Why You Keep Attracting the Same Draining People (And How to Finally Reclaim You)

Why You Keep Attracting the Same Draining People (And How to Finally Reclaim You)

If you keep ending up with the same toxic, draining, low-frequency people in your life — it's not bad luck. Your body is holding old stories, and it's time to release them. Do you ever notice you keep attracting the same kind of person — the one who drains you, the one who's always negative, the one who leaves you feeling smaller? In this episode, Terry unpacks why that pattern keeps repeating, what your body is actually trying to tell you when old memories and stories resurface (especially around the new and full moons), and how to start recognizing the difference between your energy and someone else's. Terry also shares two personal "aha" moments from her own Human Design journey as a 2/4 Emotional Projector — including a new realization about how her emotional authority and body sensations work together — plus a client story about how old stories resurfacing during the recent new moon were actually a sign of readiness to release, not a setback. Finally, Terry introduces her brand-new offer: The Reclaiming Intensive, a 4-week, live-call-only 1:1 container for women ready to stop abandoning themselves and start coming home to who they really are. In this episode, you'll learn: * Why the same type of toxic or draining people keep showing up in your life (and what it has to do with your own frequency) * How to tell the difference between your emotions and energy you're absorbing from others * Why old stories and memories resurfacing around the new/full moon is actually a good sign * A simple body-based practice for recognizing when it's time to step back and recalibrate * How Human Design (specifically Gate 40 and emotional authority) connects to gut health and decision-making * What tapping and talking can do to help release stored emotional energy * Details on Terry's new 4-week offer, The Reclaiming Intensive Mentioned in this episode: * Free Human Design chart (available at terrypershon.com [http://terrypershon.com]) * The Reclaiming Intensive — 4-week 1:1 container, doors open mid-August, investment $84.99 Next steps: Doors to The Reclaiming Intensive open mid-August. Get on the list at terrypershon.com [http://terrypershon.com] or run your free Human Design chart to start uncovering where your own stories are held. Facebook:  www.facebook.com/TerryPershon [http://www.facebook.com/TerryPershon] Instagram:  www.instagram.com/Terrypershon [http://www.instagram.com/Terrypershon]  Email:  teresapershon@gmail.com [teresapershon@gmail.com] Website:  www.terrypershon.com [http://www.terrypershon.com] Schedule a free discovery call if this is the next right step for you here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365&appointmentType=89028425 [https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365&appointmentType=89028425]

Why Am I So Hard On Myself? Quieting the Inner Critic and Coming Home to "I Am Enough

That voice on repeat in your head — the one that tells you you're not doing enough, not good enough, too much, not right — it has a job. In this episode, Terry unpacks where that inner critic comes from, why it gets so loud right when you're about to do something new, and how to move through it instead of staying stuck in it. Plus: a simple two-word phrase that can soften even the harshest inner or outer criticism, and a grounding practice you can use the next time self-judgment creeps in. This week, Terry sits down with a subject most of us carry quietly: self-judgment. That inner critic's "greatest hits" — the loop of why can't I do this, why am I not like everyone else, this isn't acceptable — and where it actually comes from. In this episode, Terry shares: * Why the inner critic isn't the enemy — it's a protective part of the mind trying to keep you safe in the "known," even when the known no longer serves you * A simple, neutral phrase ("is that so?" / "who says so?") for meeting criticism — your own or someone else's — without spiraling * A personal story about realizing she had forgiven everyone around her, but never herself * How fear almost stopped her from starting this very podcast, and what happened when she did it anyway * An unexpected lesson in self-trust that came from painting her kitchen cabinets * A simple somatic practice — hand on heart, hand on stomach — to come back to "I am here, and I am enough" in the moment self-judgment shows up * A first look at Terry's new 4-week 1:1 offer opening mid-August, built for anyone who felt something land while listening to this one Resources & Links: * Run Your Free Human Design: www.terrypershon.com [http://www.terrypershon.com] * Send Terry your questions or reflections — she reads and replies to every one. * Email: teresapershon@gmail.com [teresapershon@gmail.com] * Facebook:  www.facebook.com/TerryPershon [http://www.facebook.com/TerryPershon] Instagram:  www.instagram.com/Terrypershon [http://www.instagram.com/Terrypershon]  Schedule a 1:1  https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365 [https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365]

Why Do I Feel Guilty for Putting Myself First? — Reclaiming Rest Without Earning It

