NOW - No Opportunity Wasted with Angelica Ross

In this episode of "Now, No Opportunity Wasted," I, Angelica Ross, dive into the significance of July 1st, a date rich with history and cultural milestones. We kick off with a powerful quote from Daisaku Ikeda's "Buddhism Day by Day," emphasizing the importance of gratitude and the dangers of arrogance. This sets the tone for a fast-paced discussion that intertwines technology, art, and social justice. I reflect on the revolutionary impact of the Sony Walkman, released on July 1, 1979, which transformed how we engage with music and our surroundings. I also celebrate the birthday of Missy Elliott, a trailblazer who redefined power and creativity for Black women and femmes, and Amanda Seals, whose unapologetic truth-telling inspires me and many others. The conversation shifts to JoJo Siwa, who recently expressed feeling pressured by the queer community to identify as a lesbian. I address the complexities of identity and the real pressures that exist within society, particularly the pressure to conform to heteronormative standards. I highlight insights from the podcast "Hoodrat to Headwrap," where hosts Erica Hart and Ebony Donley discuss the omnipresent pressure to be straight, contrasting it with the narrative that the queer community is coercive. Next, I touch on the topic of non-binary identities and trans freedom, referencing T.S. Madison's podcast "Outlaws." I emphasize that being trans is not confined to a binary definition and that each individual's journey is unique. I share my own identity as a non-binary trans woman, advocating for authenticity and liberation over labels. As the episode progresses, I confront the silence of public figures like DJ Khaled regarding the situation in Palestine, expressing my frustration with performative activism. I stress the urgency of using platforms to uplift the oppressed and call out complacency. The episode wraps up with a lively Q&A session, where I engage with listeners about various topics, including career transitions into tech through TransTech, the importance of representation in the arts, and the challenges faced by trans individuals in the entertainment industry. I encourage listeners to embrace their unique journeys, build their confidence, and seek out opportunities that align with their passions. Throughout this episode, I aim to inspire and empower my audience to disrupt the status quo, dream big, and show up authentically in their lives. Join me as we continue to explore these vital conversations and uplift each other in the process. In this episode of "Now, No Opportunity Wasted," I, Angelica Ross, dive into the significance of July 1st, a date rich with history and cultural milestones. We kick off with a powerful quote from Daisaku Ikeda's "Buddhism Day by Day," emphasizing the importance of gratitude and the dangers of arrogance. This sets the tone for a fast-paced discussion that intertwines technology, art, and social justice. I reflect on the revolutionary impact of the Sony Walkman, released on July 1, 1979, which transformed how we engage with music and our surroundings. I also celebrate the birthday of Missy Elliott, a trailblazer who redefined power and creativity for Black women and femmes, and Amanda Seals, whose unapologetic truth-telling inspires me and many others. The conversation shifts to JoJo Siwa, who recently expressed feeling pressured by the queer community to identify as a lesbian. I address the complexities of identity and the real pressures that exist within society, particularly the pressure to conform to heteronormative standards. I highlight insights from the podcast "Hoodrat to Headwrap," where hosts Erica Hart and Ebony Donley discuss the omnipresent pressure to be straight, contrasting it with the narrative that the queer community is coercive. Next, I touch on the topic of non-binary identities and trans freedom, referencing T.S. Madison's podcast "Outlaws." I emphasize that being trans is not confined to a binary definition and that each individual's journey is unique. I share my own identity as a non-binary trans woman, advocating for authenticity and liberation over labels. As the episode progresses, I confront the silence of public figures like DJ Khaled regarding the situation in Palestine, expressing my frustration with performative activism. I stress the urgency of using platforms to uplift the oppressed and call out complacency. The episode wraps up with a lively Q&A session, where I engage with listeners about various topics, including career transitions into tech through TransTech, the importance of representation in the arts, and the challenges faced by trans individuals in the entertainment industry. I encourage listeners to embrace their unique journeys, build their confidence, and seek out opportunities that align with their passions. Throughout this episode, I aim to inspire and empower my audience to disrupt the status quo, dream big, and show up authentically in their lives. Join me as we continue to explore these vital conversations and uplift each other in the process.

