Living Beyond the Numbers

Navigating Generational Wealth: How to Give Without Enabling with Ashley Quamme (Ep. 18)

Achieving financial stability brings a new set of challenges, especially when it comes to supporting adult children. How do you help without creating dependency, and when does generosity cross the line into enabling? In this episode of Living Beyond the Numbers, Jude Boudreaux and Caleb Arringdale are joined by Ashley Quamme, LMFT, FBS®, CFT™ [https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2122.png], Owner and Founder of Beyond The Plan®, for a thoughtful conversation about the emotional and practical sides of intergenerational wealth. Ashley shares strategies for starting money conversations with adult children, the difference between fairness and equality in gifting, and how to build meaningful family traditions that transcend financial resources. They discuss: * Why validation matters when parents feel conflicted about giving to adult children * How to start money conversations before jumping into large gifts or financial support * The difference between equal and equitable giving when children have different needs * When to begin teaching kids about money, investing, and financial responsibility at age-appropriate levels * Creating family traditions and legacy through experiences, culture, and connection beyond expensive trips * And more! Connect with Jude Boudreaux CFP®:  * The Planning Center [https://www.theplanningcenter.com/] * LinkedIn: Jude Boudreaux [https://www.linkedin.com/in/judeb/] * jude@theplanningcenter.com [jude@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (504) 717-4862 Connect with Caleb Arringdale: * LinkedIn: Caleb Arringdale [https://www.linkedin.com/in/caleb-arringdale-6652a621/] * caleb@theplanningcenter.com [http://calebplanningcenter.com]  * Phone: (309) 797-4030 Connect with Ashley Quamme: * LinkedIn: Ashley Quamme [https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashley-quamme/] * Website: Beyond the Plan® [https://www.beyondthefp.com/] * YouTube: Beyond the Plan® [https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondthePlanSolutions/videos] About our Guest:  Ashley Quamme is recognized as a leading voice in financial psychology, with nearly 15 years of experience at the intersection of human behavior and money. Trained as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Financial Behavior Specialist®, her work has been shaped by a deep understanding of how emotions, relationships, and biases influence financial decision-making. Her expertise has been sought by advisory firms, financial institutions, and professional organizations across North America, where she has guided advisors and leaders in embedding behavioral insights into their systems, conversations, and client strategies. Known for bridging the gap between technical advice and human behavior, Ashley’s approach has been instrumental in transforming client experiences, advisor confidence, and firm-wide impact. Her work has been featured on leading podcasts, industry conferences, and corporate trainings, where she is consistently recognized for making complex behavioral science both practical and actionable.

Why Play Still Matters: Lessons From the Game Table (Ep. 17)

