29 Re-Parenting and Self-Regulation 09:09 Psychoeducation and Trauma Resources 10:39 Intergenerational Trauma and Parenting 11:45 Therapist Regulation and Boundaries 13:48 Creativity and Flexibility in EMDR 14:59 Working with Specific Traumatic Memories 16:18 How the Brain Responds to Trauma 17:32 Transformative EMDR Moments 18:08 Body Awareness and Memory Processing 19:21 Implicit Memory and Early Trauma 20:35 Addressing Pre-Verbal Trauma 22:24 EMDR for Addiction and OCD 23:32 What to Expect in an EMDR Session 25:07 Window of Tolerance Explained 27:28 Safety and Pacing in Trauma Therapy 29:24 Why Healing Often Happens Slowly 29:37 Self-Acceptance and Lasting Change 29:48 The Therapist as a Regulated Presence 31:39 The Importance of Therapist Self-Work 33:09 Co-Regulation and Nervous System Healing 34:25 Building Healthy Support Systems 36:53 Managing Therapist Burnout and Dysregulation 37:44 Balancing Connection and Self-Care 39:14 Dana's Book and Additional Resources 41:05 Colorado's EMDR Community 41:56 Integrating EMDR with Other Modalities 43:16 Healing Beyond Therapy 44:21 Closing Thoughts About Dana Carretta-Stein Dana Carretta-Stein, LMHC, is an EMDR consultant, therapist, speaker, and educator who specializes in helping clinicians and clients understand trauma through the lens of attachment, nervous system regulation, and EMDR therapy. ✨ Connect with Dana: Instagram: @the_emdr_coach Website: www.peacefullivingmentalhealthcounseling.com [http://www.peacefullivingmentalhealthcounseling.com]  ✨Looking for trauma therapy in Pennsylvania or Colorado? Revive Therapy Services specializes in trauma therapy, EMDR therapy, eating disorder treatment, body image concerns, PTSD, complex trauma, and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP). We offer virtual and in person therapy throughout Pennsylvania and Colorado. Learn more: www.revivetherapyservices.com [http://www.revivetherapyservices.com]Instagram & TikTok: @revivetherapyservices If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow Trauma, Tea, and Tangents on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you listen to podcasts. Leaving a rating and review helps more people discover conversations about trauma, healing, mental health, and personal growth.

Attachment Styles & Modern Dating: How to Build Healthy Relationships

Dating can feel confusing, overwhelming, and emotionally exhausting—but what if the challenge isn't just dating itself? In this episode of Trauma, Tea, and Tangents, Hannah Guy sits down with trauma therapist Sarah Russ, LCSW, to explore how attachment styles, vulnerability, communication patterns, and nervous system regulation influence the way we connect in romantic relationships. Together, they unpack common dating pitfalls, the impact of social media and dating apps, unrealistic expectations, and the mindset shifts that can help you approach dating with greater confidence, authenticity, and self-awareness. Whether you're actively dating, healing from past relationships, or simply trying to understand your relationship patterns, this conversation offers practical tools and trauma-informed insights to help you build healthier, more meaningful connections. In This Episode, You'll Learn: • Why modern dating feels so challenging • Common communication mistakes that sabotage connection • How vulnerability creates stronger relationships • The role attachment styles play in dating • How social media and dating apps impact expectations • Why shifting from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset matters • Strategies for building authentic, healthy relationships • How to navigate dating with confidence and self-awareness Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction to the Dating Detox Workshop 02:55 – Navigating Modern Dating Challenges 05:28 – The Importance of Vulnerability in Dating 08:12 – Understanding Emotional Connections 11:04 – Managing Expectations in Dating 13:50 – Shifting from Scarcity to Abundance 16:30 – Finding Balance in Relationships 19:22 – Workshop Wrap-Up & Final Thoughts  🎟️ Interested in our Dating Detox Workshop? Get your tickets here: Detox Workshop Tickets [https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dating-detox-a-workshop-for-navigating-modern-dating-tickets-1988960730085?aff=oddtdtcreator]  ✨ Want more of Sarah Russ? Find her here: Instagram: @mentalhealthformillenials  ✨ Want to work with Hannah and the trauma therapy team at Revive Therapy Services? You’ve gotta be a PA resident—check us out at revivetherapyservices.com And don’t forget to follow along on TikTok & IG: @revivetherapyservices If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow Trauma, Tea, and Tangents on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who could benefit from a healthier approach to dating and relationships! #DatingAdvice #AttachmentStyles #HealthyRelationships #TraumaTherapy #RelationshipPodcast

