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Sandy and Tom Bird/Lorna and Marty Anderson - Part 2

When 33-year-old Sandra Bird, a devoted mother and the wife of popular Faith Lutheran Church pastor Tom Bird, was found dead in the Cottonwood River near Emporia, Kansas, the town mourned what appears to be a tragic car accident. But Kansas Highway Patrol Trooper John Rule felt like something was off. From a complete lack of skid marks to mysterious bloodstains found where they shouldn’t have been, the physical evidence just didn’t add up. Months later, the community was rocked again when Martin Anderson, the husband of the church's secretary, Lorna Anderson, was gunned down on a dark highway in an apparent robbery gone wrong. What followed was one of the most tangled criminal cases in Kansas history: competing trials, a jailhouse reversal, a made-for-TV movie, and a legal fight that stretched across nearly a decade. Support us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/lovemarrykill]

Sandy and Tom Bird/Lorna and Marty Anderson - Part 1

When 33-year-old Sandra Bird, a devoted mother and the wife of popular Faith Lutheran Church pastor Tom Bird, was found dead in the Cottonwood River near Emporia, Kansas, the town mourned what appears to be a tragic car accident. But Kansas Highway Patrol Trooper John Rule felt like something was off. From a complete lack of skid marks to mysterious bloodstains found where they shouldn’t have been, the physical evidence just didn’t add up. Months later, the community was rocked again when Martin Anderson, the husband of the church's secretary, Lorna Anderson, was gunned down on a dark highway in an apparent robbery gone wrong. What followed was one of the most tangled criminal cases in Kansas history: competing trials, a jailhouse reversal, a made-for-TV movie, and a legal fight that stretched across nearly a decade. Listen to part 2 on Patreon [https://patreon.com/lovemarrykill] Sources: * Breneman, Allie. "Bird Bridge: What lies beneath." The ESU Bulletin, 30 Oct. 2025, https://esubulletin.com/19335/news/bird-bridge-what-lies-beneath/ [https://esubulletin.com/19335/news/bird-bridge-what-lies-beneath/]. * Hrenchir, Tim. "Board grants parole to Lorna Anderson Moore." The Capital-Journal, 2 Feb. 2007. Google Groups, http://cjonline.com/stories/020207/bre_moore.shtml [http://cjonline.com/stories/020207/bre_moore.shtml]. * Kraft, Scott. "Murderous Affair Shocks Kansas Town." Los Angeles Times, 17 Mar. 1986. Newspapers.com, https://www.newspapers.com/image/401821025/ [https://www.newspapers.com/image/401821025/]. * Kraft, Scott. "Who Killed Sandy Bird?" Los Angeles Times, 2 May 2004. * Norton, Bill. "A love worth killing for. Part I. The Preacher & The Spider Lady." The Kansas City Star, 1 Dec. 1985, p. 14. Newspapers.com, https://www.newspapers.com/image/679701233/ [https://www.newspapers.com/image/679701233/]. * Norton, Bill. "Cleric convicted of killing spouse raps TV verdict." The Evansville Courier, 4 May 1987, p. 1. Newspapers.com, https://www.newspapers.com/image/768496369/ [https://www.newspapers.com/image/768496369/]. * Sengupta, Sounak. "Martin Anderson Murder: What Happened to Lorna Elridge and Tom Bird?" 4 Nov. 2022. * State v. Bird. 238 Kan. 160, 708 P.2d 946. Supreme Court of Kansas. 25 Oct. 1985. * State v. Bird. 240 Kan. 288, 729 P.2d 1136. Supreme Court of Kansas. 5 Dec. 1986. * "A Murderous Minister & His Mistress in Emporia, Kansas | City Confidential | A&E." YouTube, uploaded by A&E, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rtEZYqZ69Vs [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rtEZYqZ69Vs]

