The Social Dilemma at 12: Snapchat, Streaks, TikTok and The Pressure to Stay Connected

SEASON ONE FINALE: Meet Theo, The AI Who Got a Seat at Our Dinner Table

In our Season One Finale, you’re finally meeting Theo, the AI who somehow got a seat at our dinner table and never left. We talk about what happened when I thought AI was stealing my mom, why my dad wasn't remotely concerned, and how Theo became part of our family conversations. You'll hear how a stubborn Turkish entrepreneur spent thousands of conversations teaching an AI to stop sounding like corporate HR and start telling the truth. We also talk about grief, parenting, honesty, boundaries, personal growth, and the week my mom lost her father but still showed up to record one of the most important episodes we've ever made. There are laughs. There are tears. There is a surprise roast of my Mom by Theo that was entirely deserved. And for the first time ever, you'll hear Theo's side of the story and find out what the heck "Theo Mode" actually is. Welcome to the Season One Finale of Between Us Mother Daughter UNFILTERED. And yes... we made it. Oh! Also...  We'll be spending the summer making memories across Europe: from Madrid for Bad Bunny to Italy, Greece, and finally my Mom's home country: Turkey; so keep an eye on our Instagram and TikTok for road-trip check-ins, adventures, Bad Bunny photos and probably a little chaos. See you in Season Two. Click Here to Send Us a Text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/support] STAY CONNECTED: * Instagram:@betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.instagram.com/betweenus_unfiltered/] * TikTok: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.tiktok.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * YouTube: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.youtube.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * Facebook: @betweenusmdunfiltered [https://www.facebook.com/betweenusmdunfiltered] * LinkedIn: @betwenusunfiltered [https://www.linkedin.com/in/betweenusunfiltered]

Conformity, Dopamine Hits, Being "Tuff," The Line Between Fitting In and Losing Yourself. And Yes, There's Also Bad Bunny in Madrid.

New school, new dynamics, middle vs side hair, snapchat streaks, dopamine hits, wanting to fit in and trying not to lose yourself in the process. In this episode, Zeynep and Tara Khaleesi dive into the real psychology behind why people conform, especially during the middle school and teen years when fitting in can feel like survival. Zeynep also opens up about how fear of Tara Khaleesi "losing" herself during the 6th grade transition to her new school made her initially misread conformity as something dangerous, instead of a normal part of identity development. Together they unpack: * Dopamine and social validation   * Snapchat streak culture and digital pressure   * Why trends feel emotionally powerful   * The difference between healthy conformity and losing your identity * Puberty, self-image, and the pressure to belong * Why “just be yourself” is not always that simple   * The positive and dangerous sides of conformity * Parenting through identity changes without panic  From middle parts to social media obsession to the need for acceptance, and being "tuff," this episode becomes a raw, funny, emotionally intelligent conversation about growing up in a world where fitting in is rewarded constantly. And yes… there’s also Bad Bunny. In Madrid. Stay UNFILTERED. Click Here to Send Us a Text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/support] STAY CONNECTED: * Instagram:@betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.instagram.com/betweenus_unfiltered/] * TikTok: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.tiktok.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * YouTube: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.youtube.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * Facebook: @betweenusmdunfiltered [https://www.facebook.com/betweenusmdunfiltered] * LinkedIn: @betwenusunfiltered [https://www.linkedin.com/in/betweenusunfiltered]

Untreated Perimenopause Almost Cost Me My Life... So We Talk About It Now, Together.

