This Isn't Me

#109- The Stage of Life: Master Your Mindset, Shift Your Role, and Change Your Life

Ever feel like you’ve been stuck playing someone else’s role in your own life? It’s time to rewrite the role family, society, and culture chose for you—and step into the main character you were born to be.  I wonder what would change if you saw life as a stage… and you as the actor — the main character, of course. Maybe you’d start to notice you’ve been stuck playing a flat, uninspired role on a set you don’t even like—delivering lines written by someone else… for years. Here’s the kicker: that “someone else” is adopted by you from family, society, culture, school, the government—every system you’ve ever lived in—feeding you unconscious beliefs about who you should be and even CAN be! And without even realising it, you’ve built an identity, a whole character, around their script. But here’s the plot twist: you’re the actor, the director, and the scriptwriter of your life. Which means you can flip the plot, fire the old writer, and craft a role you actually want to play—starting now. It’s time to see you can change any part of the story and create one you feel alive when living! If you’ve been feeling bored, stuck, heartbroken, trapped in overthinking, or like your life’s plotline is dragging—it’s time for a rewrite that makes the audience gasp and YOU squeal with delight.  Because here’s the truth: everyone’s playing out a character on their own stage… They might not yet see the story they can tell with you either! So show them, ya? And if they don’t want to be part of your new story? Go find the cast who does!  ✨ Listen in if you’re ready to: * Step into the role you actually want in life * Drop the old storyline that’s keeping you sad, angry, guilty, or just plain bored * Master your mindset like the star you areTake control of your stage and create a plot worth living Your next act starts… now! Not sure how to start changing your story? Enquire ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE [https://calendly.com/d/cnqf-jcc-p72⁠ ] for coaching options⁠⁠ or check out my website: ⁠⁠www.veronicajayne.com [⁠⁠www.veronicajayne.com]⁠⁠ and Instagram: ⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/] 🎥 YouTube your thing? Watch episodes at ⁠⁠@veronicajayne⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@veronicajayne] ~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne

#108- Life’s a Game: Mindset Shifts to Stop Chasing Success & Start Playing the Game by Your Rules

Tired of feeling like life’s a constant hustle to “get there”?  This episode explores the “rules” of life to find traditional success and invites you into a new mindset: what if life is a game—not a grind? A game where you get to feel it all, experience it all, and make your own rules.  What if there’s no final “win” waiting down the line… and the power is in being here now? We dive deep into personal growth, self-leadership, and the art of presence—so you can stop playing by someone else’s rules and start living with intention, joy, and aliveness! Whether you’re navigating big transitions, chasing goals, or simply craving more from life, this is your reminder: you’re holding the controller.  What if you let life be great—starting now? Time to create your own rules for the game of life? Let’s discover YOUR best game together!  Enquire ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE for coaching options⁠⁠: https://calendly.com/d/cnqf-jcc-p72 [https://calendly.com/d/cnqf-jcc-p72] or check out my website: ⁠⁠www.veronicajayne.com⁠⁠ [⁠⁠www.veronicajayne.com⁠⁠] and Instagram: ⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/] 🎥 YouTube your thing? Watch episodes at ⁠⁠@veronicajayne⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@veronicajayne] ~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne

#107- Stop Shrinking: 4 Reasons Leaving Is Your Next Level

Let’s get real—sometimes leaving isn’t about giving up... it’s about growing up! In this episode, I’m breaking down four reasons why walking away from a relationship isn’t just brave—it’s proof you’re evolving.  We’ll explore how childhood patterns, attachment wounds, and self-abandonment show up in relationships—and why outgrowing someone doesn’t mean the love wasn’t real... it just means you’re done shrinking to stay safe. You’ll hear how: → Voicing your needs (instead of fawning) signals real growth → Self-trust becomes louder than your fear of being alone → You stop settling for “attachment” and start craving depth → You refuse to betray yourself just to feel “loved” If your relationship can’t hold the version of you that refuses to stay small? That’s your sign. What if choosing yourself is the most loving—and badass—move you can make? Ready to stop self-abandoning? Want support? Enquire ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠: https://calendly.com/d/cnqf-jcc-p72 [https://calendly.com/d/cnqf-jcc-p72] Or check out my website: ⁠⁠www.veronicajayne.com⁠⁠ and Instagram: ⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠ 🎥 YouTube your thing? Watch episodes at ⁠⁠@veronicajayne⁠⁠ ~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne

#106- What Doesn’t Break You: Secrets, Survival & Somatic Healing

What happens when the body holds what the family hides? In this gut-punch of an episode, I sit down with the brilliant and brave Katie Delimon, who takes us deep into her lived experience of alcoholism, dissociation, and the unspoken legacy of family secrets. From pouring drinks to numb the noise, to peeling back the layers of protection her body built just to survive—this is a story of reckoning, remembering, and reclaiming! We talk about: – Using alcohol to escape a reality that never felt safe – The power of dissociation as a coping mechanism – What happens when your body finally says enough – The role of somatic healing in finally coming home to yourself This one’s raw. It’s real. And it’s a reminder that the truth doesn’t destroy you—it frees you. Thanks @KatieDelimon for sharing the frames that have forged you! Check out the “Honest Healing Podcast”  — Ready to save ENOUGH and do the healing? Enquire ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ [https://calendly.com/d/cnqf-jcc-p72] Or check out my website: ⁠⁠www.veronicajayne.com⁠⁠ [www.veronicajayne.com⁠⁠]and Instagram: ⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/] 🎥 Find me at ⁠⁠@veronicajayne⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@veronicajayne] ~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne

#105- When This Isn’t It: How to Learn and Grow from Relationship Endings

Sometimes it’s not toxic. It’s not dramatic. It’s not catastrophic. It’s just… not it. In this episode, I’m sharing something personal—a recent relationship ending that grew me in all the right ways. One that taught me how far I’ve come, how securely I stand now, and how much I’ve outgrown the urge to save, fix, or rescue! We’re unpacking: * What happens when you become more secure but the other is stuck in an anxious-avoidant pattern * Why love isn’t enough if two people aren’t BOTH able or willing to take accountability * How living by your values means saying the hard things—and how that is love * Why “trying to help” is sometimes just enabling (and betraying yourself in the process) * And what it looks like to honour your capacity, your truth, and your needs—without guilt This is for the woman who’s tired of holding it all together. For the one who loves deeply but won’t abandon herself to keep someone else comfortable. For the one who’s learning that leaving can be love. Because when you know it’s not it—no matter how good it almost was—that’s your moment of power! If you’re breaking patterns, then this “ending”, might just be the beginning of you choosing you—fully! — Want to work together? Enquire ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ [https://calendly.com/d/cnqf-jcc-p72] Or check out my website: ⁠⁠www.veronicajayne.com [www.veronicajayne.com]⁠⁠ and Instagram: ⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/] 🎥 Did you know you can also find me on YouTube?⁠ Find me at ⁠⁠@veronicajayne⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@veronicajayne] ~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne