The OLNE Relationship Podcast

Healing From A Cluster B Upbringing Through 'Reparenting' - Types of Wounds, What It Looks Like…

- Why a Cluster B upbringing is damaging and what it looks like - Adult children patterns: hypervigilance, fawn, boundary confusion, etc - What Reparenting actually is - Key techniques and Pete Walker's framework - The somatic importance - Key frameworks: Pete Walker (CPTSD/4Fs), Janina Fisher (Structural Dissociation), Dick Schwartz (IFS), Gabor Maté (attachment/ACEs), Sam Vaknin (Cluster B internal world, betrayal trauma, dead mother concept) - OLNE 3 pillars - When to get a therapist vs. self-directed work

The Emptiness That Swallows You Whole - Understanding The Narcissistic Empty Core

- the concepts of black hole, empty core, and dead mother - maternal mirroring origin - the delusional origin - death narcissism - self-erasure - external regulation: why you become colonized - empty schizoid vs. schizoid personality disorder

Covert Narcissist vs Codependent - Different Kinds of Abuse

- are they both toxic in the same way - abandonment anxiety vs. identity diffusion - collapse into primary psychopathy - behavioral equivalence error

Death Narcissism - Why The Narcissist Consumes and Dissolves You

- the death drive of a narcissist - the false self is "unbecoming" - how the drive shows up as destruction and consuming - death narcissism and the void - recovery from narcissism

How Covert Narcissists Communicate, Why You Feel Empty

The God Inside The "Machine": How Covert Narcissists Communicate, Why You Feel Empty - The mimicry problem - How to tell when a narcissist confabulates - headline intelligence vs. deep learning - The Turing Test - Qualia - human being-ness