The Strange, Sweaty, Totally American Ritual of "DC Summer"

The DEFINITIVE Guide to Men's Fashion. | ATB #37

Congratulations, you've stumbled across a treasure trove of men's fashion wisdom. Consider this your lucky day. WEEK 37: The DEFINITIVE Guide to Men's Fashion. This is a semi-serious, fully opinionated breakdown of what a man should actually wear — and why. We start with the one principle that runs underneath everything: fit beats brand beats price. A $40 shirt that fits will always beat a $400 shirt that doesn't. From there we build out the whole vocabulary most guys were never taught — shoulder seams, the trouser break, slim vs. tailored vs. classic, and why a $15 trip to the tailor is the best money in menswear. Then we get into the canon. The core wardrobe every man should own. The classics that have worked for fifty years and will work for fifty more — the navy suit, the OCBD, the navy blazer, the dress-shoe family nobody can name. Then the modern stuff — quiet luxury, dad sneakers, the tech vest, athleisure creeping into every room — and the hard NO pile we're prepared to die on. Square-toe shoes, you've been warned. We land it where we live: dressing for the moment that matters. The interview, the courtroom, the wedding dress codes nobody explains, the first date, and the Sunday morning principle — that showing up deliberately dressed is a quiet way of honoring the room and the people in it.Before all that, the Good vs. Bad tier list — rapid-fire, no hedging. Crocs and socks. Cargo shorts. Fedoras. Each of us gets one sentence to defend the indefensible. We close with Girl Problems:- Ladies: what's the instant ICK a guy can wear, and the instant green flag?- How do you fix a grown man who dresses like a teenager — without crushing his ego? Submit your questions at approachthebenchquestions@gmail.com, leave a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/approachthebench, or submit anonymously via the Google Form: https://forms.gle/9Zjxzkpwajivx19z8 00:00 Introduction 02:57 Why We're Doing This and Other Background 07:06 Style Tier List 19:28 A Comprehensive Discussion of Men's Fashion 34:11 Occasion-Based Fashion 40:37 Closing Takes on Fashion that Don't Actually Close out the Discussion 44:27 What's In and What Should be Out52:26 Girl Problems

We Asked a Celibate Priest How to Date | ATB #36

WEEK 35: We Asked a Dominican Priest How to Date (ft. Father Max, O.P.) We're at a resort with a guest who brings the theology heavy: Father Max, a Dominican priest of the Order of Preachers — the order of Aquinas himself. We start with the man behind the collar: what the Dominican Order actually is, how he discerned a vocation to the priesthood, what celibacy looks like from the inside, and what an ordinary day in the life of a priest really involves. Then we get into the heart of it — love. This is a full conversation about how men and women are meant to relate, and why so few of them seem to manage it anymore. We cover the Christian vision of the sexes, dating as the cultivation of virtue rather than consumption, and the marriage question where Protestants and Catholics genuinely split — sacrament or covenant. Then the diagnosis: a dating recession, collapsing relationships among the young, marriage wanted but downgraded, and a generation that swiped its way into more options and less love. We close with Girl Problems: - How do you know someone is right for you?- Can Men and Women be Friends? Submit your questions at approachthebenchquestions@gmail.com, leave a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/approachthebench, or submit anonymously via the Google Form: https://forms.gle/9Zjxzkpwajivx19z8 00:00 Introduction 04:00 How Father Max Became Father Max 06:59 What is it like to be a Dominican Priest? 26:49 The Sexes and Marriage (rough audio)55:41 The Problems with the Dating Market (normal audio) 01:15:56 More Problems with Dating Market (rough audio) 01:25:02 How to Date Well (normal audio) 01:32:16 Girl Problems w/ Father Max

10,000 Baptized — Something Is Happening to Gen Z (ATB #35)

