Her Layered Life

Nine Months, Every Lesson: Season 1 Wrap-Up

It's our Season 1 finale — and we're going out with everything we've learned. After 9 months and dozens of incredible interviews, I reflect on the lessons, stories, and moments that defined this season before heading into a maternity pause. 🎉 ---------------------------------------- THE BIG LESSONS FROM SEASON 1 ✨ God orders our steps. Trust the timing, even when it doesn't make sense. (Thank you, Alyssa, for a phrase that carried us all season.) ✨ Women build differently. They don't just create products — they create solutions, spaces, and impact. Mel (Tobiq), Shannon & Ash (House of Foils) all proved it. ✨ Look in the mirror. If you keep hitting the same wall, the fix might be a small adjustment — not a whole new strategy. Lesson from Danielle. ✨ Stay in your lane. Comparison will take you out. You choose what success looks like. — Bailey, Bailey Rae Studios ✨ Start before you're ready. Elise (Beehive Meals) started with freezer meals and hit $10K her first day. Tess Frame says: if you feel nudged, just do it. Who God calls, He qualifies. ✨ The fake orchid story. Kimber (Pearl Pop) spent years faithfully caring for an orchid — one ice cube a week, perfect lighting, even a babysitter — only to discover it was fake the whole time. God didn't care. He was proud of her for showing up anyway. Sometimes we just need one small thing to hold onto. ✨ Rhythm, not rush. Life has seasons — to build, to rest, to push, to pull back. Stop fighting the rhythm and you'll feel aligned instead of exhausted. — Amy, The Inherit Co. ✨ Give back. Every single woman this season gave back to their community. Every one. When women support each other with intention, the growth is exponential. ✨ Consent is everyone's conversation. Liliana (UCASA) reminded us — this isn't just a women's issue. Find your state's Coalition Against Sexual Assault and get involved. ✨ Shop with intention. Women drive the majority of spending. If we shifted even a small percentage toward women-owned businesses, we wouldn't just change businesses — we'd change lives. ---------------------------------------- "Start the thing. Trust the timing. Your life is layered too — and it matters more than you think." Season 2 is coming. We'll see you on the other side. 🌿

I Lost My Voice and Found My Purpose with Lauren Bean of Unfinished Apparel

What if a piece of clothing could remind someone in their darkest moment that they are still worth caring for? That's the question behind today's guest — and the answer she's building her entire business around. I'm sitting down with Lauren Bean, founder of Unfinished Apparel, and I went into this conversation knowing very little about her brand. What came out of the next hour completely moved me. Lauren grew up outside Philadelphia in a household where both parents were CEOs. She watched them pour everything into their companies and swore she'd never do the same. Instead, she set her sights on songwriting and enrolled at Belmont University in Nashville — the only school she applied to. Then COVID hit. She got sick. Her vocal cords were affected by a connective tissue disorder she'd been managing for years, and doctors gave her a hard choice: keep singing until your voice gives out, or stop now and preserve what you have. She stopped. And in losing the thing she thought defined her, she found something she never saw coming. In this episode, Lauren walks me through the spiral of chronic illness, the mental health crisis that followed, and the moment she almost checked herself into inpatient psychiatric care — until she heard what that experience actually looked like. Patients being stripped of their clothes. Handed see-through paper scrubs. Left exposed and dehumanized in their most vulnerable moments. That image never left her. With a secondhand embroidery machine bought off Facebook Marketplace from a woman at a gas station, Lauren started selling clothing to fund something that felt a little crazy at the time: getting psychiatric patients out of paper scrubs and into clothing that made them feel human again. One TikTok post later, thousands of people responded — and Unfinished Apparel was born. We also talk about the hard pivots. There was a season where Lauren leaned away from the mission and into fashion, chasing revenue so she could eventually get back to the hospitals. It wasn't working. Then one Sunday, her pastor looked up and said, "You were not put here to make money. You were put here to make a difference." She knew exactly who that was for. Lauren is now a new mom to a three-month-old, navigating the beautiful chaos of motherhood and entrepreneurship simultaneously — and she's the first to say it's made her better at both. This one is for every woman who has had her plans completely rerouted, who's wondered if what she's building actually matters, and who needs the reminder that none of us are finished yet. In this episode: * How chronic illness derailed Lauren's songwriting career and led to a mental health crisis * What she discovered about psychiatric care — and why paper scrubs cause more harm than most people know * How a Facebook Marketplace embroidery machine became the seed of a mission-driven brand * Why pivoting is not failure — it's wisdom * What happened when she chased revenue over purpose, and how she found her way back * How motherhood has made her a sharper, more grounded business owner Connect with Lauren & Unfinished Apparel: https://unfinishedapparelstore.com/ [https://unfinishedapparelstore.com/] Enjoyed this episode? Share it with a nurse, a psychology student, a healthcare worker, or any woman in your life who needs the reminder that her story isn't finished. Leave a review, follow Her Layered Life, and come back next week for another conversation that goes all the way to the layers. Because her life is layered — and her influence can change the world.

