Episode 35 - The Boy Who Went To Prison & The Man Who Came Out | Alesco Violenes
In this powerful and emotional episode, Dr. Simply Ann sits down with Alesco Violenes to discuss the painful realities behind childhood trauma, neglect, fatherlessness, peer pressure, survival mode, crime, incarceration, and ultimately transformation.
After spending more than 11 years behind bars, Lexi shares his journey from being a young boy searching for belonging to becoming a man committed to helping others avoid the mistakes he made. This is not simply a conversation about prison. It is a conversation about pain, identity, healing, accountability, mentorship, and breaking generational cycles.
Many young people do not wake up one day and choose destruction. Often, their choices are rooted in wounds that were never healed, needs that were never met, and guidance they never received.
đ In this episode, Dr. Simply Ann and Lexi discuss:
âą How childhood trauma impacts decision-making
âą Growing up without a father figure
âą The effects of neglect, abuse, and survival mode
âą Why children seek validation and belonging
âą How peer pressure shapes identity
âą The progression from small choices to major consequences
âą The emotional and mental realities of incarceration
âą Why mentorship is essential for the next generation
âą Taking responsibility for your healing and transformation
âą Breaking generational cycles through purpose and accountability
đ„ Powerful Truths From This Episode:
"The street became my safe place because home didn't feel safe."
"The less parents look, the farther children stray."
"When you stop thinking about consequences, you begin crossing dangerous lines."
"Children need more than food and shelter. They need love, guidance, attention, and connection."
"Breaking the cycle started when I realized only I could take myself out of the situation."
"If I can break the cycle, I can help someone else break theirs."
This episode is for anyone struggling with:
â Childhood trauma and emotional wounds
â Fatherlessness and identity struggles
â Peer pressure and validation addiction
â Youth violence and delinquency
â Crime and incarceration
â Emotional neglect and abandonment
â Life after prison and reintegration
â Self-awareness and accountability
â Breaking unhealthy family patterns
â Healing from past mistakes
â Finding purpose after pain
â Mentoring the next generation
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