Unlearning Out Loud - “Where growth isn’t quiet”

When Life Starts Lifing: What Happens After You Start

Hey cousin… So you finally did it. You made the plan. You started executing. And then… life started lifing. Everything that could go wrong? Yeah… it showed up. In this episode, we’re talking about what nobody really prepares you for — that moment after you start doing better… and everything around you starts testing you. From work drama, to pressure, to feeling like giving up and going back to what’s familiar… this one is about pushing through when life hits back. Because the truth is— it’s not that the path is wrong… it’s that the pressure is revealing who you’re becoming. So what do you do when the odds feel stacked against you? When you’re tired, overwhelmed, and ready to quit? You keep going. Do it tired. Do it hurt. Do it anyway. You’re not just going through it, cousin… you’re growing through it. And I’m right here with you.

Executing the Vision: From Talking to Being About It

This episode? Yeah… we getting real. Last time, we planned the vision. But this time? We executing it. Because let’s be honest—talking about your dreams is cute. Planning your goals is cute. But actually putting in the work? That’s where it gets uncomfortable. In this episode, we talk about: – the difference between procrastination and activation – self-sabotage and personal accountability – and the hard truth that nobody is coming to save you This is your reminder that you can’t cry over a full plate when you’re the one that prayed for it. Cousin… it’s time to stop waiting. Stop overthinking. Stop making excuses. Let that dog out. We not talking about it no more… we being about it. Because growth isn’t quiet.

Episode 7: Planning Your Vision — Creating the Life You Actually Want

Hey cousin… This episode is your “piss or get off the pot” moment. At some point, you have to decide — are you going to keep talking about the life you want… or are you going to start building it? In this episode, we’re getting real about what it actually means to create a vision for your life — not the Pinterest version, not the aesthetic version — the real version that requires decisions, faith, and action. We talk about: ✨ Why so many of us feel stuck ✨ The difference between survival mode and intentional living ✨ Procrastination and how it’s really a mental decision to delay your own goals ✨ Faith without work — and why belief alone isn’t enough ✨ How to start creating your vision with small, realistic steps ✨ A practical 2-week goal challenge to help you move forward Because sometimes we don’t have a faith problem… we have an action problem. And cousin, nobody is coming to rescue you into your dream life. You have to walk yourself there. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure about your next move — this episode is for you. Remember… You’re not behind. You’re becoming. Growth isn’t quiet.

Episode 6 : Making a way Out of None

Episode 6: Making a Way Outta None Hey cousin… this one is raw. In this episode, I’m talking about what it really looks like when life knocks you off your feet and you still have to figure it out anyway. Losing stability. Losing confidence. Feeling like nobody is coming to save you. And realizing that sometimes… you are the only plan you got. I share my personal story — from losing my apartment, showering at Planet Fitness, showing up to work while silently struggling, and navigating uncertainty in my career — to how I learned one of the biggest lessons of my life: When you don’t have the resources… become the resource. This episode is about survival mode, rebuilding your voice after hard situations, and finding strength you didn’t even know you had. If you’ve ever felt stuck, alone, or like you had to save yourself… this one is for you. So hey cousin… let’s talk. 🎧 Follow, share, and send this episode to somebody who needs the reminder that they can make a way — even outta none.

Triggered & Still Growing: Letting Go of Who They Knew

Episode 5 almost didn’t make it. I recorded this episode multiple times — and every time, I was angrier. I wanted to react. I wanted to clear my name. I wanted to say everything. But this episode isn’t about reacting. It’s about reflecting on my reaction. In this episode, I talk about being triggered, almost losing my composure, and realizing that growth isn’t perfection — it’s restraint. It’s emotional regulation. It’s choosing discipline when the old version of you wants to come out and fight. “He who angers you controls you.” I had to learn that the hard way. We’re talking about: • Being activated vs. being angry • Not letting people trick you out of position • Setting boundaries when access is abused • Outgrowing reactions • Protecting your peace instead of defending your name Sometimes growth looks like silence. Sometimes it looks like loss. Sometimes it feels lonely before it becomes legendary. But we are still growing. And we are not who we used to be. Growth isn’t quiet. It’s intentional.