Now That We’re Friends

Where can Daniel find an artistic community without paying for one?

That's a wrap on National Poetry Month 2022! And a wrap on this special series of the pod! But we'll be back. Maybe for National Hot Dog Month (July) or Banana Pudding Lovers Month (November). Hopefully sooner! But in this final April 2022 episode, we talk MFA programs. Are they a necessity when trying to build an artistic community? Can our new friend Daniel find like-minded folks to collaborate with in a less conventional (and less expensive) environment? We hope so, cause he's our friend and we CARE about him! This week's recs: Caro 1. Truth & Beaty: A Friendship by Ann Patchett [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3686.Truth_Beauty] (book) 2. Working It Out with Mike Birbiglia [https://www.birbigs.com/working-it-out-pod] (podcast) 3. Get Back [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Auta2lagtw4] (documentary) 4. Self Help Poems by Sampson Starkweather [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9413371-self-help-poems] (book) Anne 1. Song (I'm Going To New York) by Frank O’Hara [https://www.frankohara.org/writing/] (poem) 2. Larry Rivers: A Memoir by Frank O’Hara [http://edwardbyrne.blogspot.com/2008/08/larry-rivers-and-frank-ohara.html] (poem) 3. Life of a poet [https://www.loc.gov/item/webcast-6298/] (Library of Congress series) 4. With A little Help From My Friends [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCrlyX6XbTU] by The Beatles (song) 5. Under Pressure [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a01QQZyl-_I] by Queen and David Bowie (song) 6. The Way to Keep Going in Antarctica [https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/49723/the-way-to-keep-going-in-antarctica] by Bernadette Mayer (poem) Gale 1. Good Will Hunting [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReIJ1lbL-Q8] (film) 2. The Chain [?v=JDG2m5hN1vo]by Fleetwood Mack (song) 3. Across The Universe (film) …not really 4. Ghost Machine [https://www.caketrain.org/ghostmachine/] by Cake Train by Ben Mirov (book) “Eye, Ghost” [https://images.app.goo.gl/bGjHMPqcBDi2b8id6] (poem)

Why do we keep leaving Marika on read?

Seen by all... Anne 1. Love, I’m Done with You by Ross Gay [https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/92014/love-i39m-done-with-you]- poem 2. Luster by Raven Leilani [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/51541496-luster]- book 3. Circe by Madaline Miller [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35959740-circe]- book Caro 1. Don’t Think Twice It’s All Right by Bob Dylan [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1iHhWh9FtsQ]- song 2. Bunny by Mona Awad [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42815544-bunny]- novel 3. Space Junk by Lisa Olstein [http://poetrydailycritique.blogspot.com/2013/06/space-junk-by-lisa-olstein-poetry-daily.html] -poem Gale 1. Dancing on my own by Robyn -song [https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=CcNo07Xp8aQ&w=560&h=315] 2. Valentine by Fiona Apple [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DtpTc6S01fs]- song 3. I’m Still Standing by Elton John [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHwVBirqD2s]- song 4. I’ve Been Waiting On You by [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5Ae-LhMIG0] - song 5. Are You Alright by Lucinda Williams [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8E8_utQlJbo]- song 6. Simply The Best by Schitts Creek [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2FFJpt559aU] -song/video/scene/cultural moment 7. Certainty by Big Thief [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1eypolupH0]- song 8. Gale’s Spotify Playlist [https://open.spotify.com/user/126361530?si=11e49f9c3b7d4069] 9. Cosmos by Carl Sagon [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/55030.Cosmos] - book 10. Murmurs of Earth: The Voyager Interstellar Record by Carl Sagan [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/263952.Murmurs_of_Earth]- book

Can Vicky have an adult relationship with her parents?

We all struggle to have that perfect parent/child relationship that the Kardashian/Jenners have. But sometimes it's harder than being born into wealth. It can often mean work, and no one wants to work these days... We don't know why there's been three digs at America's first family in this episode description, especially given they're not mentioned once in this episode or even alluded to. Anyway, Vicky wants help forming an adult relationship with her parentals and boy have we got ideas, both from our brains and from our recommendations. Enjoy this episode (possibly with a tissue nearby) and enjoy the occasional keyboard clicks Lisann didn't edit out because she doesn't want to work

Can we help Madari escape the grind (culture)?

"Now That We’re Ladders," "Now That We’re Undergirds," "Now That We’re Subtweeting," "Making Anne Feel Good"? It's been a looong couple of years. We think we remember the name of the podcast. We know there's a song... Anyway, Madari is tired of grind culture. Same. It's 9:33pm on a Friday as we're typing this... But is it "grinding" if it's with friends? That's a question for another episode. For now, we're tackling work/life balance, identifying with your career, thanking God it's Monday (who does this?), being very busy, also telling people we're "very busy." And what it all has to do with that one time Coach Beard was on mushrooms during a game on Ted Lasso. You can find out more about this week's recommendations below. It's still 2019 right? Caro 1. Romantic Comedies [http://oatridge.co.uk/poems/m/mark-leidner-romantic-comedies.php]- poem by Mark Leidner 2. What Do People Do All Day? [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/313375.What_Do_People_Do_All_Day_]- book by Richard Scarry 3. Fyre Fraud [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_omekVr9fE]- documentary on Hulu 4. Cat’s Cradle [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/135479.Cat_s_Cradle] - book by Kurt Vonnegut Jr. [https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/2778055.Kurt_Vonnegut_Jr_] 5. Party Down [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FT2DOz2McW8]- TV show 6. I’m a Very Productive Entrepreneur- [https://www.dzancbooks.org/reprint-series-books/i-am-a-very-productive-entrepreneur-by-mathias-svalina] book by Mathias Svalina Anne 1. How To Become A Writer- [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/16003845-how-to-become-a-writer]short story by Lorrie Moore 2. Custom Concern [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQC4XbYvHUo]- song by Modest Mouse 3. Once In A Lifetime [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5IsSpAOD6K8]- song by Talking Heads 4. 9-5 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UbxUSsFXYo4]- song by Dolly Parton 5. Ben from Parks & Rec [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCUze7kuNas] 6. The Slow Down [https://www.slowdownshow.org/]- podcast by Ada Limón 7. On Being Asked What’s Your Dream Job [https://www.slowdownshow.org/episode/2022/02/18/614-on-being-asked-what-is-your-dream-job]- poem by Ally Ang Gale 1. The Applicant- [https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/57419/the-applicant] poem by Sylvia Plath 2. Remembering Jerry from Parks & Rec [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viC3g6yEMAE] and Toby from The Office [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGAO6yQz6QQ] 3. The West Wing- [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_West_Wing] TV show 4. Star Trek [https://www.startrek.com/]- TV show 5. News Radio [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NewsRadio]- TV show 6. Animal Crossing [https://animal-crossing.com/] 7. The Great British Bakeoff [https://thegreatbritishbakeoff.co.uk/about-the-show/]- TV Show, but specifically Luis from S1 [https://www.pbs.org/food/features/great-british-baking-show-baker-luis/]

Now That We're Quarantined LIVE... on Zoom

Well, *sigh*, things sure have changed since we last caught up with Anne, Caroline, Gale and Producer Lisann. Since O,Miami's annual April festival went O,nline, we gathered via Zoom at 3:05 PM on April 11th, 2020 for our first "live" episode of Now That We're Friends. We went through a few listener questions about life in quarantine. We read our favorite isolation poems and played our go-to lonely jams. We speculated on how we'll react to each another once we're all out in the open again. And we talked about how we're essentially in a time portal right now. So hop into the time portal that is this episode, where your new friends will great you on the other side with the best recs! Our Quarantine Recs: - 30 Rock "100" episode [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrLb3M_fK6w] Gale -Don't Let Me Be Lonely: An American Lyric [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/270903.Don_t_Let_Me_Be_Lonely]Book by Claudia Rankine [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/270903.Don_t_Let_Me_Be_Lonely]Gale - "Are You Alright" by Lucinda Williams [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8E8_utQlJbo]Gale - "Nick and the Candlestick" by Sylvia Plath [https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/49006/nick-and-the-candlestick]Gale -Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/31434883-eleanor-oliphant-is-completely-fine], Gail Honeyman (novel) Anne -Emergency and I, The Dismemberment Plan, [https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/2338-emergency-i/] (album); "The Jitters [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCNjP8So9UA]" (song) Anne -Midwinter Day [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/472700.Midwinter_Day], Bernadette Mayer (poetry collection) Anne -Age of Miracles [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12401556-the-age-of-miracles]by Karen Thompson Walker (novel) Caro -"The Lean Reward" by Cherry Pickman [http://library.avemaria.edu/title/lean-reward/oclc/793808678] (poem) & "Movies of Myself" [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYG-uKM0vyU] by Rufus Wainwright (song) Caro -The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/157993.The_Little_Prince] (novella) Caro - Westworld [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuS5huqOND4] (tv series) Lisann - Devs [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fp9LMsI6uJ8] (tv series) Lisann - Acoustic covers of pop songs Lisann * “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” Greg Laswell or Finn from Glee [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGlqcJ9OX3M] * “Dancing On My Own” Calum Scott - Poems from Anne, Gale and Caroline. Lisann * [In this small tent men pound] [http://www.versedaily.org/2017/iInthissmalltentmenpound.shtml]by Gale Thompson * Ten of Spades [http://ampersandreview.com/2014/04/ten-of-spades-by-caroline-cabrera/]by Caroline Cabrera * Poems from "Dead Year" [http://www.nightblockmag.com/e7holmes/] by Anne Holmes - You've Got Mail [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znESQTt3L80] (film) Lisann - Plays where people are stuck together. Lisann * No Exit [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbJOFbZmtH4] * Bad Jews [https://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/04/theater/reviews/the-savage-humor-of-joshua-harmons-bad-jews.html]