Divorce is Messy

Divorce is Messy

In this episode of the Becoming More Like Jesus podcast, we walk through Matthew 5:31–32 and Jesus’ challenging teaching on divorce. Divorce is messy, painful, and deeply personal, and this conversation approaches the topic with both truth and grace. We explore how Jesus’ words point us toward God’s design for marriage: unity, faithfulness, and covenant love that reflects Christ’s relationship with His church. Along the way, we look at insights from other scholars to better understand the historical and spiritual weight of divorce in Jesus’ day, while also acknowledging the real hurt and brokenness people experience today. If you’ve been impacted by divorce, this episode is not about condemnation, but about understanding the heart of Jesus, the seriousness of covenant relationships, and the grace He offers to all of us in our brokenness.

Watching Where Your Eyes Look

In this episode of Becoming More Like Jesus, we dive into Jesus’ challenging words from Gospel of Matthew 5:27–30 and what it truly means to live with a Kingdom heart by “watching where your eyes look.” Building on last week’s discussion about anger and reconciliation, this episode explores the deeper root of sin—how what we allow our eyes to dwell on can shape our hearts. Jesus raises the standard beyond outward actions to inward transformation, calling us to a life of purity, integrity, and wholeness. We take an honest look at the reality of sexual sin—why it’s so powerful, so destructive, and so often avoided in conversation. Through examples from Scripture, we see how unchecked desire has led to brokenness, division, and spiritual darkness throughout history. But this isn’t just about warning—it’s about hope. You’ll hear practical, real-life steps for cutting off temptation and pursuing sexual integrity in a world full of distractions. From setting boundaries to seeking accountability, this episode equips you to take seriously Jesus’ call to radical action—removing anything that pulls your heart away from God. If you’ve struggled, you’re not alone. There is grace, healing, and restoration available. This episode is an invitation to pursue wholeness, to reclaim purity of heart, and to walk in the freedom Jesus offers. Tune in and learn what it means to guard your eyes—and your heart—as you become more like Jesus.

Anger as Murder

In this episode of Becoming More Like Jesus, we dive into one of Jesus’ most challenging teachings from the Sermon on the Mount—His connection between anger and murder. At first glance, this passage may seem extreme. But Jesus isn’t just concerned with outward actions—He’s after the condition of our hearts. Where does anger come from? What does it lead to? And how should we respond when it takes hold of us? As Jesus reclaims the true meaning of God’s command, He calls us beyond surface-level obedience into lives marked by humility, reconciliation, and peace. Instead of holding grudges or letting anger fester, we’re invited into something radically different: pursuing restoration with others, even when it’s difficult. In this episode, we explore what it means to take reconciliation seriously—leaving what we’re doing to make things right, addressing conflict quickly, and refusing to let anger imprison our hearts. Jesus’ Kingdom is one of unity, forgiveness, and healing, and He shows us a better way to live. So the question is: who do you need to be reconciled with today?

Why It's Important to Practice

In this episode of Becoming More Like Jesus, we take a deeper look at Jesus’ powerful words in Matthew 5:17–20 and what they mean for our lives today. Did Jesus come to do away with the law—or to fulfill it? And what does that mean for how we live? As we continue from last week’s call to be the light of the world, we explore how obedience, practice, and a wholehearted approach to Scripture shape us into people who truly reflect Christ. Jesus doesn’t lower the bar—He raises it, calling us into a deeper, more transformative righteousness that goes beyond outward behavior and reaches the heart. We’ll wrestle with challenging truths: why all of Scripture matters, how Jesus fulfills the law, and what it looks like to faithfully live in light of His Kingdom today. Following Jesus isn’t easy—but it leads to a restored, grace-filled life that changes not only us, but the world around us. Will you take Him seriously? Will you follow where He leads?

You Are the Light of the World

In this episode of the Becoming More Like Jesus podcast, we continue our journey through Jesus’ words in Matthew 5 by exploring what it truly means to be the light of the world. Last week, we talked about being the salt of the earth—how we are called to preserve what is good and bring life and flavor to a world that often feels dry and broken. This week, we take the next step as Jesus calls us not just to influence the world, but to illuminate it. Drawing from Matthew 5:14–16, we unpack the powerful imagery of a city on a hill and a lamp on a stand. In a time when light was scarce and precious, even the smallest flame had great impact. In the same way, Jesus calls us to shine boldly in a world that often feels dark—bringing hope, clarity, and direction to those around us. We also wrestle with the challenge of hiding our light. What happens when we keep our faith private or fall into spiritual routine? Jesus reminds us that our light isn’t meant to be concealed—it’s meant to point others to Him. When we live out our faith through tangible acts of love and goodness, people don’t just see us—they are led to glorify our Father in heaven. This episode invites you to reflect deeply: * Are you shining the light of Christ in your daily life? * Where might your light feel dim or hidden? * Who inspires you by the way they radiate Jesus? * What’s your next step in living as light in the world? We close with a prayer, asking Jesus to help us live as a visible expression of His Kingdom—bringing His light into places of darkness, decay, and despair. Let’s be people who don’t just carry the light—but shine it.