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EP 166 - Wait? What is Success, Anyways?

8 min · 16 de jun de 2026
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TITLE DESCRIPTION Before kids, success felt pretty straightforward: work harder, achieve more, keep climbing. But what happens when the life you worked so hard to build changes what you actually want? In this episode, I'm sharing the crossroads I've found myself at as a working mom—trying to reconcile the ambition, drive, and tenacity that defined me before motherhood with the woman I am today. We'll talk about why it's so hard to stop comparing ourselves to previous versions of ourselves, the fear that comes with making changes, and why redefining success can feel both freeing and uncomfortable at the same time. If you've ever looked at your life and wondered why your old definition of success no longer fits, this conversation is for you.

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