The Self-Hype Podcast

Why does dating feel like a never-ending cycle of disappointment? Eli dives into the sneaky ways social media rewires our brains to expect heartbreak, distrust, and division in love. From heartbreak content loops that keep wounds open, to confusing growth with potential in relationships, he exposes the traps that leave so many burnt out in the digital streets. But it’s not all bad news—Eli shares how to break free from the heartbreak algorithm, lean into real self-awareness, and start creating connections that actually feel good.   Want To Join My Healing Program? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--] Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603]   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

Episode Introduction: Erin Valente is a compassionate therapist and content creator whose deep curiosity about people and their stories fuels her mission to make mental health more approachable and relatable. On this episode of the Selfhype Podcast, Erin joins Eli Vasquez to unpack the realities of trauma, healing, and the human experience. With years of experience supporting clients through diverse challenges, Erin empowers others to embrace vulnerability, discover their unique paths to resilience, and recognize that feeling “broken” is simply part of being human. Through honest conversation and her multi-faceted therapeutic approach, Erin—alongside Eli—offers listeners practical insights and encouragement for their own journeys.   Learn More About Erin Here: https://www.erinvalentetherapy.com/  [https://www.erinvalentetherapy.com/]   Want To Join My Healing Program? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--] Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603]   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

In this raw and real episode of the Self Hype Podcast, Eli Vazquez delivers a no-nonsense wake-up call about the trap of falling for "potential" in relationships. With his signature wit and straight talk, Eli breaks down why chasing someone’s unrealized potential is a recipe for heartbreak and how to shift your focus to reality. He gets candid about his own journey, from his "dusty" days to becoming "Mr. Clean with good ass hair," emphasizing that real change starts with self-awareness, not wishful thinking. Eli challenges you to stop enabling toxic patterns, set clear boundaries, and ask yourself tough questions: Why are you so scared to lose someone who disrespects you? Why are you betting on their potential instead of your own worth? He offers practical steps, like identifying small, actionable changes to test a partner’s commitment, and stresses the importance of a baseline of trust, curiosity, and consideration. Tune in for a hilarious yet heartfelt push to prioritize partnership over pipe dreams, reflect on your own insecurities, and take control of your dating life.    Want To Join My Healing Program? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--] Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603]   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

This episode of the SelfHype Podcast features Brittani Ard, a resilient architect and storyteller who transformed personal pain into a powerful narrative. Brittani shares her gripping story with Eli, diving into her experience with a manipulative relationship that unraveled a web of deception, leading to her viral podcast season that reached #1 in five countries. Through raw vulnerability, she reflects on her childhood trauma, the longing for love, and the self-reflection that helped her reclaim her worth.   Discover how Brittani turned heartbreak into healing, connecting with women across the country to uncover shared stories of resilience. She offers candid insights on spotting red flags, embracing flaws, and navigating the messy world of dating with grace. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about self-acceptance, the courage to be vulnerable, and the power of owning your story.   Learn more about Brittani Ard Here: https://brittaniard.com/about [https://brittaniard.com/about]   Want To join my dating and healing program w/ exclusive clips and guest coaching from the show? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--]   Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603]   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

This week Eli breaks down how we constantly end up with same type of people and how on a inner work level challenge yourself to uncover not only why you do so but how to break the cycle for good. All so you can finally have the healthy, mature love you so desperately deserve!    Want To Join My Healing Program? JOIN HERE [https://stan.store/elivazquez/p/join-my-membership--] Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE [https://selfhype.biz/sales-page1641417872603]   Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez [https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez] https://instagram.com/itselivazquez [https://instagram.com/itselivazquez] https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ [https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/] https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast]   All rights reserved. ©2025 SELF-HYPE LLC   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice