The You Matter Podcast

Redeeming VBAC Birth Story

Join me in this amazing episode of The You Matter Podcast. I'm Amanda Beilke, your Christian marriage coach, wife, mama, and friend on this journey of faith and motherhood. Today, I'm excited to share the beautiful and transformative birth story of our little Luella, who arrived on September 18th. As I navigate my maternity leave, I reflect on the journey leading up to her birth, including the emotional and physical preparations I undertook after experiencing a miscarriage. Join me as I recount the unexpected labor experience that took me by surprise, the challenges I faced, and the overwhelming joy of finally holding Luella in my arms. From the early signs of labor to the incredible support from my husband, doula, and the hospital staff, I'll share the details of how I managed to have a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean) and the lessons learned along the way. This episode is packed with insights on pregnancy, labor, and the importance of faith and support during such a pivotal time in life. Today's episode is brought to you by my partnership with USANA [https://abeilke.usana.com/s/k4fQb3], a trusted source for high-quality nutritional products that supported me throughout my pregnancy and recovery. 💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode: * The emotional journey of preparing for a new baby after experiencing a miscarriage. * Key strategies that helped me during labor, including the importance of prayer and support. * Must-have items and routines that made my pregnancy and postpartum experience smoother. Key Takeaways: * Every birth story is unique, and it's important to embrace your own journey without comparison. * Having a supportive team, including a doula, can make a significant difference during labor. * Faith and trust in God can provide strength during challenging times. I talked about this in my episode: From Heartbreak to Hope: My Pregnancy Journey After Miscarriage [https://youmatter.libsyn.com/from-heartbreak-to-hope-my-pregnancy-journey-after-miscarriage]. 📖 Favorite Quote from the Episode: "It was all the strength God gave me; I could not have gotten through that without Him." Want to Go Deeper? 1. If you found this episode helpful, consider sharing it with someone who may need encouragement on their pregnancy journey. 2. For those interested in coaching, send me a message at hello@amandabeilke.com to get on my waitlist and kick off the new year with intention. 3. Download my personal 30-page comprehensive Postpartum Guide [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1AoNfq4IN7k6_UH1IOednsZ2VbKNVxXBo/view?usp=sharing] with every resource I mentioned in the episode. Your Challenge this Week: Reflect on your own experiences and consider how you can support someone in your life who may be navigating similar challenges. Thank you for joining me on this intimate journey of motherhood, faith, and the incredible gift of new life. Remember, you matter, your journey matters, and God is always with you. Connect with Me: 🌐 Website: amandabeilke.com 📸 Instagram: @amandabeilke 📖 Facebook: Amanda Beilke [https://www.facebook.com/amandasbeilke] I look forward to connecting with you next week for another episode of The You Matter Podcast!

The Real Enemy in Your Marriage Isn't Your Husband

Welcome to another powerful episode of The You Matter Podcast. I'm Amanda Beilke, your Christian marriage coach, wife, mama, and friend on this journey of faith and marriage. Today, we dive deep into a crucial revelation: your husband is not the enemy. In moments of conflict, it can be easy to see your spouse as the problem, but Scripture reminds us that our true struggle lies in the spiritual realm. Join me as we explore how to shift your perspective from viewing your husband as an opponent to recognizing him as your teammate. We'll discuss the tactics of the enemy that sow division and discord in your marriage, and I'll share practical tools to help you identify and combat these lies. By the end of this episode, you'll have clarity and actionable steps to transform the atmosphere in your home and strengthen your bond with your husband. Today's episode is brought to you by my partnership with USANA [https://abeilke.usana.com/s/k4fQb3], a trusted source for high-quality nutritional products that support health and well-being. 💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode: * The importance of recognizing your husband as a teammate instead of an adversary. * How to identify the real enemy in your marriage and the lies that can create division. * Three practical strategies to shift your mindset and improve communication with your husband. Key Takeaways: * Your conflicts often stem from spiritual battles rather than personal disagreements. * Fighting together against the real enemy strengthens your marriage. * Using God's weapons; prayer, truth, and humility, can transform conflict into connection. 📖 Favorite Quote from the Episode: "The real enemy in your marriage isn't your husband; it's the one who wants to divide you, the devil." Want to Go Deeper? 1. Download my free resource, 100 Questions for Connection, [https://amanda-beilke.mykajabi.com/100-questions-connection] to spark meaningful conversations in your marriage. 2. If you're seeking deeper transformation, join my one-on-one private coaching waitlist by emailing hello@amandabeilke.com. Your Challenge this Week: The next time tension arises, remind yourself and your husband, "You are not the enemy. We're on the same team." This simple shift can change the dynamics of your conversation. Thank you for joining me in this enlightening discussion about unity, love, and the importance of recognizing the true source of conflict. Remember, you matter, your marriage matters, and God is always with you. Connect with Me: 🌐 Website: amandabeilke.com 📸 Instagram: @amandabeilke 📖 Facebook: Amanda Beilke [https://www.facebook.com/amandasbeilke] I look forward to connecting with you next week for another episode of The You Matter Podcast!

