The Come Back Kings Podcast

The Walk

Episode Summary  In this deeply personal episode, AJ sits down with longtime friend Markus Harris for a conversation AJ admits makes him nervous—because it touches a kind of pain that changes everything. Markus shares his life as a coach, school administrator, mentor, and filmmaker, then opens up about the unimaginable loss of his daughter Deia Wynn, who was killed in her sleep on October 19, 2023.  Markus walks through the events of that night, the shock, the grief, and the moment his family had to face the reality that she was gone. He also shares how his sons responded in powerful ways—showing strength in the middle of devastation—and how Markus made a promise: to honor Deia’s life by how he lives.  Out of that grief came a mission. Markus returned to the school system to pour into students who need structure, love, and guidance, and he also revived a story he wrote years earlier—The Walk—transforming it into a tribute film built with and for parents who have suffered the loss of a child.  This is a conversation about grief, purpose, fatherhood, faith, and a truth Markus learned the hard way: you can still live in joy, even when your heart is broken. About the Guest: Markus Harris  Markus Harris is a high school basketball coach, football coach, school administrator, and student mentor who is passionate about helping young people find direction and stability. Outside of education, Markus is a screenwriter, producer, and actor, and the founder of Inspire Life Productions.  His film work includes The Walk, a project born from personal loss and created as a love letter to his daughter. Markus also shares upcoming projects in development, including a comedy film currently titled The Shop, multiple short films aimed at film festivals, and larger story-based projects tied to community impact. About the Host: AJ (Aaron James)  AJ (Aaron James) is the host of the Comeback Kings Podcast, where real conversations help men face setbacks, rebuild stronger, and live with purpose. In this episode, AJ brings vulnerability and care—giving Markus the space to share his story fully, while guiding the conversation toward healing, meaning, and hope for listeners walking through grief themselves. What You’ll Hear in This Episode  • Markus’s life today: coaching, school leadership, mentoring, and filmmaking  • How Markus got into screenwriting without film school  • The night everything changed: losing Deia Wynn  • How grief impacted memory, focus, and daily functioning  • How Markus’s sons carried strength in the middle of tragedy  • The promise Markus made: to honor her life by how he lives  • How The Walk became a tribute film rooted in faith and healing  • Why Markus returned to education to pour into students  • A message to anyone grieving: don’t live in the darkest place  • Choosing joy without guilt—even when someone you love is gone

Solar Returns

Episode Summary In this episode of the Comeback Kings Podcast, host Aaron James sits down with real estate operator and entrepreneur Joseph Valenzuela for a high-signal conversation on building wealth, rebuilding identity, and scaling the right way. Joseph shares how his real estate journey evolved from a single Airbnb purchase in 2015 into house flipping, apartment projects, and major capital raises that unlocked bigger opportunities. He breaks down the moment his business shifted from bootstrapped hustle to true scale: raising $2M in his first capital raise, then completing a $7M raise to help fund a $28M project. Along the way, Joseph opens up about a tough season many high performers face: going from making $60K–$100K per month to making $0, losing direction, and having to start over while his wife carried the household financially. This episode blends practical real estate strategy with personal comeback lessons, including money management, humility, routines at home, and how to keep building even when results are not immediate. Joseph also introduces a new product connected to solar that aims to help buyers get into homeownership with little to no out-of-pocket cash in many states. If you’re a King trying to grow financially, lead your home well, and build a long-term plan without burning out, this one hits. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How Joseph went from Airbnb investing to flipping and development across multiple states Why certain markets are better for flipping versus buy-and-hold cash flow The first capital raise that changed his business, and what it unlocked What it feels like to go from $60K–$100K months to $0 and rebuild confidence The difference between making money and managing money How routines and systems become a survival tool when family and business scale A simplified breakdown of a solar-based path to homeownership with reduced cash out of pocket How to prepare for hard seasons, and how to keep moving while you are in one About Today’s Guest: Joseph Valenzuela Joseph Valenzuela is a real estate investor and entrepreneur based near Austin, Texas. Since entering real estate in 2015, he has built experience across Airbnb investing, house flipping, and development. He previously served as Director of Sales for a major California flipping operation that completed hundreds of deals, then launched his own company and scaled through capital raising and larger development projects across multiple markets. Joseph is also stepping into a leadership role in a solar-based real estate solution designed to help buyers reduce the cash barrier to homeownership in many U.S. states. Email: joseph@prohomeconsultants.com [joseph@prohomeconsultants.com] Instagram: Joseph J. Valenzuela Facebook: Joseph Valenzuela The CBK Network – More Than a Podcast The Comeback Kings Podcast is part of the CBK Network, a community and app built for men who are ready to rise, rebuild, and reign. Inside the free CBK app, you’ll find: Exclusive after-show clips and guest access Community conversations and chat rooms Tools and training across health, wealth, relationships, and personal growth Member deals built for real-life needs Join the community at cbknetwork.com [http://cbknetwork.com] Subscribe & Connect Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform Leave a review to help more Kings find the show Follow us on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Mindful Minds