Family game nights can do more than bring people together. They can build connections across generations, teach resilience, and create memorable moments that outlast the scoreboard. In this episode of Living Beyond the Numbers, Jude Boudreaux and Caleb Arringdale are joined by Rob Baner, Tax Advisor, and Abney Fortino, Tax Analyst at The Planning Center, for a fun and surprisingly thoughtful conversation about why play still matters, especially for busy families. Together, they discuss: * How childhood board games influenced their competitive streaks and problem-solving styles * Why games offer a meaningful way for families to connect across ages and personalities * The rise of modern board gaming and how it brings people together in new ways * Practical recommendations from avid gamers on the TPC tax team * Lessons families can model through play, including sportsmanship, handling loss, and healthy competition * And more! Resources: * Axis & Allies: 1941 (WWII strategy board game) [https://www.amazon.com/Renegade-Game-Studios-Axis-Allies/dp/B0BRYMTMYH] * Just One (cooperative party game) [https://www.amazon.com/Repos-JUST01-Just-One-Various/dp/B07GJ7NDZQ?] * Codenames (spy word game) [https://www.amazon.com/Czech-Games-00031CGE-Codenames/dp/B014Q1XX9S?] * Diplomacy (Cooperative Board Game) [https://www.amazon.com/Hasbro-Gaming-Diplomacy-Cooperative-Political/dp/B08TPDFW51] * Hickory Dickory (worker-placement clock game) [https://www.amazon.com/Plaid-Hat-Games-Hickory-Dickory/dp/B0BL23NHW2] * Ticket to Ride (railway strategy game) [https://www.amazon.com/Days-Wonder-DO7201-Ticket-Ride/dp/0975277324?] * Kingdomino (strategy tile game) [https://www.amazon.com/Blue-Orange-Kingdomino-Winning-Strategy/dp/B01N3A4070?] * Flamecraft (dragon-themed strategy game) [https://www.amazon.com/Flamecraft-Strategy-Lucky-Duck-Games/dp/B0BVBVBMPL?] * CMYK Wavelength: The Mind Reading Party Game [https://www.amazon.com/Monikers-WAV01-Wavelength/dp/B07T446163] * Root (asymmetric woodland strategy game) [https://www.amazon.com/Leder-Games-LED01000-Root/dp/B07F454YF3] * Risk (classic strategy board game) [https://www.amazon.com/Board-Strategy-Players-Adults-Family/dp/B01ALHAIWG] Connect with Jude Boudreaux CFP®:  * The Planning Center [https://www.theplanningcenter.com/] * LinkedIn: Jude Boudreaux [https://www.linkedin.com/in/judeb/] * jude@theplanningcenter.com [jude@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (504) 717-4862 Connect with Caleb Arringdale: * LinkedIn: Caleb Arringdale [https://www.linkedin.com/in/caleb-arringdale-6652a621/] * caleb@theplanningcenter.com [http://calebplanningcenter.com]  * Phone: (309) 797-4030 Connect with Rob Baner: * LinkedIn: Rob Baner * rob@theplanningcenter.com [rob@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (309) 797-4030 Connect with Abney Fortino: * LinkedIn: Abney Fortino [https://www.linkedin.com/in/abney-fortino-ea-715681153/] * abney@theplanningcenter.com [abney@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (309) 797-4030 About our Guests:  As a CPA, Rob Baner’s responsibilities focus primarily on taxes and tax matters. Rob joined The Planning Center in 2015, after working with a full-service Quad Cities CPA firm from 2010 to 2015. Though his duties vary based upon the needs of our clients, Rob works collaboratively with our financial planners to provide integrated tax preparation and tax planning services to our clients. It’s important to remember that tax planning is a year-round job and April 15th is simply the culmination of our work. Nothing gives Rob greater satisfaction than knowing that we have helped our clients navigate the maze that is our tax system. Abney Fortino joined The Planning Center in 2018. Abney’s responsibilities as a tax analyst include tax planning, preparation, and reviewing tax forms for individuals. In addition to those duties, Abney assists with accounting and operations within the company.

Inside The Trade Desk: How Discipline Builds Financial Confidence with Kevin Olson (Ep. 16)

When markets move fast, having a disciplined process matters even more. In this episode of Living Beyond the Numbers, Jude Boudreaux and Caleb Arringdale sit down with Kevin Olson, Trade Desk Associate at The Planning Center, for a rare behind-the-scenes look at how portfolios are managed day to day and what really happens when markets swing. Together, they unpack how The Planning Center’s investment committee works, why rebalancing is one of the most important (but least understood) parts of long-term investing, and how their systems keep clients focused on what truly matters: peace of mind, not market noise. Here’s what you’ll learn: * The real role of a trade desk and how it supports clients behind the scenes * What rebalancing really means and why it protects your portfolio over time * How to stay calm and think long term when the headlines get loud * The power of process, philosophy, and teamwork in financial decision-making * And more! Connect with Jude Boudreaux CFP®:  * The Planning Center [https://www.theplanningcenter.com/] * LinkedIn: Jude Boudreaux [https://www.linkedin.com/in/judeb/] * jude@theplanningcenter.com [jude@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (504) 717-4862 Connect with Caleb Arringdale: * LinkedIn: Caleb Arringdale [https://www.linkedin.com/in/caleb-arringdale-6652a621/] * caleb@theplanningcenter.com [http://calebplanningcenter.com]  * Phone: (309) 797-4030 Connect with Kevin Olson: * LinkedIn: Kevin Olson [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-olson-91b708341/] * kevin@theplanningcenter.com [kevin@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (888) 333-6986 About our Guest: Kevin Olson, CFP®, is a Trade Desk Associate at The Planning Center in Moline, where he brings 7 years of investment experience, having previously worked for The Vanguard Group in Scottsdale, Arizona. He is responsible for running our trade desk, which includes daily trades as well as weekly rebalancing of accounts. I also serve as a member of our Investment Committee.