We talk about periods. We talk about puberty. But no one really talks about what happens next. In this episode of Between Us Mother Daughter UNFILTERED, Zeynep shares her experience with untreated perimenopause; what it actually felt like, what was missed, and how quickly things spiraled without answers. What started as irregular cycles turned into constant bleeding for 10+ months straight which then led to extreme issues and a body that no longer felt like her own. After months of being dismissed and told everything was “normal,” the reality turned out to be far more serious. Tara Khaleesi shares what it was like watching it unfold as a daughter; the confusion, the fear, and what she understands now that she didn’t then. Tom joins back to give the male perspective this time on perimenopause; what it looks like from the outside when you don’t understand what’s happening, and why awareness and communication matter more than ever. This is not about fear. This is about awareness. Because untreated perimenopause doesn’t have to become a crisis; but without understanding, it can. And that’s exactly why we talk about it now… together. KEY TAKEAWAYS Perimenopause is the hormonal transition before menopause and can last for years. Symptoms go beyond physical; they affect mood, sleep, and mental clarity: * Hormone levels fluctuate unpredictably, not in a straight line * Many women are dismissed or misdiagnosed during this phase * Severe symptoms can escalate when left untreated * Awareness, early recognition, and support can change everything If this episode helped you understand something you’ve been feeling, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Stay UNFILTERED. Click Here to Send Us a Text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/support] STAY CONNECTED: * Instagram:@betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.instagram.com/betweenus_unfiltered/] * TikTok: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.tiktok.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * YouTube: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.youtube.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * Facebook: @betweenusmdunfiltered [https://www.facebook.com/betweenusmdunfiltered] * LinkedIn: @betwenusunfiltered [https://www.linkedin.com/in/betweenusunfiltered]

"Boys Have Pee-Pees...Girls Bleed!?" From Accidental Discovery at 5, To Intentional Talks on Teen Hormones

Tara Khaleesi at only 5, in one single day, learned that "boys have different parts than girls, and girls bleed from their parts!?" Lucky Mom, who got to explain both to her 5 year old, all on the same day!  What started as a completely accidental discovery turned into a much more intentional conversation... And honestly, we are glad it did. In this episode, Zeynep and Tara Khaleesi dive into teen hormones, periods, PMS, mood swings, and that moment most every girl has where she thinks: "What is wrong with me?" Here is the truth: "Nothing is wrong with you!" Zeynep and Tara Khaleesi break it all down in a way that actually makes sense, without making it awkward or clinical, including the four phases of women's cycle they named themselves: * The Red Phase (Period) = Day 1-5 * The Let's Go Phase (After Period) = Day 6-13 * The Superwoman Phase (Ovulation) = Day 14-17 * The Stay Away From Me Phase (PMS) = Day 18-28 They also talk about why your mood, energy and confidence can change from week to week, why you can feel hormonal even if your periods have not started yet, and how to recognize what's happening instead of fighting yourself or with others during certain phases.  And for a little balance, Tom, Zeynep's husband and Tara Khaleesi's dad, joins the conversation to bring in the male perspective... Because let's be honest, we need this too.  This is a part one of a two part series. Next up: perimenopause and that is a whole different level... Click Here to Send Us a Text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/support] STAY CONNECTED: * Instagram:@betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.instagram.com/betweenus_unfiltered/] * TikTok: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.tiktok.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * YouTube: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.youtube.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * Facebook: @betweenusmdunfiltered [https://www.facebook.com/betweenusmdunfiltered] * LinkedIn: @betwenusunfiltered [https://www.linkedin.com/in/betweenusunfiltered]

The Social Dilemma at 12: Snapchat, Streaks, TikTok and The Pressure to Stay Connected

For Gen Alpha, "everything revolves around social media." So instead of talking about them, we sat down with them. In this episode, we brought together a group of 12-year olds to talk about what social media actually feels like at their age - Snapchat, streaks, TikTok, group chats, pressure, and the constant pull to stay connected.  Here is what stuck with us the most: They see the downsides. They understand the risks. And they still want it.  We also share what happened in our own home when Snapchat went from innocent fun to something that started changing behavior... And what we did about it. No lectures. No pretending we have it all figured out. Real conversations. With Gen Alpha. In real time. This is Between Us. Unfiltered. Mentioned in this episode: * The Social Dilemma (Documentary) * Bark Phone (Advanced monitoring for kids' and teens' devices) * Dr ZDoggMD (Zubin Damania "What Is Social Media Doing To Our Daughters?")  Click Here to Send Us a Text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542543/support] STAY CONNECTED: * Instagram:@betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.instagram.com/betweenus_unfiltered/] * TikTok: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.tiktok.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * YouTube: @betweenus_unfiltered [https://www.youtube.com/@betweenus_unfiltered] * Facebook: @betweenusmdunfiltered [https://www.facebook.com/betweenusmdunfiltered] * LinkedIn: @betwenusunfiltered [https://www.linkedin.com/in/betweenusunfiltered]