Lena Bradford, a renowned DJ and activist has been a vibrant part of New York's cultural scene for decades. As we celebrated Pride Month, Lena shared her recent honor of being named the Grand Marshal of the Pride Parade, a role she views as a significant opportunity to represent the LGBTQ+ community and inspire others. Lena reflected on her upbringing in Manhattan and the rich tapestry of experiences that shaped her journey. She spoke passionately about the importance of community and connection, emphasizing how her spiritual outlook and openness to others have kept her thriving in an industry that can be unforgiving. We delved into her experiences DJing at some of the most iconic celebrations in New York, and how the city's unique energy continues to inspire her work. Throughout our conversation, Lena highlighted the importance of recognizing our predecessors and the trailblazers who paved the way for the current generation. She shared heartfelt stories about her grandmother, a dominatrix and opera singer, who introduced her to the vibrant nightlife of New York at a young age. This background instilled in her a deep appreciation for diversity and the power of community. As we navigated the current political climate, Lena offered insightful advice to the younger generation, encouraging them to stay informed and proactive. She emphasized the importance of community over individualism, especially for marginalized groups, and how collective action can lead to meaningful change. We also touched on Lena's upcoming memoir, where she is revisiting her past and reflecting on her journey. She candidly discussed the challenges of writing about her experiences and the importance of therapy in her healing process. Lena's commitment to living authentically and uplifting others was evident throughout our conversation. In closing, we celebrated the need to center trans voices and recognize the contributions of those still fighting for equality today. Lena's energy and wisdom will leave you inspired.

In this episode of "Now," I, Angelica Ross, dive into a range of topics that reflect on personal growth, societal issues, and pop culture. We begin with a quote from "Buddhism Day by Day" by Daisaku Ikeda, emphasizing the importance of dialogue and the courage to stand up for oneself. This leads me to reflect on the struggles we all face and the need to fight for our space and identity in a world that often tries to suppress us. As I transition into current events, I discuss the ongoing situation in Israel and the Biden administration's lack of pressure for a ceasefire, highlighting the frustration and confusion surrounding the narrative. I also touch on Terrence Howard's recent controversy regarding his refusal to portray same-sex intimacy in a biopic, questioning whether his stance is rooted in homophobia or personal boundaries. This segues into a broader discussion about masculinity, abuse, and the societal expectations placed on men. I share my thoughts on the entertainment industry, particularly regarding the representation of Black stories and the tendency to insert white characters into predominantly Black narratives. I express my desire to see more authentic representation and advocate for the inclusion of Black queer voices in mainstream media. The episode also features a segment on the Real Housewives of Atlanta, where I discuss Kenya Moore's behavior and the dynamics of celebrity culture. I argue that celebrity culture reflects our societal values and that we need to celebrate each other more rather than idolizing distant figures. Towards the end, I emphasize the importance of real relationships and experiences in practicing spirituality and humanity. I challenge listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and actions, urging them to engage in meaningful dialogue and activism. Finally, I conclude with a Buddhist breadcrumb, reminding us that true wisdom comes from understanding the world around us and engaging with it, rather than retreating into a bubble of privilege. This episode is a call to action for listeners to be more aware, engaged, and supportive of one another in our shared struggles.

In this episode of "No Opportunity Wasted," we talk about the importance of self-knowledge and self-leadership, emphasizing that we are the architects of our own lives. I kick off the episode with a powerful quote from Daisaku Ikeda's "Buddhism Day by Day," which highlights the significance of knowing oneself as a foundation for human dignity. Later we welcome back Renita Shannon, a former Georgia state representative and activist as we tackle the pressing issues surrounding the current political landscape, particularly the frustrations with the Democratic Party's complacency and the ongoing political challenges, including tariff wars with Canada, Mexico, and China. Renita breaks down the complexities of tariffs, explaining how they impact not just foreign countries but also American consumers, leading to increased costs for everyday goods. We explore the broader implications of these political decisions, including how they affect jobs and the economy. Renita passionately critiques the motivations behind voting for Trump, asserting that many voters were driven by bigotry rather than economic concerns. We discuss the need for accountability within the Democratic Party and the importance of resistance, even when it comes from within the party itself. The conversation shifts to the ballroom culture, where I introduce our next guest, Dashaun Wesley, a legendary figure in the ballroom scene. Dashaun shares his experiences of navigating the complexities of identity and acceptance within both the ballroom community and mainstream society. He reflects on the evolution of ballroom culture, highlighting the importance of self-expression and the need for education about the roots of our community. Throughout the episode, we emphasize the necessity of community support and resilience in the face of adversity. We discuss how the personal is political, and how our individual journeys of self-knowledge can lead to collective empowerment. As we wrap up, I encourage listeners to embrace their own narratives and seize opportunities, reminding them that waiting for someone else to create change is a losing game. Join us for this very enlightening conversation that challenges the status quo and hopefully inspires us all to take action in our lives and communities.

