Totally Not Unbothered

This Episode Makes No Sense (But Somehow Works)

I can’t even tell you what this episode is about… because I don’t know either. It’s a mix of ranting, oversharing, and whatever my brain decided to serve up today. Chaotic? Absolutely. Entertaining? Hopefully.

You Can't Plan for Everything and That's Okay

This week, we’re talking about the reality check we all need sometimes: you can’t plan for everything. As much as we try to have it all figured out, life has a way of throwing curveballs that remind us we’re not in control of every detail. In this episode, I get into why that’s not always a bad thing, how to loosen the grip on needing certainty, and the beauty that can come from things not going as planned.

No Filter, No Plan… What Could Go Wrong? (ft. Samantha DaCruz)

This episode is exactly what happens when you put me and my older sister in front of microphones with zero plan. Total chaos. We’re everywhere all at once — jumping from random stories to hot takes to inside jokes that probably only make sense to us. One minute we’re laughing about something random, the next we’re spiraling into the most unhinged conversations you could imagine.If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to be in the middle of our sibling banter, this episode is basically a front-row seat. No script, no filter, just pure sister energy: messy, hilarious, and kind of comforting in its own weird way.

Senior Year Reflections: College Doesn't Define You

In this episode of Totally Not Unbothered, I get real about the pressure around choosing the “perfect” college. Back in high school, I thought this one decision would make or break my future — but now, starting my senior year of college, I’ve realized the truth. I talk about the stress, the comparisons, and the reality check I’ve had over the past four years, plus what I wish I could tell my younger self. College isn’t the end-all be-all — it’s about what you make of it.

Failure Is the Beginning of the Story (Do You Believe Me?)

Failure is something everyone experiences, but it’s often misunderstood and feared. In this episode, we explore why failure feels so hard and why it’s actually a crucial step toward growth and success.We discuss the difference between failing and simply not reaching a goal yet, how failure affects confidence, and why it’s unrealistic to expect success without setbacks. You’ll also hear practical tips on changing your mindset around failure, overcoming the fear of trying again, and building resilience.Plus, I share a personal story about turning a tough failure into a win, and challenge you to take a step forward — even if it means failing along the way.