On The Way To The Bodega

Episode 10: Boundaries, Red Flags, and Keeping It Player

Episode 10: Boundaries, Red Flags, and Keeping It Player This week, Ray Etc. and Lotto Marie don't hold back—diving straight into how setting standards isn't insecurity, it's survival. From navigating jealousy at the gym to calling out "houseguest" relationships, they break down why protection, boundaries, and communication matter more now than ever. Lotto opens up about singleness, abstinence, and finally seeing people for who they are, while Ray shares the raw male perspective on why sometimes love has to be guarded, not flaunted. They debate whether posting your partner means anything, when "lowkey" becomes a red flag, and why modern dating is full of too many moments and not enough longevity. This episode is personal, passionate, and realer than real—if you’re raising your standards, this conversation is for you. Tap in, reflect, and protect your peace. #OnTheWayToTheBodega

Episode 9 - Money Won't Save You: Growth Will.

Episode 9 - Money Won't Save You: Growth Will This week on On the Way to the Bodega, Ray Etc. and Lotto Marie dive deep into real money talk—what happens after you come up, why flex culture misses the bigger picture, and why true wealth is measured in growth, not designer labels. They share wild real-life lottery stories, the importance of valuing your time, staying grounded even as you level up, and the difference between looking rich and being rich. Plus, Lotto kicks off her new Lotto Knows segment with a messy letter about loaning money to a "friend" who forgot to pay her back. It’s hilarious, relatable, and full of real gems for anyone chasing bigger dreams without losing themselves. Tap in, ride with us, and share this with somebody who knows money ain't everything! #OnTheWayToTheBodega

Episode 8: The Price of Winning: Work, Growth, and Grit

In this episode, Lotto and Ray dive deep into real conversations about success, mindset, and staying true to yourself. They open up about the realities of being attractive but still facing relationship struggles, how hard work beats shortcuts (even when it comes to body goals), and why chasing popularity over purpose is a trap. They explore what true success looks like on your own terms — not by comparing yourself to others — and why staying focused on your journey is the only real way to win. From gym struggles to money lessons, parenting gems to avoiding social media distractions, this one is packed with real talk, laughs, and motivational game. If you’re ready to laugh, reflect, and get re-inspired to chase your dreams without the fluff, this episode is for you!

Episode 7: Respect, Reflection, and Raising the Bar

This week on On the Way to the Bodega, Lotto Marie and Ray Etc. get all the real about the single life, evolving relationship standards, and why not settling is the ultimate power move. They dive into the highs and lows of finding genuine connections, the importance of true communication, and how personal growth after breakups sets the tone for better love ahead. They also reflect on why Black men deserve more appreciation, discuss the pros and cons of sharing your relationship with the world, and even touch on keeping it authentic in the comedy game. It's real, it's raw, and it’s hilarious — the type of conversation you didn’t know you needed. Tap in, laugh with us, and share this with somebody who's out here raising their own bar too! #OnTheWayToTheBodega

Episode 6: It Ain’t Trickin’ If You Care, Can’t Finesse a Giver

🎙️: It Ain’t Trickin’ If You Care, Can’t Finesse a Giver Lotto Marie and Ray Etc are back at Table 22—no food this time, but the conversation? Full course meal. From dating dilemmas to doing too much too soon, this episode dives into what it’s like catching real feelings in a world full of “what are we?” texts and ghosted good mornings. Lotto gets candid about liking someone new and fighting the urge to give everything too early. Ray dishes out honest advice as a married man, dropping gems about discernment, deservingness, and why givers gotta protect their energy. The two debate Steve Harvey's infamous hot dog test, the importance of cooking with intention, and when it’s time to pull out the NDAs (yes, non-disclosure agreements in relationships!). They also dive into the Travis Hunter internet drama, fame vs. normalcy, and the cost of loving someone in the spotlight. Per usual, expect some jokes, a few rants, and a whole lot of truth. 🔑 Topics Include: Dating while being a giver Tricky love languages & relationship boundaries NDAs, super fans, and being two people in one The internet’s obsession with other people’s relationships Why hot dogs might be the new love language (or not) This episode is for the emotionally mature, the mentally exhausted, and everyone who's ever questioned if they’re doing too much—or not enough—in love. #OnMyWayToTheBodega #LottoKnows #Table22Talk