In this episode of "Now No Opportunity Wasted," we delve into a raw and honest conversation with Jerome Trammell, a talented producer known for his work with Fox Soul and various prominent figures in the entertainment industry. This episode is part of my ongoing journey to share previously unreleased conversations that challenge me and push the boundaries of comfort, particularly around topics that are often deemed too messy or controversial. We kick off the episode with a thought-provoking quote from Daisaku Ikeda's "Day by Day Wisdom for a Modern Life," emphasizing the importance of living a full and rewarding life rather than merely existing. This theme resonates throughout our discussion as we explore the complexities of representation, social media dynamics, and the intricacies of identity within our community. Before diving into our main conversation, I address some pressing social issues, including the recent arrest of Palestinian activist Mamoud Khalil by ICE, which raises concerns about the targeting of pro-Palestinian activists under both Republican and Democratic administrations. I stress the need for accountability across party lines and highlight the ongoing attacks on marginalized communities, particularly trans rights. As we transition into the "Make It Make Sense" segment, I welcome my friend Renita Shannon to break down the latest political foolery, including the alarming trend of federal workers being fired indiscriminately under the Trump administration. We discuss the implications of these actions on essential services and the broader impact on our society, particularly regarding the treatment of trans individuals in the military. Returning to my conversation with Jerome, we explore his journey from a passionate educator to a prominent voice in television production. Jerome shares his experiences navigating the challenges of being a flamboyant Black man in education and how he transitioned into the world of social media commentary, ultimately leading to his success in the entertainment industry. Throughout our discussion, we touch on the complexities of interracial relationships within the Black community, particularly in the context of dating preferences and societal influences. Jerome and I engage in a candid dialogue about the importance of understanding the dynamics at play and the need for radical love and acceptance within our community. We also dissect the recent HBO Max show featuring Jerrod Carmichael, examining the nuances of representation and the potential pitfalls of portraying personal experiences without acknowledging the broader community context. Our conversation highlights the importance of authenticity and the responsibility that comes with sharing one's narrative in a public space. This episode is a rich tapestry of insights, humor, and heartfelt discussions, reminding us that while we may face challenges, it is essential to embrace our truths and continue pushing for meaningful conversations that foster understanding and growth. Join us as we navigate these complex topics and celebrate the beauty of living authentically. 00:00:00 - Introduction and Context Welcome back to the podcast, where Angelica Ross discusses her journey of sharing previously hesitant episodes, featuring Jerome Trammell. 00:02:11 - Buddhist Wisdom Angelica shares a quote from Daisaku Ikeda about living a full and rewarding life, emphasizing quality over quantity. 00:03:19 - Current Events and Activism Discussion on the arrest of Palestinian activist Mamoud Khalil and the implications of recent executive orders targeting pro-Palestinian activists. 00:06:00 - Make It Make Sense Segment Angelica introduces Renita Shannon to break down recent political events, including federal worker firings under the Trump administration. 00:10:33 - Trans Rights and Military Policy Renita explains the Trump administration's directive to remove transgender individuals from the military, highlighting the implications for those serving. 00:14:05 - Cultural Commentary on Trans Issues Discussion on the societal perception of trans individuals and the ongoing attacks on trans rights, emphasizing the need for solidarity. 00:18:10 - Political Accountability The conversation shifts to the responsibility of voters and the impact of political decisions on marginalized communities. 00:20:17 - Medicaid Cuts and Public Health Renita and Angelica discuss the potential cuts to Medicaid and the broader implications for public health and access to care. 00:23:16 - NOW Jerome Trammell Angelica introduces Jerome Trammell, discussing his background and journey into television production. 00:26:16 - Jerome's Early Life and Education Jerome shares his upbringing in Milwaukee and his initial aspirations to become a teacher before transitioning to social media and production. 00:30:48 - Navigating Identity in Education Jerome reflects on his experiences as a gay man in the education system and the challenges he faced from parents and society. 00:33:05 - Social Media and Authenticity Discussion on the importance of being authentic on social media and how Jerome navigates his public persona. 00:34:19 - Gerard Carmichael's Show Angelica and Jerome analyze the mixed reviews of Gerard Carmichael's show, discussing themes of race and representation. 00:39:02 - Interracial Relationships and Community The conversation explores the complexities of interracial relationships within the Black community and the societal narratives surrounding them. 00:44:27 - Radical Love and Healing Jerome and Angelica discuss the importance of radical love and understanding within the Black community, especially regarding interpersonal relationships. 00:48:19 - Conclusion of the Discussion The segment wraps up with reflections on the themes discussed and the importance of ongoing conversations about identity and representation.