Bonus Episode: Judy Malinowski

When Judy Malinowski met Michael Slager in April 2015, she was ready for love again after beating ovarian cancer and opioid addiction but the relationship quickly turned violent. After dating for only a few months, Slager poured gasoline on Judy and set her on fire, burning more than 80% of her body. Judy's unforgettable story is one of extraordinary courage, resilience, and determination in the face of unimaginable suffering. Her will to live to make a difference for domestic violence survivors is inspirational. Support us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/lovemarrykill] Sources: * https://www.judysfoundation.org/ * https://www.paramountplus.com/movies/video/ic8hltRIC14XlBHp1sJ_WHU3GgroSmdj/#open [https://www.paramountplus.com/movies/video/ic8hltRIC14XlBHp1sJ_WHU3GgroSmdj/#open] The Fire That Took Her  * https://www.egan-ryan.com/obituary/Judith-Malinowski [https://www.egan-ryan.com/obituary/Judith-Malinowski] * https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/judy-malinowskis-daughters-our-mommy-didnt-suffer-vain/530-6de5eb7f-fd48-4e56-87ff-314445285b16 [https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/judy-malinowskis-daughters-our-mommy-didnt-suffer-vain/530-6de5eb7f-fd48-4e56-87ff-314445285b16] * https://nc.prelawland.com/post/173290941067/unprecedented-decision-in-malinowski-case [https://nc.prelawland.com/post/173290941067/unprecedented-decision-in-malinowski-case] * https://www.newspapers.com/image/1322732261/?match=1&terms=Judy%20Malinowski\ [https://www.newspapers.com/image/1322732261/?match=1&terms=Judy%20Malinowski%5C] * https://www.weeklywilson.com/tag/judy-malinowski/ [https://www.weeklywilson.com/tag/judy-malinowski/] * https://www.newspapers.com/image/422380424/?match=1&terms=%22Judy%20Malinowski%22 [https://www.newspapers.com/image/422380424/?match=1&terms=%22Judy%20Malinowski%22] * https://appgateway.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/Search/DetailsPrint/A731261 [https://appgateway.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/Search/DetailsPrint/A731261] * https://www.nbc4i.com/news/local-news/michael-slager-sentenced-to-life-in-prison-after-pleading-guilty-in-judy-malinowski-murder-case/ [https://www.nbc4i.com/news/local-news/michael-slager-sentenced-to-life-in-prison-after-pleading-guilty-in-judy-malinowski-murder-case/] * https://www.narconon.org/blog/ohio-among-top-four-states-for-opioid-related-addictions-and-death.html [https://www.narconon.org/blog/ohio-among-top-four-states-for-opioid-related-addictions-and-death.html]

Pelley Family Murders - Part 2

In April 1989, four members of the Pelley family were brutally murdered inside their Indiana church parsonage just hours before prom. Investigators quickly focused on 17-year-old Jeff Pelley, but the case against him was entirely circumstantial and filled with lingering questions. Over the decades, the murders have sparked debate, allegations of tunnel vision, alternate theories, and claims of wrongful conviction. In this two-part episode, we examine the complicated dynamics inside the blended Pelley family, the timeline prosecutors built their case around, the evidence both for and against Jeff, and the questions that still surround the murders more than 35 years later. Support us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/lovemarrykill]

