Look in Through the Glass

Self-Care, Support, and the Reality of Motherhood

Motherhood can be one of the most beautiful experiences in life, but it can also be one of the most overwhelming. In this episode, we dive into the emotional, mental, and physical realities of postpartum and the challenges many mothers face long after giving birth. We talk about how postpartum is not just a few weeks or months—it can last for years. Many women struggle in silence with isolation, anxiety, exhaustion, and the pressure to “do it all” while feeling unsupported or judged. The conversation explores how every mother’s experience is different and how personal backgrounds, relationships, hospital experiences, and support systems can shape the journey into motherhood. This episode also highlights the importance of community, compassion, and self-care. We discuss why asking for help is not weakness, why mothers should never feel like a burden, and how small acts of support can make a huge difference. From emotional struggles to practical ways of helping moms in everyday life, this conversation is about breaking the stigma around mental health in motherhood and creating spaces where women feel seen, supported, and understood. Most importantly, this episode is a reminder that no mother is meant to do this alone. It takes a village, and open conversations like this can help mothers feel less isolated, more empowered, and more connected in their journey. email: 12lookinthru34theglass@gmail.com Socials: https://www.facebook.com/share/1L269jdV5e/ [https://www.facebook.com/share/1L269jdV5e/] https://www.instagram.com/lookinthrutheglass?igsh=MWhmZml2dG12aDU5OQ== [https://www.instagram.com/lookinthrutheglass?igsh=MWhmZml2dG12aDU5OQ==] https://www.tiktok.com/@lookinthrutheglass?_r=1&_t=ZT-95LgU0iC1bq [https://www.tiktok.com/@lookinthrutheglass?_r=1&_t=ZT-95LgU0iC1bq]

“This Isn’t the Person I Married”: The Truth About Trauma in Relationships

In this deeply revealing conversation, Larry Bilotta invites us beneath the surface of our adult relationships and into the hidden architecture of the childhood experiences that shape them. Through his lens, we begin to see that what unfolds in marriage is rarely about the present moment—it is often the echo of unresolved emotional imprints, quietly driving reactions, fears, and disconnection. Together, Larry, Sela, and Jeselle explore how the subconscious mind stores these early imprints, influencing how we love, protect, withdraw, and respond. Larry introduces the concept of a personal “emotional scale,” illuminating how our formative environments can condition us toward chaos, control, or disconnection—and how many of us unknowingly recreate these patterns in our most intimate relationships. The conversation moves beyond awareness into transformation. It challenges the idea that we are bound to our past, offering instead a path toward breaking reactive cycles—what Larry likens to stepping outside the predictable laws of emotional motion. Through self-recognition, intentional support, and the courage to confront internal narratives, healing becomes not just possible, but inevitable. Woven throughout are raw reflections on addiction, mother-daughter dynamics, and the quiet war of negative self-talk—revealing how fear-based living can fracture identity, while self-love has the power to restore it. This episode reframes healing as a conscious shift: from survival to presence, from inherited pain to chosen love. Ultimately, this is a conversation about reclaiming authorship over your life—learning to walk out of the “fear story” you were given, and into a reality shaped by awareness, compassion, and truth. Larry Bilotta | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/MrLarryBilotta/] What Causes a Midlife Crisis? Cause of Anxiety & Negative Thoughts [https://www.youtube.com/larrybilotta] Larry Bilotta (@larrybilotta) • Instagram photos and videos [https://www.instagram.com/larrybilotta/] It Only Takes ONE Person To Heal a Marriage - Larry Bilotta [https://youcansavethismarriage.com/]

Unlocking Mental Wellness: Camp’s Revolutionary Toolkit

In this illuminating conversation, we sit down with Camp, a TikTok creator and mental health advocate, to explore the evolving landscape of mental wellness, personal growth, and education reform. From innovative mental health toolkits to the transformative potential of AI, Camp shares insights on how we can better understand our minds, break generational cycles of trauma, and cultivate resilience. This episode challenges traditional approaches to therapy and education, offering a vision for a future where emotional intelligence, creativity, and self-awareness are central to personal and societal growth. Through candid stories of recovery, digital innovation, and systemic critique, Camp invites listeners to reflect on their own mental wellness journeys, showing how technology, community, and mindful self-discovery can become powerful allies in the pursuit of a healthier, more connected life. (68)Campfire Tales🔥 (@ [https://www.tiktok.com/@campfiretales.shop]campfiretales.shop [http://campfiretales.shop]) | TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@campfiretales.shop]

From Soil to Soul: How Care Transforms Health and Healing

In this episode, Jeselle and Sela explore the intricate intersections between mental health, recovery, and the natural world. They examine how cannabis and other plant-based remedies can open the mind, aid in addiction recovery, and offer alternative paths to healing often overlooked by mainstream medicine. The conversation challenges societal narratives and media propaganda around cannabis, highlighting the tension between natural remedies and a pharmaceutical industry driven by profit and regulatory barriers. Beyond plants, the discussion delves into the ethical and psychological dimensions of animal treatment, revealing how the way we raise and consume animals can ripple into human health and mental well-being. The duo also reflects on the overlooked power of care and attention—whether to plants, animals, or ourselves—and how these practices shape our consciousness and emotional health. The episode touches on historical gender biases in medical research, the legal and behavioral contrasts between alcohol and marijuana, and the critical importance of seeking help for mental health challenges. Through personal stories and reflections, Jeselle and Sela weave a compelling narrative about the interconnectedness of natural remedies, societal norms, and conscious living, urging listeners to rethink healing, responsibility, and awareness in everyday choices.

Chasing the Feeling: Emotional Addiction After Trauma

This episode is a deeply human exploration of how trauma imprints itself not only on the mind, but on the body, identity, and the ways we seek connection. Jeselle, Sela, and Kristen courageously unravel the often-unspoken link between sexual trauma and hypersexuality, illuminating how early wounds can shape desire, attachment, and emotional regulation in ways that are frequently misunderstood. Through raw personal storytelling, they move beyond labels and into lived experience—revealing how survival responses like dissociation, “freeze mode,” and emotional numbing can evolve into patterns that resemble addiction. Grounded in neuroscience, the conversation sheds light on how the brain becomes conditioned to chase emotional highs as a way to escape unresolved pain, creating cycles that feel both compulsive and confusing. At the heart of this dialogue is the concept of emotional sobriety—not just as recovery, but as a return. A return to self-awareness, to truth, and to a life no longer driven by unconscious patterns or the need to self-medicate emotional wounds. Kristin introduces the deeper philosophy behind the Paramore Paradox, inviting listeners to move beyond self-improvement and into self-revelation—the remembering of who they were before trauma, shame, and the need for acceptance shaped their identity. Together, they examine the “masks” we wear to be loved, the quiet addictions we form to feelings and validation, and the profound courage it takes to sit with ourselves without distraction. This episode reframes healing not as fixing what is broken, but as gently peeling back the layers that were never truly us. Ultimately, this is a conversation about reclaiming wholeness. About finding freedom not through control or perfection, but through awareness, compassion, and community. It is an invitation to anyone navigating the aftermath of trauma to step out of survival mode—and into a life rooted in authenticity, connection, and emotional truth. Paramour Paradox [https://www.paramourparadox.com/] Paramour Paradox | Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/paramourparadox] Paramour Paradox (@paramourparadox) • Instagram photos and videos [https://www.instagram.com/paramourparadox]