Designing a Meaningful Retirement with Mike Branham (Ep. 15)

Sometimes the path forward looks more like a winding trail than a straight line. In this episode, Jude Boudreaux, CFP®, and Caleb Arringdale, EA,  sit down with Michael Branham, CFP®, Shareholder and Senior Financial Planner at The Planning Center’s Alaska office, to talk about career pivots, family priorities, and why retirement isn’t really an ending, it’s a transition into a more intentional way of living. Mike shares how his journey, from the Midwest to Alaska and from chasing success to defining balance, has shaped his perspective on money, legacy, and fulfillment. Together, they explore what it means to build a financial life that’s resilient, values-driven, and grounded in real life. Listeners can expect insights on: * Navigating major life transitions with clarity and adaptability * Redefining retirement as a phase of purpose and reinvention, not withdrawal * Understanding your “why” before focusing on “how much” * Finding a balance between professional ambition and a meaningful personal life * And more! Connect with Jude Boudreaux CFP®:  * The Planning Center [https://www.theplanningcenter.com/] * LinkedIn: Jude Boudreaux [https://www.linkedin.com/in/judeb/] * jude@theplanningcenter.com [jude@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (504) 717-4862 Connect with Caleb Arringdale: * LinkedIn: Caleb Arringdale [https://www.linkedin.com/in/caleb-arringdale-6652a621/] * caleb@theplanningcenter.com [http://calebplanningcenter.com]  * Phone: (309) 797-4030 Connect with Mike Branham CFP®: * LinkedIn: Michael Branham, CFP® [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mabranham/] * mike@theplanningcenter.com [mike@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (763) 494-0095 About our Guest:  Mike embraces his fiduciary duty to clients and believes that the best path to help you reach your life’s goals is through an integrated planning approach that coordinates each facet of your financial life. We start each engagement with an in-depth conversation about your goals and aspirations. Next, we collaborate to customize a plan that incorporates your resources, current and future, into achieving your life’s dreams. From there, we continue our work together to maintain and adjust your plan as “life happens”, and to help you navigate each of your key personal and career transitions along the way.

Behind the Scenes: The People Who Keep Your Financial Life Moving (Ep. 14)

When it comes to financial planning, it’s often the behind-the-scenes teamwork that makes everything work seamlessly. In this episode of Living Beyond the Numbers, Jude Boudreaux and Caleb Arringdale sit down with two of The Planning Center’s client service specialists, Marisa Hardwick (Chicago) and Blake Murphy-Skelley (Moline), to spotlight the people who make sure every account, transfer, and detail is handled with care. Together, they pull back the curtain on what it really means to serve clients well, solving problems quietly, building trust, and creating a sense of calm even during life’s most stressful moments. From handling RMD season to comforting clients after loss, Marisa and Blake share how empathy, precision, and teamwork bring The Planning Center’s mission to life every day. What to expect: * The role client service specialists play in delivering peace of mind * How small details and follow-ups create big client trust * What happens behind the scenes during transfers and RMD season * The emotional heart of financial service and why it matters Discover the care, coordination, and human connection that keep your financial life running smoothly. Connect with Jude Boudreaux CFP® * The Planning Center [https://www.theplanningcenter.com/] * LinkedIn: Jude Boudreaux [https://www.linkedin.com/in/judeb/] * jude@theplanningcenter.com [jude@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (504) 717-4862 Connect with Caleb Arringdale: * LinkedIn: Caleb Arringdale [https://www.linkedin.com/in/caleb-arringdale-6652a621/] * caleb@theplanningcenter.com [http://calebplanningcenter.com]  * Phone: (309) 797-4030 Connect with Marisa Hardwick: * LinkedIn: Marisa Hardwick [https://www.linkedin.com/in/marisa-hardwick-a45257241/] * marisah@theplanningcenter.com [marisah@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (312) 664-4090 Connect with Blake Murphy-Skelley: * blake@theplanningcenter.com [blake@theplanningcenter.com] * Phone: (309) 794-4030 About our Guests: As a Client Services Specialist, Marisa Hardwick’s responsibilities include providing administrative support to our financial planners and excellent customer service to our clients. With a background in healthcare services and working in residential life as a Resident Advisor while in college, it has always been a passion of hers to help those in need. Marisa strives to foster a supportive environment for our team, assuring they can depend on her to deliver top-notch service to our clients. Blake Murphy-Skelley’s responsibility as a Client Services Specialist is to assist all clients of The Planning Center and members of our team. He has been working in customer service since he was 14 years old and is glad to be bringing that knowledge and experience to The Planning Center. Blake wants to provide a safe space for clients to feel comfortable as soon as they walk through the front door.