The Fill and Spill

Ditching the Script: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sexuality

Disclaimer: This information is to educate individuals and it is not a replacement for therapy. Tune in to the Fill and Spill podcast for a deep dive with Veronica Dress, a certified expert in sexuality education and intimacy coordination. Together, we challenge traditional narratives and dismantle the shame often associated with identity. This conversation moves past the limitations of "chastity day" lessons to foster a sex-positive framework centered on communication, healthy bonds, and navigating the digital landscape safely. From exploring queer identity to bridging the gap, we provide a guide for parents to manage their own reactions. Join us as we replace judgment with curiosity and compassion on this modern parenting journey. If you are interested in services with Veronica her link is down below! https://www.dressrehearsal.space/about-veronica-dress [https://www.dressrehearsal.space/about-veronica-dress] I’m That Beth (Certified Sex Therapist) https://linktr.ee/Iamthatbeth [https://linktr.ee/Iamthatbeth] OG https://linktr.ee/IamthatOG [https://linktr.ee/IamthatOG] If you would like to be a special guest on the podcast, click the booking link below. https://calendar.app.google/zobmspc3MrRRkBJu8 [https://calendar.app.google/zobmspc3MrRRkBJu8]

Healing the Unseen: From SIDS to Miscarriage Awareness

In this powerful episode of the Fill and Spill podcast, the hosts welcome Kelly Smedley to discuss the deeply emotional and often taboo subject of perinatal and child loss in honor of Bereaved Mother’s Day. Through personal experiences of losing children to SIDS and the grief of miscarriage, they share the unique pain of losing a child and the invisible grief many families carry. The conversation also explores healing, honoring a child’s memory, parenting after loss, faith, and recognizing the importance of professional mental health support for families navigating trauma and grief. If you would like to reach out to Kelly, click the link below. https://www.waypointcounselingnc.com/ [https://www.waypointcounselingnc.com/] Disclaimer: This information is to educate individuals and it is not a replacement for therapy. If you would like to be a special guest on the podcast, click the booking link below. https://calendar.app.google/zobmspc3MrRRkBJu8 [https://calendar.app.google/zobmspc3MrRRkBJu8] I’m That Beth (Certified Sex Therapist) https://linktr.ee/Iamthatbeth [https://linktr.ee/Iamthatbeth] OG https://linktr.ee/IamthatOG [https://linktr.ee/IamthatOG]

Mental Health for Moms: Breaking the Stigma of Postpartum, Shame, Guilt, and Anxiety

This episode of the Fill and Spell podcast features Megan Davis, a perinatal mental health clinician, discussing the transition into motherhood and centered on the concept of matrescence. This episode explores: * Matrescence as the emotional, physical, hormonal, and identity transformation of becoming a mother * Perinatal/postpartum mental health, including depression, anxiety, OCD, and psychosis * Mom guilt and societal pressure faced by both working and stay-at-home mothers * The importance of support systems, community, and seeking professional help In short, it’s an episode about how motherhood changes women deeply—and why mothers need understanding, validation, and support during that process If you would like to reach out to Megan, her website is located below. https://www.megandavispsychotherapy.com/ [https://www.megandavispsychotherapy.com/] Disclaimer: This information is to educate individuals and it is not a replacement for therapy. If you would like to be a special guest on the podcast, click the booking link below. https://calendar.app.google/zobmspc3MrRRkBJu8 [https://calendar.app.google/zobmspc3MrRRkBJu8] I’m That Beth (Certified Sex Therapist) https://linktr.ee/Iamthatbeth [https://linktr.ee/Iamthatbeth] OG https://linktr.ee/IamthatOG [https://linktr.ee/IamthatOG]

Response and Recovery: Expert Insights on Sexual Assault Care

In this essential episode of The Fill and Spill Podcast, we welcome Women's Health Nurse Practitioner Crystal Minor from Mariah Parham Women's Care to share expert, trauma-informed guidance on sexual assault response and recovery. Crystal outlines the critical immediate steps victims should take, including seeking prophylactic care and evidence collection while preserving their right to decide on pressing charges. She also discusses the mandatory reporting protocols for minors and the importance of early, anatomy-based education for prevention. Finally, Minor details the lasting health impacts of trauma, such as chronic pelvic floor dysfunction, and offers powerful advice on self-advocacy to ensure patients receive validating, boundary-respecting care from their providers. This episode is a vital resource for survivors, advocates, and care providers alike. If you would like to reach out to Crystal, click the link below! https://www.mariaparhamphysicianpractices.com/find-a-doctor/provider/1750927893 [https://www.mariaparhamphysicianpractices.com/find-a-doctor/provider/1750927893] Disclaimer: This information is to educate individuals and it is not a replacement for therapy. If you would like to be a special guest on the podcast, click the booking link below. https://calendar.app.google/zobmspc3MrRRkBJu8 [https://calendar.app.google/zobmspc3MrRRkBJu8] I’m That Beth (Certified Sex Therapist) https://linktr.ee/Iamthatbeth [https://linktr.ee/Iamthatbeth] OG https://linktr.ee/IamthatOG [https://linktr.ee/IamthatOG]

🚩 Red Flags So Bad We Had to Talk About It

What really counts as a red flag? 🚩 In this episode of Fill & Spill, we’re breaking down the obvious—and not so obvious—red flags in relationships, dating, friendships, and even family dynamics. From chronic lateness and lack of communication to love bombing, codependency, and straight-up wild behavior… nothing is off limits. We also dive into: * Why ignoring “small” red flags can lead to bigger issues * The difference between healthy dependence vs. codependency * How boundaries and communication can protect you * Red flags in dating (especially online 👀) * When your gut is trying to tell you something—and why you should listen And because we love a little chaos… we’re reading some unhinged real-life red flag stories from Reddit (trust us, they get wild 😳). Whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or reevaluating your circle, this episode will help you recognize patterns, trust yourself, and stop settling for less than you deserve. ✨ Remember: Your gut knows. Listen to it. — 💬 Got a crazy red flag story? Send it our way—you might hear it on a future episode! 📲 Follow us on social media & don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss the spill.