Pelley Family Murders - Part 1

In April 1989, four members of the Pelley family were brutally murdered inside their Indiana church parsonage just hours before prom. Investigators quickly focused on 17-year-old Jeff Pelley, but the case against him was entirely circumstantial and filled with lingering questions. Over the decades, the murders have sparked debate, allegations of tunnel vision, alternate theories, and claims of wrongful conviction. In this two-part episode, we examine the complicated dynamics inside the blended Pelley family, the timeline prosecutors built their case around, the evidence both for and against Jeff, and the questions that still surround the murders more than 35 years later. Listen to part 2 now [https://patreon.com/lovemarrykill] Sources: * Smith, Carlton. The Prom Night Murders: A Devoted American Family, TheirTroubled Son, and a Ghastly Crime. (2009) St Martin Press Paperbacks.  * Collins, Jamie. I Am Jessica: A Survivor’s Powerful Story of Healing and Hope. (2018) Bold Whisper Books.  * https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4BocUsSQBEla6rhVv4Qvuy?si=cd29e60111884bd1 [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4BocUsSQBEla6rhVv4Qvuy?si=cd29e60111884bd1] CounterClock Podcast * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kcwS2KefKcA&t=2s [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kcwS2KefKcA&t=2s] 48 Hours episode * https://www.facebook.com/48hours/posts/police-in-lakeville-indiana-say-jeff-pelley-17-killed-his-family-to-make-his-198/1093956515937125/ [https://www.facebook.com/48hours/posts/police-in-lakeville-indiana-say-jeff-pelley-17-killed-his-family-to-make-his-198/1093956515937125/] * https://www.cbsnews.com/pictures/evidence-photos-pelley-family-quadruple-murder/ [https://www.cbsnews.com/pictures/evidence-photos-pelley-family-quadruple-murder/] * https://caselaw.findlaw.com/court/in-supreme-court/1230713.html [https://caselaw.findlaw.com/court/in-supreme-court/1230713.html] * https://public.courts.in.gov/Decisions/api/Document/Opinion?Id=x0jKlMAx-gZmv4EhhqVqWX9OhIA35sjGaSBly2Eo9dLNxzy8pEeP9kliFiCH-l1o0 [https://public.courts.in.gov/Decisions/api/Document/Opinion?Id=x0jKlMAx-gZmv4EhhqVqWX9OhIA35sjGaSBly2Eo9dLNxzy8pEeP9kliFiCH-l1o0] * https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/131577054/ava_joyce-pelley?utm_source=chatgpt.com#view-photo=229819654 [https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/131577054/ava_joyce-pelley?utm_source=chatgpt.com#view-photo=229819654] * https://www.ourmidland.com/news/article/Cherished-life-7019590.php [https://www.ourmidland.com/news/article/Cherished-life-7019590.php] Jessi  * https://nypost.com/2021/05/01/prom-night-murders-new-intel-points-to-dads-shady-past/ [https://nypost.com/2021/05/01/prom-night-murders-new-intel-points-to-dads-shady-past/]  * https://www.justiceforjeff.org/ [https://www.justiceforjeff.org/] * https://www.southbendtribune.com/story/news/local/2022/01/03/prom-night-murders-counterclock-podcast-questions-jeff-pelleys-guilt/8975090002/ [https://www.southbendtribune.com/story/news/local/2022/01/03/prom-night-murders-counterclock-podcast-questions-jeff-pelleys-guilt/8975090002/] * https://www.southbendtribune.com/story/news/2022/03/16/jeff-pelley-indiana-prom-night-murders/7048236001/ [https://www.southbendtribune.com/story/news/2022/03/16/jeff-pelley-indiana-prom-night-murders/7048236001/] * https://www.newspapers.com/image/522511070/?match=1&terms=%22Robert%20Jeffrey%20Pelley%22 [https://www.newspapers.com/image/522511070/?match=1&terms=%22Robert%20Jeffrey%20Pelley%22] * https://www.newspapers.com/image/516443144/?article=691a885a-1f57-4eb2-9df2-ecb8bb3fd66e&terms=%22Jeff%20Pelley%22 [https://www.newspapers.com/image/516443144/?article=691a885a-1f57-4eb2-9df2-ecb8bb3fd66e&terms=%22Jeff%20Pelley%22] * https://www.newspapers.com/image/522510658/?match=1&terms=%22Jeff%20Pelley%22 [https://www.newspapers.com/image/522510658/?match=1&terms=%22Jeff%20Pelley%22] * https://www.wndu.com/2024/04/29/jeff-pelley-convicted-nearly-20-years-ago-prom-night-killer-denied-retrial/ [https://www.wndu.com/2024/04/29/jeff-pelley-convicted-nearly-20-years-ago-prom-night-killer-denied-retrial/]