Episode Summary  In this episode of the Comeback Kings Podcast, host Aaron James sits down with Jonathan Nilsen, a Norway-born publisher now living in Phoenix, Arizona. Jonathan breaks down how he built a high-performing publishing business without writing the books himself, turning demand-driven self-help topics into real income through Amazon KDP and TikTok visibility. But the real tension in this conversation is what happened behind the scenes. While Jonathan’s books were climbing and his numbers were growing, his personal life was under heavy pressure at the exact same time: a renewed custody battle, rising legal costs, a collapsing job situation, and the stress of delayed payouts while bills were due right now. Jonathan shares what it felt like to carry “cortisol brain,” trying to stay present as a dad while solving money problems, court problems, and business problems all at once. He also explains the emotional shift that happened with his daughter—how he went from being seen as the “bad guy” to being understood as the protector. This is a grounded conversation about fatherhood, resilience, and building a way forward when you cannot afford to stop. What You’ll Learn in This Episode  How Jonathan built a publishing company without being the author. How TikTok momentum drove Amazon growth and turned into serious monthly royalties. Why Amazon payout timing can become a major risk when life hits hard. What it looks like to scale a business while legal bills are draining cash. How custody stress impacts a parent’s mental bandwidth and decision-making. Why staying steady as a father matters when your child cannot see the full picture yet. The difference between reasons and excuses when your life feels stacked against you. How Jonathan thinks about resilience when you are backed into a corner. About Today’s Guest: Jonathan Nilsen  Jonathan Nilsen is a publisher and business owner based in Phoenix, Arizona. Originally from Norway, he runs a publishing company focused on self-help topics including emotional intelligence and inner-child healing. His approach centers on identifying market demand, creating solutions through books, and scaling visibility through platforms like TikTok and Amazon. Where to Find Jonathan  Amazon: Search “Mindful Minds Co”  TikTok: Search “Mindful Minds Publishing”  Instagram: Search “Mindful Minds Publishing” About the Host: Aaron James  Aaron James is the host of the Comeback Kings Podcast, where authentic conversations help men rise through setbacks, rebuild with purpose, and move forward with strength. Learn more: cbknetwork.com [http://cbknetwork.com] The CBK Network – More Than a Podcast  The Comeback Kings Podcast is more than a podcast. The CBK Network is a global resource built for men ready to rise, rebuild, and reign. Inside the app, you’ll find tools, training, and real connections to help you level up mentally, financially, and physically. From exclusive content and community chat rooms to expert resources and member perks, CBK is the hub for men committed to real growth. Download at cbknetwork.com [http://cbknetwork.com] Subscribe & Connect  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. Leave a review to help more kings discover the show. Follow us on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube

Game Changers

EPISODE SUMMARY  People don’t check out of life because they hate life — they hate the life they’re living. In this episode of Comeback Kings, Aaron James sits down with Jermaine T. Johnson for a raw conversation about pain, power, setbacks, and why healing work matters for men who carry a lot… and talk about none of it. Jermaine breaks down what real growth actually takes: confronting trauma, doing the work, filtering the voices in your head, and building a life that isn’t run by fear, cynicism, or old stories you inherited. If you’ve ever felt stuck, heavy, or like you’re fighting battles in silence — this one will meet you where you are. In this episode, you’ll learn * Why real strength starts with facing real pain * How therapy and “process work” can expose triggers you didn’t know you carried * The difference between being cheered for and being cared for — and why men need correction and protection * Why many athletes (and high performers) aren’t prepared for money, pressure, and “no” * How to rebuild after legal, financial, and personal attacks * How to quiet the loudest voices in your mind and reconnect to purpose About Jermaine T. Johnson Jermaine T. Johnson is a coach, speaker, and entrepreneur with decades of experience in direct sales and leadership development. He shares his story with clarity and honesty, focusing on identity, healing, discipline, and the mindset required to rebuild after setbacks. Connect with Jermaine Instagram: @jermainetjohnson72 Join the CBK Network Continue the conversation inside the Comeback Kings app and connect with the CBK community:  cbknetwork.com [http://cbknetwork.com] Chapters  00:00 Intro: pain, purpose, and power 03:00 Welcome + Jermaine’s journey 08:00 Life, leadership, and current work 13:00 Athletic education and why it’s missing 19:00 “Cheer vs cherish” and protecting athletes 25:00 Therapy, trauma, and inner work 31:00 Identity, purpose, and the five questions 37:00 Major setbacks and legal battles 44:00 Dark seasons, survival, and resilience 50:00 Final lessons, connection, and closing message Tags Comeback Kings, Jermaine T Johnson, men’s mental health, trauma healing, therapy for men, personal growth, purpose, identity, overcoming adversity, resilience, mindset, leadership, success habits, life coaching, self discipline, rebuilding after setbacks, faith and mindset, emotional healing, motivation, inspirational podcast, athlete development, financial literacy, NIL athletes, conflict resolution, confidence, self worth, masculinity Hashtags  #ComebackKings #MensMentalHealth #Resilience #Purpose #Mindset

The Crossroads

In this episode of the Comeback Kings Podcast, host Aaron James sits down with one of his closest friends and mentors, Dr. Obom Bowen, for a powerful conversation about pain, perseverance, and purpose. From dying on the battlefield to building a life of total freedom by the beach, Dr. Bowen’s journey shows what real resilience looks like. A former U.S. Marine who flatlined in Iraq, survived homelessness, and rebuilt his life from a wheelchair, Dr. Obom has now built and sold over 100 businesses, written five bestselling books, and created a lifestyle centered on family, impact, and ease. This conversation explores how he overcame trauma, betrayal, depression, and identity loss using emotional intelligence, discipline, and faith. Dr. Bowen shares lessons on marriage, mindset, money, and designing a life you truly want—even when the path begins at rock bottom. What You’ll Learn in This Episode * How Dr. Obom Bowen survived three explosions in Iraq and rebuilt his life * The emotional toll of PTSD, divorce, and starting over with nothing * How a single book in a storage unit shifted his entire direction * The blueprint that took him from homeless veteran to multimillion-dollar entrepreneur * Why emotional intelligence and purpose are more important than money * How he and his wife created a location-free lifestyle * Practical insights on marriage, family, consistency, and personal standards About Today’s Guest: Dr. Obom Bowen Dr. Obom Bowen is a U.S. Marine Corps veteran, international speaker, and serial entrepreneur. After surviving multiple combat injuries and a series of personal and financial setbacks, he transformed his pain into purpose—launching businesses across real estate, commodities trading, and personal development. He has authored five international bestselling books, built and sold more than 100 companies, and mentors leaders around the world in mindset, leadership, and emotional intelligence. His journey, featured in The Comeback Code by Aaron James, demonstrates that no matter how far you fall, discipline and purpose can help you rise again. Books: Think Big, Live Larger | The Formula | The Comeback Code (featured)  Follow Dr. Obom Bowen: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn About the Host: Aaron James Aaron James is the host of the Comeback Kings Podcast, a show created to help men rise from setbacks, rebuild with purpose, and reign with strength. He is the author of The Comeback Code: Unlock Emotional Intelligence for Men and the founder of the CBK Network, a growing community designed to help men grow mentally, emotionally, and financially. Learn more and join the community: cbknetwork.com [http://cbknetwork.com] The CBK Network – More Than a Podcast The Comeback Kings Podcast is part of the CBK Network, a global community for men committed to growth, accountability, and personal reinvention. Inside the free CBK app, you’ll find: * Exclusive after-show discussions and guest sessions * Tools for financial, mental, and physical growth * Community chat rooms for honest conversations * Resources on emotional intelligence, relationships, and leadership Join the community and connect with men ready to rise and rebuild.  Download the free app at cbknetwork.com [http://cbknetwork.com] Subscribe & Connect Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your preferred platform  Leave a review to help more Kings discover the show  Follow us on Instagram | Facebook | YouTube