WEEK 35: Something Is Happening to Gen Z | The Campus Revival w/ Josh Moran We're coming to you from Lansdowne, Virginia — outside, golden hour, with a guest whose story we've been wanting to tell for a while. Josh Moran played football for the Georgia Bulldogs. Then he went to law school. Now he's helping lead one of the most remarkable stories in America that almost nobody in the mainstream is covering: the UniteUS movement — a campus revival that started at Auburn in September 2023 and has since swept across more than a dozen college campuses, drawing over 100,000 students to mass worship gatherings and seeing some 10,000 baptized. At Georgia, they were baptizing students out of the backs of pickup trucks outside Stegeman Coliseum. This is a full faith episode. Josh shares his testimony — the identity-in-performance pressure of SEC football, what changed, and how a guy goes from the gridiron to gospel ministry. Then we go inside the movement itself: what actually happens at these gatherings, what's driving an entire generation that was supposed to be the most secular in American history back toward Christ, and the question hanging over all of it — is this the next Great Awakening, or a moment of emotional hype? Josh answers the skeptics head-on, including the one question that matters most: what happens to 30,000 new believers the morning after? We close with Girl Problems — the segment where real listener questions get real answers: - How should a brand-new Christian approach dating? - Is a bikini-clad Instagram post a red flag? - Why aren’t men asking women out? Submit your questions at approachthebenchquestions@gmail.com, leave a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/approachthebench, or submit anonymously via the Google Form: https://forms.gle/9Zjxzkpwajivx19z8 00:00 Introduction 02:03 Getting to Know Josh 06:17 UniteUs Campus Revival 34:24 Sports Rankings 37:57 Worship Song Rankings 41:00 The Toughest Thing Josh Has Ever Done 42:41 Girl Problems

The Strange, Sweaty, Totally American Ritual of "DC Summer"

WEEK 34: DC Summer Is Miserable. We Wouldn't Be Anywhere Else. We're coming to you live from a bench in Washington, DC — and before we get into the summer episode, we have some unfinished business. A New York City influencer said something about DC that we can't let slide. We respond. Briefly. But firmly.Then: the DC Summer Episode. We recorded this one outside, in the heat, surrounded by tourists, and we have thoughts. We open with the full DC Summer breakdown — the vibe, the institutions, the intern invasion, and whether any of this is actually enjoyable. We run the DC Summer Power Rankings (best monument, worst Metro experience, most underrated spot in the city) and make our cases. Then we go deep: what makes DC summer genuinely unlike any other American city in summer — 20,000 interns, 24 million Mall visitors a year, 19 free Smithsonian museums, and a political infrastructure so enormous it's almost impossible to wrap your head around. We also build out the official DC Summer Survival Guide for locals and first-timers alike. We close with Girl Problems — the segment where real listener questions get real answers: - Is never having been in a long-term relationship actually a red flag? - At what age should you settle? Submit your questions at approachthebenchquestions@gmail.com, leave a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/approachthebench, or submit anonymously via this Google Form: https://forms.gle/9Zjxzkpwajivx19z8 00:00 Introduction 03:24 Our First Internet Drama 12:14 Claude Reviewed Our Takes on Men vs. Women 14:19 Feedback 15:28 DC SUMMER 44:22 Girl Problems 51:18 Closing Out

Harvard Business School Has a Morality Problem

WEEK 33: Harvard Business School Has a Morality Problem This week, we're joined by Edward Doan — Harvard Business School student and devout Catholic. And we're once again at Harvard Divinity School, just this time, we're discussing the morally questionable nature of some of HBS's recent activities. Here's what happened: HBS's startup competition — one of the most prestigious student startup hotspots in the country — ranked a sex toy company at the top of the field. They brought an OnlyFans star to campus as part of the promotion. They handed out Plan B. And Ashley Madison was hosted on campus.  So we ask the obvious question: what does that say about Harvard Business School? The real problem isn't bad taste. It's the total absence of any moral vocabulary — a framework where the only question worth asking is whether the market will bear it. We walk through what Christian ethics, natural law, and the concept of vocation actually say about economic life: that wealth is a means, not an end, and that a business can be profitable and still be destructive. HBS has no category for that second clause. We also take on the pretense of neutrality. Handing out Plan B isn't a neutral act. Throwing a party for an OnlyFans creator isn't a neutral act. Choosing not to make moral judgments is itself a moral position — one with real consequences, especially when the institution making it sends 85,000 graduates into positions of serious institutional power. In the interlude, we run a rapid-fire "Holy or Unholy?" game — DraftKings, Juul, McKinsey, CoreCivic, Polymarket, OpenAI, and more. Highly recommend. We close with Girl Problems: how do you navigate big career decisions with your wife, and does it actually matter if you make less money than she does? Email approachthebenchquestions@gmail.com with your questions/comments or submit a voice memo at https://www.speakpipe.com/approachthebench for a chance to be featured on the show! You can also submit anonymous comments through this Google Form: https://forms.gle/9Zjxzkpwajivx19z8 00:00 Introduction 01:57 Harvard Business School vs. Morality 29:35 Holy or Unholy Businesses 32:08 Girl Problems