Why Can't I Meditate?

Ep. 8 Maybe I'm Just Not Good at Meditation...

10 min · 27 de abr de 2026
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If you’ve ever sat down to meditate and thought, “Maybe I’m just not good at this,” you’re not alone. In this episode, we explore one of the most common doubts that arises in meditation — the feeling that you’re doing it wrong, or that it works for other people but not for you. We look at why this thought shows up, what meditation is actually about, and how awareness begins the moment you notice what’s happening. This episode includes a short, guided meditation to help you practice letting go of the idea of doing it “well” and simply returning to the present moment. I’m Deb Phelps from Peaceful Wellness. I’ve been a meditation practitioner since 1980, a certified teacher, and I teach people how to meditate as well as guide those who feel called to become meditation teachers. If meditation has ever felt frustrating, imperfect, or not what you expected, this episode will help you understand that nothing has gone wrong — you’re already practicing. 🌿 Looking for more support? If you’re finding it hard to stay with your practice or want guidance as you go, you’re warmly invited to join either one-on-one mentoring or my Mentoring Circle. This is a space where we explore exactly these kinds of experiences together, with weekly group support and access to one-on-one mentoring. meditatewithdeb.com [https://meditatewithdeb.org/] 🌿 A Simple Way to Begin If you’d like an easy way to return to your practice, you can also explore the Essential Meditation Library — designed to help you begin with what you need, without having to search or figure it out. 👉 $9/month — cancel anytime [https://meditatewithdeb.org/meditation-library/] With Care, Deb Get full access to Meditate with Deb | Peaceful Wellness at debphelps.substack.com/subscribe [https://debphelps.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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