Stuck In The Blame & Complain Rut? Do These 3 Things Today

Join me in another thought-provoking episode of The You Matter Podcast. I'm Amanda Beilke, your Christian marriage coach, wife, mama, and friend on this journey of faith and marriage. Today, we get into the all-too-common trap of blame and complaint that can quietly erode our relationships. In this episode, I'll share practical, faith-filled tools designed to help you step out of the blame game and cultivate a more joyful and connected relationship. We'll explore how resentment builds and the impact it can have on your marriage and other relationships, along with three transformative tools to shift your perspective and atmosphere at home. Today's episode is brought to you by my partnership with USANA [https://abeilke.usana.com/s/k4fQb3], a trusted source for high-quality nutritional products that support health and well-being. 💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode: * How to identify and break the blame and complain cycle in your relationships. * The significance of creating a legacy perspective to guide your actions and choices. * Practical strategies to foster empathy and gratitude, even in challenging situations. Key Takeaways: * Resentment can be uprooted with intentional tools and a shift in perspective. * Your legacy statement can serve as a powerful reminder of the person you aspire to be. * Practicing gratitude can transform your relationships and reduce feelings of resentment. 📖 Favorite Quote from the Episode: "When you choose to create an atmosphere of connection instead of complaining, you invite joy and intimacy into your marriage." Want to Go Deeper? 1. If this episode resonated with you, consider downloading your free guide, 100 Questions to Reconnect with Your Husband and God [https://amanda-beilke.mykajabi.com/100-questions-connection], filled with conversation starters that can deepen your connection. 2. If you're feeling a nudge for deeper transformation, add your name to my one-on-one private coaching waitlist by emailing hello@amandabeilke.com. Your Challenge this Week: Start a gratitude journal focused on your marriage and relationships. Write down one positive thing each day to shift your perspective. Thank you for joining this essential conversation about connection, love, and faith. Remember, you matter, your marriage matters, and God is always with you. Connect with Me: 🌐 Website: amandabeilke.com 📸 Instagram: @amandabeilke 📖 Facebook: Amanda Beilke [https://www.facebook.com/amandasbeilke] I look forward to connecting with you next week for another episode of The You Matter Podcast!

