Stop Fighting Over Everything: How to Pick Your Battles & Protect Your Peace

Stop Fighting Over Everything: How to Pick Your Battles & Protect Your Peace

Every couple fights. But are you fighting the right battles? In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer get real about one of the most common and exhausting traps in marriage — fighting over everything and winning nothing. They walk you through how to step back, assess what's actually worth addressing, and approach conflict from a place of wisdom rather than raw emotion. You'll learn how emotional exhaustion is sabotaging your responses, why the pause is one of the most powerful tools in your marriage, and how to lean on the Holy Spirit before you ever open your mouth. They also tackle the difference between convictions and preferences (spoiler: most arguments are about preference), and why choosing compassion over winning actually does make you the winner. Grounded in Proverbs 19:11, James 1:19, and Ephesians 6:12, this episode will help you stop battling against your spouse and start building with them. Until next time — bring hope home to your life today. 💛 Resources: Schafferministries.com [http://Schafferministries.com] How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz [https://schafferministries.com/marriage-quiz] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/coletteschaffer/] Join our monthly newsletter [https://schafferministries.com/newsletter] Check out our books and products [https://schafferministries.com/new-products]

Surviving Debt Together: 6 Christian Strategies to Stop Letting Money Control Your Marriage

Money fights. Sleepless nights. That invisible weight that never quite goes away. If debt is putting a strain on your marriage, this episode is for you. Bryce and Colette Schaffer of Bringing Hope Home open up about their own journey from seven credit cards and mounting debt to complete financial freedom — and they're sharing the exact strategies that got them there. In this episode, you'll learn:  ✅ How to get honest about where you really stand financially  ✅ Why a budget is "permission with boundaries" — not punishment  ✅ How to stop creating new debt (even when the pressure is on)  ✅ The debt snowball method that made paying off debt exciting  ✅ What the Bible actually says about money, debt, and generosity  ✅ How to invite God into your finances — and watch Him move  ✅ Why working together as a couple is the most powerful financial strategy you have Whether you're just starting out, deep in debt, or simply trying to get ahead — this episode meets you where you are with grace, truth, and a real plan forward. 📖 Galatians 6:9 | Matthew 6:24 | Malachi 3:10 Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com [http://Schafferministries.com] How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz [https://schafferministries.com/marriage-quiz] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/coletteschaffer/] Join our monthly newsletter [https://schafferministries.com/newsletter] Check out our books and products [https://schafferministries.com/new-products]

Ghosted: What God Says About Being Cut Off & How to Heal

Ghosting — abruptly cutting off all communication without explanation — is more common than ever. And it's not just in dating. It's happening in friendships, churches, workplaces, marriages, and even between parents and adult children. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer talk openly about the pain of being ghosted, the lack of integrity behind doing it, and — most importantly — what God's Word says about how to heal and move forward. They explore David's raw, honest wrestling in Psalm 55 and his moment of crisis in 1 Samuel 30, where even his own men turned against him — and how he found his footing by encouraging himself in the Lord. Because here's the truth: God will never ghost you. Whether you're hurting from a friendship that vanished, a dating relationship that ended without a word, a congregation member who disappeared, a spouse who has gone silent, or an adult child who has cut off contact — this episode will give you biblical, practical tools to find closure, cast your care on God (1 Peter 5:7), and refuse to let it define you. 💬 Topics covered: ghosting in dating, ghosting in marriage, silent treatment, church ghosting, estranged adult children, how to pray when you've been ghosted, writing letters for closure, encouraging yourself in the Lord. 📖 Key Scriptures: Psalm 55 | 1 Samuel 30:6 | 1 Peter 5:7 🏠 Bring hope home to your life today. Don't forget to subscribe, share, and leave us a comment — we'd love to hear from you! Resources: Schafferministries.com [http://Schafferministries.com] How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz [https://schafferministries.com/marriage-quiz] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/coletteschaffer/] Join our monthly newsletter [https://schafferministries.com/newsletter] Check out our books and products [https://schafferministries.com/new-products]

From Vending Machine to Table: Transforming the Way You Seek God

Have you ever walked away from prayer feeling like God just didn't come through? You gave your tithes, read your Bible, sent up your request — and still nothing. If you're honest, maybe God has started to feel a little like a vending machine. You put something in. You expect something out. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer tackle this subtle but soul-shaping mindset head-on. Drawing from Philippians 4:19, Matthew 6:33, and the life of Joseph, they uncover why the "vending machine" approach to God leaves us disappointed, distant, and spiritually dry — and what God is truly inviting us into instead. Spoiler: He's not a machine. He's a table. And there's a big difference. Whether you're brand new in your faith, a longtime believer, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge the way you come to God and open your heart to a relationship that's richer, deeper, and more transformative than you imagined. Key Takeaways: * The vending machine mindset — what it is and why it sneaks up on us * What Philippians 4:19 really means (it's not what you think) * Why Matthew 6:33 is the antidote to transactional faith * How the story of Joseph shows God working through hard seasons, not around them * The beautiful invitation from God: come to the table Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com [http://Schafferministries.com] How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz [https://schafferministries.com/marriage-quiz] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/coletteschaffer/] Join our monthly newsletter [https://schafferministries.com/newsletter] Check out our books and products [https://schafferministries.com/new-products]

The Invisible Weight You're Carrying — Stress, Anxiety & Letting God In

We all carry things we were never meant to hold. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer unpack the invisible stress and weight that quietly drains couples, parents, and families — and how to start putting it down. Colette opens up about her own experience with unrecognized anxiety, panic attacks, and postpartum depression — and the moment her body finally shut down and said enough. If you've ever pushed through the hard stuff without telling anyone, this conversation will hit home. Together, Bryce and Colette walk through practical, faith-filled steps to help you manage the mental load: how to delegate and communicate with your spouse, why setting new boundaries is an act of wisdom (not weakness), how to create more grace for yourself, and why giving God your day — before the to-do list takes over — changes everything. They also talk about the often-overlooked connection between physical health, diet, and anxiety, and why your body can't sustain what your spirit is refusing to release. 📖 Scripture: Matthew 11:28-30 | Romans 8:28 📚 Resource: Planted by Colette Schaffer — a guided study for a peace-filled life in an anxiety-filled world. If your home is going to be a peaceful sanctuary, it starts with putting down what you were never meant to carry. Bring hope home to your life today.