becoming: the podcast

What the F is somatics?

Somatics is everywhere right now, yet most people still don’t actually know what it means. In this episode, Amanda breaks somatics down in the most practical, no-fluff way: not as a trend or a buzzword, but as a simple, learnable language: the language of your body. Through personal stories, client insights, and real-world examples, Amanda and Emilia explore what somatics actually looks like in everyday life, why consistency matters more than intensity, and how learning to listen to your nervous system can radically change how you move through the world. This conversation demystifies somatic work so you can walk away knowing: 👉 You’ve probably already practiced it 👉 It doesn’t have to be complicated 👉 And it’s a skill you can build over time In this episode, we cover: * What Somatics actually is (in plain English) * Why your body communicates through sensation, not words * How everyday practices like walking, yoga, and breathwork become somatic when awareness is present * The difference between somatic work and “pushing through” in healing spaces * Why consistency — not intensity — creates change * The role of trauma-informed practice and the importance of choice * How dissociation shows up and why it’s more common than you think * Amanda’s personal journey from deep disconnection to embodiment * Why online somatic work can sometimes be more effective than in-person * How understanding your nervous system increases intuition, discernment, and personal power And if you're ready to go deeper -- head to https://www.becoming-collective.com/membership and join our community LIVE every Sunday!

Healing: The "Eras Tour" Version

In this episode of becoming, Amanda and Emilia go on a tour of the different "eras" of healing that occur as we move through the course of our lives — and why your practice is meant to change as you do. From rigid, all-in spiritual devotion… to seasons of survival, caregiving, work, grief, expansion, and integration — healing doesn’t follow a straight line. It evolves alongside your responsibilities, your nervous system, and the life you’re actually living. Together, Amanda and Emilia share personal stories spanning decades, reflecting on how their spiritual and healing tools have shifted — and how learning to trust yourself is the most important practice of all.This conversation is an invitation to stop judging where you are… and start honoring the season you’re in. In This Episode, We Explore: - Why healing and spirituality aren’t separate from “real life” - How different seasons of life require different practices - Letting go of rigid ideas about what healing “should” look like - When spiritual practices become another form of dissociation - Building a flexible, embodied toolkit that evolves with you - Why consistency matters — but rigidity doesn’t - Learning to listen to your body, nervous system, and intuition - How becoming is designed to support healing for the long haul As you listen, we invite you to consider the evolution of your own journey -- and get excited about how much "becoming" is left to unfold.

becoming "delulu" til your dreams come true-lu

What if being a little “delusional” isn’t reckless -- but required? In this episode of The becoming Podcast, Amanda and Emilia unpack the internet’s favorite advice to “be DeLulu” and bring it back down to earth. This isn't your basic manifestation advice but proven tools for channeling faith. Because when we are building a big vision -- a little "delulu" is necessary to sustain without letting fear run the show. Amanda shares her grounded take on “delusion” as a nervous system skill, breaking down her 80/20 framework: 80% belief in your highest possible future,20% practical risk mitigation to keep you safe while you build. Together, they explore: * Why the nervous system is wired for safety -- not happiness or success * How negativity bias keeps us stuck in “realistic” but misaligned lives * Why big outcomes require repeated recommitment to a vision * Amanda's Lady Gaga story (and what it teaches us about not listening to outside opinion / the haters) The episode then shifts into a live hot seat coaching session, where Emilia courageously names a future vision that feels both deeply true — and deeply intimidating. Through parts work, inner child reflection, and somatic inquiry, Amanda helps her explore the tension between the “responsible” self and the more intuitive, expansive self that’s been waiting to lead. This is a conversation about: * Fear vs intuition * Inner child wisdom * Why “realistic” isn’t always true * And how self-love shows up as action — not just intention If you’ve ever felt called to something bigger but talked yourself out of it in the name of being practical… this episode is for you.

Fear is Sacred: dancing with who you are *becoming*

In this episode of becoming: the podcast, Amanda and Emilia turn toward one of the most misunderstood forces in personal growth: fear. Rather than treating fear as something to overcome, bypass, or “get rid of,” they explore why fear is often sacred — a signal of care, integrity, and deep alignment with what actually matters. Drawing from lived experience, coaching hundreds of leaders, and years of somatic and spiritual work, Amanda shares how fear shaped much of her early life — and how learning to work with fear, rather than around it, changed everything. Together, Amanda and Emilia unpack the nuanced difference between fear and intuition, why playing it safe doesn’t actually reduce suffering, and how fear often appears precisely when we’re standing at the edge of becoming who we truly are. Inside the episode, we explore: * Why fear isn’t a sign that something is wrong — but often a sign that something meaningful is at stake * How to distinguish fear from intuition (and why they feel so different in the body) * The way fear shows up as a wall, while intuition tends to feel invitational * Why dissociation, “good enough” choices, and staying busy are common ways we avoid fear * How somatic tools help regulate the nervous system when fear is loud * The role of fight, flight, freeze, and fawn in fear responses * Why fear doesn’t disappear with success, confidence, or experience — and why that’s okay * How titration (small, intentional steps) allows us to move through fear without overwhelming the system * Why some of the most fearful people are also the most ethical, caring, and conscientious * The spiritual practice of “leaving fear on the altar” and remembering what’s bigger than you * Why fearlessness isn’t always virtuous — and how entitlement can be its shadow * How to walk toward your life one inch at a time, without letting fear make the decisions This episode is an invitation to stop pathologizing your fear — and instead, listen to what it’s protecting, what it’s pointing toward, and what it might be asking of you. If you’ve ever thought, “If I weren’t so afraid, I’d finally live my life,” this conversation is for you. Because fear isn’t the thing keeping you from your purpose — avoiding it might be.

Spiritual Autonomy: Taking Your Power Back from Guru Culture

In the first official episode of becoming: the podcast, Amanda and Emilia (founders of becoming collective [www.becoming-collective.com]) dive into what it really means to reclaim your power, trust yourself, and become the master of your own energy. Together, they explore the concept of spiritual autonomy—the ability to look within, discern what’s true for you, and build a spiritual practice rooted in self-trust rather than dependency on teachers, influencers, or external tools. Drawing from personal experience in the wellness, spiritual, and coaching worlds, Amanda breaks down how easy it is to inadvertently give your power away… and how transformative it is when you stop. Emilia brings in powerful imagery and metaphors (including a park-ranger analogy you won’t forget) to help illuminate this work. Inside the episode, we explore: * Why so much spiritual or self-help content subtly pulls people away from trusting themselves * The difference between being inspired by someone and outsourcing your authority * How influencer culture can blur discernment—and how to get yours back * The distinction between support and dependence when it comes to therapists, guides, or spiritual mentors * A reminder that you are the hero of your own life (and no one else can take that role) * The 'becoming [www.becoming-collective.com]' framework—Clarity, Alignment, Embodiment—and how it supports authentic, grounded transformation * Why manifestation culture gets it wrong, and what actually creates sustainable change * The power of consistent spiritual and somatic practice vs. “peak” experiences or quick fixes * How to know when your daily actions match the life you say you want * What it looks like to listen to your inner guidance—even when it goes against popular wisdom This episode sets the foundation for everything becoming stands for: no gurus, no rigid doctrine, no spiritual hierarchy -- just tools, teachings, and reflections that bring you home to yourself. If you’ve been craving a grounded, non-dogmatic, intuitive approach to personal growth and spirituality… welcome. You’re in the right place.