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God Changed My Perspective — Part 2: Everybody Can’t Come With Me

Sometimes growth doesn’t look like gaining more — it looks like being more intentional with what (and who) you allow into your life. In Part 2 of God Changed My Perspective, I’m talking about what really happens when your mindset shifts. Not just how you see things… but how you move. Because when your perspective changes: • you stop over-explaining • you become okay with being misunderstood • you recognize that not everyone loves you — some love what you bring • and your circle… starts to shift This episode is about learning that access is a privilege, not an obligation. Some relationships don’t end — they just change roles. And for the most part, I’m grateful to have people around me who see my growth, support it, and allow me to evolve — even if we’re not always on the same path. If you’ve been feeling like certain dynamics in your life are changing… this is your reminder ✨ it’s not always loss ✨ it’s alignment

God Changed My Perspective

Sometimes we pray for God to change the situation… but instead, He changes how we see it. In this episode of Becoming, Sarah La’Joy talks honestly about what happened when God started shifting her perspective. From letting go of petty reactions to learning not to over-explain herself, she shares how protecting her peace became more important than proving a point. Through real life moments motherhood, growth, and everyday faith Sarah reflects on what it means to live differently when your mindset begins to align with God. Rooted in Proverbs 31:30, this conversation explores how wisdom, purpose, and spiritual maturity change the way we respond to people, situations, and even ourselves. Because sometimes the real transformation isn’t around you. It’s within you. And when your perspective changes… everything else starts to shift too.

Comfort Is Costing You

Comfort Is Costing You, Nothing is falling apart. You’re not in crisis. You’re not spiraling. You’re just… comfortable. And that’s the problem. In this episode, I’m unpacking the hard truth I had to face: You cannot live on autopilot and expect to experience the full life God promised you. We’re talking about: • Wanting the mind of Jesus and the body of the baddest stripper — but avoiding the work • Perfectionism disguised as discipline • The quiet weight of unspoken things • How “keeping the peace” can slowly disconnect you from yourself • And why comfort feels safe… but costs growth This isn’t shame. This is awareness. If you’ve been feeling “off” but can’t quite name why — this episode is your gentle wake-up. Let’s stop disappearing quietly.

I Know I Am Beautiful

What happens when you stop surviving and start living from wholeness? In this episode of Becoming, I talk about how reclaiming my soft life helped me appreciate my beauty — not just on dressed-up days, but in the quiet, ordinary moments too. I share reflections on slowing down, being present, enjoying life with intention, spending time with God, and learning how to feel beautiful without performing or overdoing it. This episode is for the woman who’s learning how to feel good in her life, trust her peace, and recognize that nothing is missing in her.

Reclaiming My Soft Life

What if the soft life isn’t something you buy — but something you remember? In this episode, I talk about reclaiming a way of living that once came naturally to me. From childhood tea parties and the safety of being covered, to adulthood where silence feels uncomfortable and peace takes intention, this conversation is about slowing down without guilt and letting go of the armor we picked up along the way. We talk about: * Why chaos can feel easier than calm * How silence makes us sit with ourselves * Letting go of armor without losing strength * Choosing peace even when it feels unfamiliar * And remembering that if God has us covered, we don’t have to live like we’re alone This one is honest, reflective, and meant to be taken slowly. We’ll pick this back up… same time next week.