How to Navigate Friendships In Motherhood

Join me in this heartfelt episode of The You Matter Podcast. I'm Amanda Beilke, your Christian marriage coach, wife, mama, and friend in this journey of faith and marriage. Today, we talk about the often-overlooked shifts in friendships during pregnancy and motherhood. As I navigate the final weeks of my pregnancy, I want to share my candid reflections on how relationships evolve during this transformative season of life. From the joy of receiving unexpected support to the grief of drifting friendships. Discover how some friends step up during this time, while others may fade into the background, and understand that these changes are a natural part of life. I want to emphasize the importance of gratitude for past friendships while making space for new connections that align with your current journey. Today's episode is brought to you by my partnership with USANA [https://abeilke.usana.com/s/k4fQb3], a trusted source for high-quality nutritional products that support health and well-being. 💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode: * The dual emotions of gratitude and grief that can accompany changing friendships during motherhood. * How to recognize and appreciate different types of friends, from surprise supporters to those who may drift away. * Practical ways to maintain connections, even when life gets busy and overwhelming. Key Takeaways: 1. Friendships may shift, but that doesn't mean they are over; they can evolve into something new and beautiful. 2. Both mom friends and non-mom friends serve unique purposes in your life, providing different kinds of support. 3. Your worth is not determined by the size of your support system or the frequency of your social interactions. 📖 Favorite Quote from the Episode "Your worth is not measured by the size of your support system." Want to Go Deeper? If you found this episode meaningful, consider downloading the free guide, 100 Questions to Reconnect with Your Husband and God [https://amanda-beilke.mykajabi.com/100-questions-connection], designed to help you cultivate deeper connections in your marriage. If your heart is nudging you towards deeper transformation, add your name to the one-on-one private coaching waitlist by emailing me at hello@amandabeilke.com Your Challenge this Week: Reflect on the friendships in your life and consider how you can nurture them, even amidst the demands of motherhood. Thank you for joining this heartfelt conversation about friendship, motherhood, and faith. Remember, you matter, your friendships matter, and God is always with you. Connect with Me: 🌐 Website: amandabeilke.com 📸 Instagram: @amandabeilke 📖 Facebook: Amanda Beilke [https://www.facebook.com/amandasbeilke] I look forward to connecting with you next week for another episode of The You Matter Podcast!

When the Leaves Change, So Can You

Welcome to another empowering episode of The You Matter Podcast. I'm Amanda Beilke, your Christian marriage coach, wife, mama, and friend in this journey of faith and marriage.. Join me as we explore the transformative power of personal growth in marriage. I want to share a personal story of introspection during a challenging season. Focusing on my own development rather than trying to change my husband led to profound shifts in our relationship. As we embrace the fall season, I invite you to consider how you can initiate a fresh start in your marriage. Together, we'll uncover 10 practical ways to foster growth, connection, and joy without the pressure of fixing your partner. From letting go of resentment to practicing curiosity instead of criticism, these strategies are designed to cultivate emotional safety and intimacy. Today's episode is brought to you by my partnership with USANA [https://abeilke.usana.com/s/k4fQb3], a trusted source for high-quality nutritional products that support health and well-being. 💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode: * The significance of letting go of old patterns to make room for new growth. * * How to replace criticism with curiosity to foster understanding and connection. * * The importance of rooting yourself in God daily to cultivate peace and resilience. Key Takeaways: * Your growth can shift the dynamics of your marriage more than you realize. * * Healthy boundaries and clear communication create a nurturing environment. * * Connection is more powerful than correction when it comes to fostering intimacy. 📖 Favorite Quote from the Episode: "When you change, your marriage shifts in ways that you may have thought were impossible before." Want to Go Deeper? * I have a special gift for you: a free guide titled 100 Questions to Reconnect with Your Husband and God. This resource offers powerful conversation starters to help you deepen your connection this fall. Grab it here. [https://amanda-beilke.mykajabi.com/100-questions-connection] * You can also schedule a breakthrough marriage coaching session here [https://calendly.com/amandabeilkecoaching/1-1-coaching-session-45-min-clone]: Here is a related episode: The Journey from peacekeeping to peacemaking [https://youmatter.libsyn.com/finding-your-voice-the-journey-from-peacekeeping-to-peacemaking] Your Challenge this Week: Choose one of the 10 ways discussed and implement it in your life. Embrace the journey of personal growth and watch how it transforms your marriage. Thank you for joining this enriching conversation about growth, love, and faith. Remember, you matter, and your marriage matters. Connect with Me: 🌐 Website: amandabeilke.com 📸 Instagram: @amandabeilke 📖 Facebook: Amanda Beilke [https://www.facebook.com/amandasbeilke] I look forward to connecting with you next week for another episode of The You Matter Podcast!