Marriage in the Messy Middle

Surrendering the Timeline

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/fan_mail/new] SEASON 2 FINALE: Delays and Divine Timing In this reflective and faith-centered episode, we unpack the weight of what we often call “delays” and challenge the way we’ve been taught to view timing in our lives. Is it truly a delay—or is it something deeper? This conversation explores the difference between real, measurable delays and the emotional, spiritual pressure we place on ourselves when life doesn’t move as quickly as we expect. You’ll be invited to reconsider the narratives shaped by culture—where speed equals success—and instead lean into a perspective rooted in trust, surrender, and divine timing. We dive into how releasing control over timelines can break the anxiety of feeling “behind,” and how what feels like a setback may actually be protection, preparation, or alignment. Through powerful imagery and honest reflection, this episode reminds you that surrender isn’t passive—it’s a posture of faith. You’ll also hear encouragement around releasing internal pressure, trusting unseen growth, and choosing God’s pace over hustle culture. Because not everything in your life is meant to be rushed—including who you are becoming. If you’ve been questioning your timing, feeling stuck, or wondering if you’ve missed your moment, this episode offers a grounding truth: You’re not late. You’re not behind. And what’s meant for you is still unfolding—right on time. Take a breath, release the pressure, and lean into the pace that was always meant for you. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/support] If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML ]to donate or join the community on all socials * Join the  Style Lounge: [https://www.skool.com/the-style-lounge-2345]Style Lounge helps women discover their style personality, build confidence, and express who they are through fashion, wellness, and community, on the Skool platform. * Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. * Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton! * Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful! * Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML] Every bit helps- okurr! Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0 [https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0] * Social Media – F...

The Ministry of Friendship & Community

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/fan_mail/new] In this heartfelt episode, we’re diving into the sacred, often overlooked role of friendship and community in our everyday lives. Beyond curated moments and surface-level connections, this conversation explores what it really means to experience authentic, evolving relationships—especially through the shifting seasons of womanhood, motherhood, and personal growth. We begin with a gentle wellness check-in, inviting you to reflect on your current state of connection—whether you feel supported, stretched thin, or quietly longing for something deeper. From there, we unpack the truth about changing friendships and how grace allows us to honor where we are without forcing relationships to remain the same. This episode is a reminder that sisterhood isn’t a luxury—it’s a lifeline. We talk about the power of having women who uplift, pray, and stand beside you without competition or comparison. You’ll also hear an honest take on navigating jealousy, embracing discernment, and learning how to genuinely support other women from a place of security and alignment. At its core, this conversation reframes community as a vital part of wellness—something that heals, restores, and strengthens us in ways we can’t achieve alone. And as always, we close with a meaningful reflection: who you surround yourself with matters just as much as how you show up in the world. If you’re in a season of building, rebuilding, or simply longing for deeper connection, this episode will meet you right where you are. Because friendship is ministry—and community is medicine. 💛🎧 Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/support] If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML ]to donate or join the community on all socials * Join the  Style Lounge: [https://www.skool.com/the-style-lounge-2345]Style Lounge helps women discover their style personality, build confidence, and express who they are through fashion, wellness, and community, on the Skool platform. * Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. * Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton! * Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful! * Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML] Every bit helps- okurr! Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0 [https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0] * Social Media – F...

The Soft Life Ain’t Soft If You Don’t Rest

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/fan_mail/new] Episode Description: In this deeply personal and faith-centered episode, we’re redefining what it truly means to live a “soft life.” Because the truth is—there’s nothing soft about a life without rest. This episode is your intentional wellness check-in. A moment to pause, reflect, and be honest about where you are—mentally, physically, and spiritually. Rooted in Matthew 11:28, we explore the truth that rest is not a luxury or a reward—it’s an act of obedience. Through real-life reflections on burnout, motherhood, purpose, and pace, this conversation unpacks why exhaustion isn’t always about doing too much—but sometimes about doing what isn’t aligned. We talk about: *  Recognizing the signs of burnout and honoring your body  *  Letting go of hustle culture and embracing intentional rest  *  The connection between self-care, soul-care, and self-love  *  Surrendering goals to stay aligned with God’s will  *  Why slowing down is essential for clarity and purpose  *  Protecting your peace through boundaries and discernment  This episode is a reminder that:  Rest is foundational.  Alignment requires stillness.  And peace is something you must steward intentionally. If you’ve been feeling stretched, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself—this conversation will meet you right where you are. Because you don’t have to exhaust yourself to prove you’re called. Rest is not optional.  Peace is not negotiable. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/support] If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML ]to donate or join the community on all socials * Join the  Style Lounge: [https://www.skool.com/the-style-lounge-2345]Style Lounge helps women discover their style personality, build confidence, and express who they are through fashion, wellness, and community, on the Skool platform. * Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. * Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton! * Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful! * Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML] Every bit helps- okurr! Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0 [https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0] * Social Media – F...