What Your Missionary Actually Needs to Hear with Jennie Dildine

Growth doesn't always feel like growth when you're in it. Sometimes it feels like stretching, doubt, or wondering if you're doing enough. This episode is for every missionary, every mission mom, and every family walking through that sacred, layered season of becoming. I sat down with Jennie Dildine — missionary coach, mental health advocate, and host of the LDS Mission Podcast — for an honest, deeply personal conversation about what really happens on a mission and after one. And I'll be honest, this one hit close to home. ---------------------------------------- IN THIS EPISODE * Why the hardest parts of a mission are rarely talked about — and why that needs to change * The one thing Jennie tells every missionary preparing to leave: learn how to be uncomfortable * What actually causes the "loss of purpose" when missionaries come home — and how to shift it * The power of normalize, validate, repeat — a simple framework for mission parents * How to help a missionary in a slow, monotonous area find meaning again * Why anxiety on a mission is neurologically normal — and how to stop treating it like a crisis * The difference between a missionary who's thriving and one who's spiraling (hint: it's not about working harder) * Jennie's take on coming home early — and why she never uses the word "early" * How trusting God and trusting yourself are more connected than we think * The Brother of Jared and co-creating a life with God ---------------------------------------- KEY TAKEAWAYS For Missionaries: "You can't do it wrong. God will use you the way He created you — you aren't meant to be your companion or a different version of your district leader." For Mission Parents: Normalize. Validate. Repeat. — When your missionary is struggling, resist the urge to fix it. What they need most is to feel seen. For Returned Missionaries: "Your purpose in life is not the mission. That was one step to make you who you're meant to be — and now you get to decide what's next." ---------------------------------------- ABOUT JENNIE DILDINE Jennie is a certified life coach with nearly 7 years of experience working with missionaries, returned missionaries, and mission families. She runs a Mission Prep Plus program focused on internal tools — mindset, emotional processing, confidence, and identity — so missionaries can navigate anything the field throws at them. 🎙 Podcast: LDS Mission Podcast (250+ episodes) 🌐 Website: jenniedildine.com [http://jenniedildine.com] 📱 Instagram: @jenniedildine ----------------------------------------

I Forced My Daughter to Do a TikTok Dance. It Got 14 Million Views.

MODESTY, HALFTEE, & 14 MILLION VIEWS Charlee and I read through the viral comments on our Halftee video — and unpack what "modesty" actually means. EPISODE DESCRIPTION After our Halftee transition video hit 14 million views on Facebook, my daughter Charlee and I sat down to go through the wildest, funniest, and most thought-provoking comments we received. From G-string comparisons to Dickie debates, we cover the full spectrum of modesty, the layering-as-fashion argument, and why showing the product was the best business decision I ever made. Plus — I let slip a little surprise announcement about Charlee (she's going to kill me). VIRAL COMMENTS WE READ "Well I can take a G-string bikini and call it a modesty G-string. It doesn't really change the coverage of the garment." My take: there's a big difference between bum cheeks and a Halftee. "I'm not a modest person really, and I think this is an exceptional idea. I hate shirts writing up under — plus it can be sold two ways." Not about modesty at all — just a functional layering solution, and I love it. "You're literally wearing them as a crop top in every single post — not very modest." I explain why I made the decision to model the product myself — and why I'd make the same call again. "These are called Dickies." Charlee says a Halftee is the new and improved Dickie. I say a Dickie is the G-string of layering pieces. "I think modesty means different things for different people. Celebrating our options is the rad thing to do." Our favorite comment — it sums up everything we were trying to say. KEY TAKEAWAYS Modesty is relative — what's scandalous in Utah is completely normal in Hawaii or Brazil. Layering is a fashion statement, not a compromise. You can't sell an undergarment by hiding it. And if you wait long enough, most skeptics come around.

The Truth About Comparison, Creation & Community with Mimi Bascom

In this episode of Her Layered Life, I sit down with Mimi Bascom—a faith-driven content creator known for her modest fashion, motherhood content, and honest conversations around belief, identity, and community. Mimi’s content feels grounding, intentional, and real—and in this conversation, we go far beyond social media. We talk about what it actually looks like to balance motherhood, creativity, faith, and ambition… without losing yourself in the process. From navigating comparison as a creator to embracing your personal rhythm in different seasons of life, this episode is full of perspective shifts every woman needs to hear. We also dive into: * How Mimi structures her days as a mom of two while still creating content * The tension between comparison vs. collaboration in the creator space * What it means to stay authentic online—even when facing criticism * Why your “season” and “rhythm” matter more than anyone else’s * How faith influences daily habits, decisions, and content creation * The evolution from modest fashion creator to faith-based voice * Having hard conversations online with grace and intention * Letting go of metrics—and redefining success through impact This episode is a reminder that your life doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s to be meaningful. Your rhythm is yours. Your voice matters. And your influence—no matter how big or small—is powerful. ---------------------------------------- WHAT YOU’LL TAKE AWAY * How to stop comparing and start creating * Why collaboration is the antidote to competition * How to build a platform rooted in purpose, not pressure * The importance of honoring your current season of life * How to stay grounded when life (and social media) feels overwhelming