Do you feel like you have to finish everything on your list before you're allowed to rest? In this episode, we explore the quiet guilt so many women carry around slowing down — the belief that rest, joy, and play have to be earned through doing enough first. We talk about what real rest can look like (hint: it's not one-size-fits-all), why some nervous systems are wired to need more space to recharge, and how a simple hand-on-chest phrase and tapping sequence can help move stuck emotion out of the body when the words won't come. We also touch on how unfelt, unexpressed emotion doesn't just disappear — it can settle into the body over time — and why building self-trust matters more than logic when it comes to healing. Plus: a first look at the new 4-week 1:1 offer, Beyond the Shadow: The Reclaiming Intensive, launching mid-August. In this episode: * Why "earning" rest is a learned pattern, not a truth * What rest actually looked like for me this week (and why it wasn't about doing nothing) * A gentle reframe for people who need more downtime to feel steady — without needing a label for it * A simple hand-on-heart phrase + tapping sequence to try today * How unexpressed emotion can show up in the body over time * A first look at the new 4-week Reclaiming Intensive (starting mid-August, $84.99) Try this today: Place a hand on your chest and repeat, "I am here. I am enough. I can let this be okay just for now." Add gentle taps at the top of the head, eyebrow, side of eye, under eye, under nose, chin, collarbone, and under the arm as you repeat the phrase. Connect with me: Website: www.terrypershon.com [http://www.terrypershon.com] — get your free 10-page Human Design report Email: teresapershon@gmail.com Facebook:  www.facebook.com/TerryPershon [http://www.facebook.com/TerryPershon] Instagram:  www.instagram.com/Terrypershon [http://www.instagram.com/Terrypershon]

The Art of Integration: Why Rushing Your Healing is Delaying Your Revelation

Episode Summary: Have you ever found yourself moving from one self-help book to the next, rushing through healing courses, or pushing through your morning journaling routine waiting for that big, life-changing aha moment? In this episode, we dive deep into why the modern "hustle and grind" approach to personal growth is actually creating an injustice to your healing. Taking inspiration from her own 10-day anniversary vacation and the gentle power of grounding down, your host invites you to step off the hamster wheel of "what’s next." We explore what happens when we stop "should-ing" ourselves, how to recognize if our "yes" is actually a masked "no," and the sacred necessity of leaving space to integrate what we learn. If you are feeling exhausted, frustrated, or bitter that your healing isn't moving fast enough, this soft invitation is your permission slip to slow down, regulate your nervous system, and come home to yourself. In This Episode, We Cover: * The Integration Trap: Why rushing to the next book or teaching keeps your healing at a surface level. * The Myth of the Rushed Revelation: How over-scheduling your spiritual practice (journaling, working out, walking) out of obligation delays true shifts. * "Should-ing" Yourself: Dissecting the heavy energetic burden of the holiday/summer to-do list and family obligations. * Human Design & Boundaries: How defined vs. undefined centers dictate how you hold agreements and absorb external bitterness or anger. * Micro-Yeses for the Body: Practical, grounding ways to nourish your vessel—from swapping soda for warm tea to the restorative ritual of a warm bath and body oils. Reflective Questions to Take with You: 1. Are you saying yes to an obligation when your heart is screaming no? 2. What is one "micro-yes" you can give yourself today that requires zero hustle? Email:  teresapershon@gmail.com [teresapershon@gmail.com] Website:  www.terrypershon.com [http://www.terrypershon.com] Schedule a 1:1  https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365 [https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365]

What is One Micro-Yes to Start to Reclaim Your Sovereignty?

Episode Summary Have you ever looked around your life and realized you’ve been doing more, fixing more, and making yourself smaller just to feel worthy of love? In this gentle, comforting episode, empathetic guide Terry Pershon shares a soft invitation to stop looking outward for validation and finally "Come Home" to yourself. Through the story of Maya, a woman reclaiming her essence after divorce, Terry illuminates how easily we fall into the trap of self-abandonment—especially as women who naturally put everyone else first. You will discover how a single cup of tea or a simple morning phrase can become the sacred catalyst to regulate your nervous system, honor your feelings as temporary visitors, and anchor back into your innate power. In This Episode, We Cover: * The Trap of External Validation: Why running on the treadmill of "doing more" only amplifies the inner hollowness. * The Story of Maya: How a rock-bottom moment in a quiet kitchen turned into a journey of self-rescue. * The Power of the Micro-Yes: Reteaching your body that you are reliable through tiny, loving choices. * Feelings as Visitors: Learning to let emotional energies move through you rather than stay in you. * Somatic Tools for Overwhelm: Simple practices to calm your nervous system at work, at home, or in public spaces. Terry’s Gentle Invitation (Your Homework This Week): 1. The Heart-Belly Anchor: Before getting out of bed in the morning and right before sleep at night, place one hand on your heart and one on your belly. Breathe softly and repeat: “I am here. I am enough.” 2. The Daily Micro-Yes: Commit to one tiny, real act of self-care just for you (reading for 30 minutes, savoring a meal, or taking a quiet walk in nature). 3. Notice the Pull: Become softly curious about where you might be seeking external approval or handing your power away. > Step Into Your Blueprint Much of how we hold these wounds and process energy is written in our unique energetic wiring. If you feel a quiet nudge to understand your own nature deeper, Terry invites you to pull your complimentary Quantum Human Design chart. Scroll to the very bottom of the homepage to enter your details and receive a personalized 10-page report. > > * Discover Your Design: www.terrypershon.com [http://www.terrypershon.com] > * Deepen Your Healing Journey https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365 [https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=36165365] > * Connect Directly via Email: teresapershon@gmail.com [teresapershon@gmail.com]