Purpose Has a Design Language

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/fan_mail/new] This is a podcast for women who want to get dressed—and live—from a place of wholeness, self-love, and stewardship of their God-given gifts. Hosted by luxury denim designer, stylist, and creative entrepreneur Braisha Owens Mount, this show explores the truth that getting dressed is never just about clothes—it’s about identity. Here, we move beyond the pressure of “having it all” and instead focus on honoring who you are now while becoming who God is calling you to be. Through real, unfiltered conversations, we explore: * Faith and obedience * Motherhood and marriage * Creativity and entrepreneurship * Identity, calling, and personal style This is a space where grace meets grit, where style begins on the inside, and where you’re मुक्त to show up fully—without guilt, masks, or performance. Because how you get dressed matters… and calling and chaos can coexist. Purpose Has a Design Language Episode Description What if you’re not creatively blocked—but being divinely redirected? In this episode, Braisha shares a deeply personal perspective on creativity, faith, and obedience. She unpacks the difference between feeling creatively blocked versus critically blocked, and how fear, discipline, and the desire for sustainability can impact how we show up in our gifts. This conversation explores: * Why creativity doesn’t stop—but fear can interrupt execution * Trusting God as the ultimate designer of your life and calling * The tension between creating freely and creating to sustain yourself * How to discern between divine assignments and distractions * The impact of motherhood on creativity, timing, and intention * Staying faithful to your calling in a world full of noise and comparison If you’ve been feeling stretched, uncertain, or overwhelmed by what to do next—this episode will remind you that obedience matters more than outcomes. Because purpose isn’t random. It’s designed. If this episode resonated with you and you’re navigating motherhood, marriage, leadership, and identity—I’ve created a space just for you. Inside my community, we focus on fashion wellness: learning to get dressed and show up from a place of self-love, purpose, and faith. Join us for community, clarity, and alignment. 🔗 Link in the show notes. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/support] If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML ]to donate or join the community on all socials * Join the  Style Lounge: [https://www.skool.com/the-style-lounge-2345]Style Lounge helps women discover their style personality, build confidence, and express who they are through fashion, wellness, and community, on the Skool platform. * Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. * Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton! * Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful! * Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML] Every bit helps- okurr! Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0 [https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0] * Social Media – F...

Marriage in the Messy Middle

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/fan_mail/new] Ask Me: Wife, Mom, Designer = God is a podcast for women who want to get dressed—and live—from a place of wholeness, self-love, and stewardship of their God-given gifts. Hosted by Braisha Owens Mount—luxury denim designer, stylist, wife, and mama—this podcast is rooted in one truth: getting dressed is about identity. We talk faith, marriage, motherhood, creativity, and showing up fully—without guilt or performance. No fluff. Just grace, grit, garments, and God. Because how you get dressed matters—and calling and chaos can coexist. Episode 4: Marriage in the Messy Middle The “messy middle” of marriage is the part no one glamorizes. It’s not the honeymoon phase.  It’s not the “we’ve made it” season. It’s the in-between—where love and exhaustion exist at the same time… where intimacy shifts, responsibilities grow, and partnership is tested in real life. In this episode, I’m opening up about what the messy middle looks like in my own marriage: *  Raising a toddler who still sleeps with us  *  Navigating two careers  *  Adjusting to life beyond just “us”  *  Learning how to be parents while still choosing to be partners  This season is stretching—but it’s also sacred. And the only way I’m holding it all together is God. We talk about: *  What unconditional love really looks like in real life  *  How to communicate when both partners are tired  *  Giving each other grace while learning parenthood together  *  Redefining intimacy and romance after kids  *  Choosing each other daily—even in small, consistent ways  Because marriage isn’t about perfection—it’s about intentionality. Closing If you’re in the messy middle, you’re not failing—you’re forming. Stay willing.  Stay gracious.  Keep choosing love. Share this with a mom who needs it—and ask yourself:  What would it look like to give more grace in your marriage right now? Until next time—  Get dressed with intention. Move with confidence. Don’t ask me how I’m doing it—ask God. Community Invitation If this episode resonates with you—if you’re navigating motherhood, marriage, leadership, and still trying to remember who you are—I’ve created a space just for you. Inside my Skool community, we focus on fashion wellness—learning to get dressed and show up from a place of self-love, purpose, and faith. If you’re craving clarity, alignment, and real community, I’d love to welcome you.  You can find the link in the show notes. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2504239/support] If you liked what you heard, here’s how you can support the show: follow, leave a review, share it with a friend, or head over to https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML ]to donate or join the community on all socials * Join the  Style Lounge: [https://www.skool.com/the-style-lounge-2345]Style Lounge helps women discover their style personality, build confidence, and express who they are through fashion, wellness, and community, on the Skool platform. * Follow/Subscribe – Make sure you’re following the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. * Rate & Review – If you enjoyed the episode, leave a 5-star rating and a quick review—it helps a ton! * Share the Show – Send this episode to a friend or post it on social media if you found it helpful! * Donations – Support the show with a monetary tip at https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML [https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=AJCKGTVEQ6RML] Every bit helps- okurr! Merch – Grab some merch and support the show in style—check it out at https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0 [https://kissedbyboboutique.com/products/rebuild-shirt?_pos=1&_psq=REBUILD&_ss=e&_v=1.0] * Social Media – F...