How Your Nervous System Impacts Dating

Why do some relationships feel safe while others leave you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or constantly second-guessing yourself? In this episode of Trauma, Tea, and Tangents, Hannah Guy sits down with therapist Sarah Russ, LCSW, to explore the powerful connection between nervous system regulation, trauma, attachment styles, and modern dating. Together, they break down how past experiences can shape relationship patterns, influence decision-making, and impact your ability to trust yourself when dating. Whether you struggle with dating anxiety, overthinking, people-pleasing, fear of rejection, or finding yourself stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics, this conversation offers practical tools to help you recognize trauma responses, regulate your nervous system, and build healthier, more secure connections. You'll learn how to identify when your nervous system is driving your dating decisions, improve communication in relationships, navigate pressure and uncertainty, and strengthen self-trust throughout the dating process. If you've ever wondered whether you're following your intuition or reacting from past wounds, this episode is for you. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: • How nervous system regulation impacts dating and relationships • Common trauma responses that show up while dating • The role of attachment styles in relationship patterns • How anxiety can influence decision-making • Building self-trust and confidence in relationships • Recognizing compatibility versus chemistry • Navigating dating pressure and uncertainty • How healthy relationships can support healing CHAPTERS: 00:00 – Introduction to Nervous System Regulation in Dating 02:31 – Understanding Trauma Responses in Relationships 05:28 – Mindfulness and Decision Making in Dating 08:29 – Communication Needs and Compatibility 11:00 – Healing Through Relationships 13:53 – Self-Worth and Negative Self-Talk 16:44 – Navigating Pressure in Dating 19:51 – Surrendering Control in Relationships 22:35 – Dating Detox Workshop Announcement & Practical Guidance 🎟️ Interested in our Dating Detox Workshop? Get your tickets here: Detox Workshop Tickets [https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dating-detox-a-workshop-for-navigating-modern-dating-tickets-1988960730085?aff=oddtdtcreator]   ✨ Want more of Sarah Russ? Find her here: Instagram: @mentalhealthformillenials  ✨ Want to work with Hannah and the trauma therapy team at Revive Therapy Services? You’ve gotta be a PA resident—check us out at revivetherapyservices.com And don’t forget to follow along on TikTok & IG: @revivetherapyservices Follow Trauma, Tea, and Tangents for more conversations on trauma healing, mental health, relationships, nervous system regulation, attachment theory, and personal growth. #TraumaTeaAndTangents #DatingAdvice #NervousSystemRegulation #AttachmentStyles #TraumaHealing #MentalHealthPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAnxiety

Therapist Burnout: How to Build a Sustainable Mental Health Career

In this episode of Trauma, Tea, and Tangents, Hannah Guy sits down with licensed professional counselor Ashley Pettway, LPC, for an honest conversation about therapist burnout, mental health careers, private practice, and the emotional toll of helping professions. Together, they explore why so many therapists, counselors, and social workers experience chronic stress, compassion fatigue, and financial burnout — and what it actually takes to build a sustainable and fulfilling career in mental health. Ashley and Hannah share insights on the realities of graduate school, the pressure placed on new therapists, the challenges of agency work, and the scarcity mindset often embedded in the mental health field. The conversation also dives into entrepreneurship for therapists, creating healthier work boundaries, building resilience, and redefining success in counseling and social work. Whether you’re a therapist, counseling student, social worker, mental health professional, or someone navigating burnout in a helping profession, this episode offers practical insight, validation, and encouragement to create a career and life that feels sustainable. Topics discussed include: • Therapist burnout and compassion fatigue • Mental health career challenges • Burnout in social work and counseling • Private practice realities • Financial stress for therapists • Scarcity vs. abundance mindset • Sustainable careers in mental health • Building boundaries as a therapist • Counseling entrepreneurship • Mental health work culture If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow Trauma, Tea, and Tangents on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, leave a review, and share this episode with someone in the mental health field who needs this conversation. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction to Professional Burnout 01:07 The Reality of Burnout in Therapy 02:55 The Impact of Graduate School on Burnout 05:13 Challenges Faced by New Therapists 08:29 The Financial Struggles of Mental Health Professionals 09:25 Work Culture and Its Effects on Burnout 10:22 Devaluation of Helping Professions 11:11 Changing the Narrative Around Social Work 13:10 Creating a New Path in Counseling 14:41 Building a Sustainable Practice 16:01 Embracing Abundance Over Scarcity 19:03 Transforming Mindsets: From Scarcity to Abundance 21:27 Navigating Career Paths in Counseling 24:31 The Reality of Private Practice 28:32 Building Resilience and Community 29:47 Empowerment Through Connection and Innovation   ✨ Want more of Ashley Pettway? Find her here: Instagram & TikTok: @theunseriouscounselor ✨ Want to work with Hannah and the trauma therapy team at Revive Therapy Services? You’ve gotta be a PA resident—check us out at revivetherapyservices.com And don’t forget to follow along on TikTok & IG: @revivetherapyservices