The Body Remembers: Helping Sexually Traumatized Women Heal with Anissa Hudak

Stop Optimizing. Start Living: Choose Meaning Over Wellness

Wellness culture is everywhere. Optimize your body, extend your life, chase the protocol. But what if midlife is asking us a completely different question? In this solo episode of Butterfly Days, Tami gets real about the wellness and longevity industrial complex and what it quietly sells to women in midlife: the idea that aging is a problem to solve. She makes the case for ikigai, the Japanese concept of a reason to get up in the morning, and the Stoic practice of amor fati, love of your fate, as the two things that actually deliver what every supplement stack promises and cannot deliver. This episode is a warm but bold rally cry to stop optimizing your body and start inhabiting your life. Subscribe to Tami Jorden's Substack [https://tamijorden.substack.com/] and visit her website [https://tamijorden.com/] 🦋 More from Butterfly Days: Substack: https://tamijorden.substack.com/ [https://tamijorden.substack.com/] Website: https://tamijorden.com/ [https://tamijorden.com/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-jorden-322918227/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-jorden-322918227/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ASQDpGEUX/ [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ASQDpGEUX/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/butterflydayspodcast [https://www.instagram.com/butterflydayspodcast]

Aging Well: What a Harvard Dermatologist Wants GenX Women to Know

Are you tired of the hot girl hamster wheel? The endless products, the procedures you heard about from a friend, the serum you bought because an influencer said so? And still not loving what you see in the mirror? In this episode of Butterfly Days, Tami Jorden sits down with Dr. Mary Alice Mina, a Harvard-trained, double board-certified dermatologist and host of the globally ranked podcast The Skin Real, to get honest about what actually works for our skin in midlife and why true skin health starts from the inside out. Connect with Dr. Mina at theskinreal.com [https://www.theskinreal.com]. 🦋 Subscribe to Tami Jorden's Substack [https://tamijorden.substack.com/], visit her website [https://tamijorden.com/], and follow her on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-jorden-322918227/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ASQDpGEUX/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@tamijorden22] & Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/butterflydayspodcast?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==] 🦋

What Would You Regret? Using Your Mortality as a Compass in Midlife

What would you do if you knew exactly how much time you had left? What would you finally say? What would you stop tolerating and what would you stop postponing? In this solo episode of Butterfly Days, Tami draws on a decade of hospice volunteer work to ask the one question that has the power to cut through all the noise. She explores what the Stoics knew about facing mortality, why the dying teach us more about living than anything else, and how to use this season of your life as a compass toward what actually matters. This is not dark. This is clarity. 🦋 If you want to learn about hospice care for yourself or for someone you love, resources are linked in the show notes on Substack, Apple, and YouTube. Want more information on Hospice or Palliative Care? These are excellent to begin or reach out to me via contacts below; Caring Info Resources [https://www.caringinfo.org], HospiceFoundation.org [https://hospicefoundation.org/for-patients-families/], What is Palliative Care? [https://getpalliativecare.org], for our friends abroad but great info generally HospiceUK [https://www.hospiceuk.org/our-campaigns/dying-matters], & this is chockfull of good info The Conversation Project [https://theconversationproject.org/]. Subscribe to Tami Jorden's Substack [https://tamijorden.substack.com/] and visit her website [https://tamijorden.com/] 🦋 More from Butterfly Days: Substack: https://tamijorden.substack.com/ [https://tamijorden.substack.com/] Website: https://tamijorden.com/ [https://tamijorden.com/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-jorden-322918227/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-jorden-322918227/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ASQDpGEUX/ [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ASQDpGEUX/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/butterflydayspodcast [https://www.instagram.com/butterflydayspodcast]

Surprise! Midlife Pivots Reveal Hidden Assets

Have you spent decades producing, achieving, and saying yes to everything and everyone except yourself? In this episode of Butterfly Days, Tami Jorden sits down with Johanna Danaher, founder of Anchor to Aspire and former 25-year corporate leader at Pfizer, to talk about the pivot that so many midlife women are standing at right now. Johanna shares how to grieve what you are leaving behind, rediscover who you actually are, and move from burnout and stuck to energized and alive. She talks about the inner gremlin that holds us back, the power of the pause, and why filling your cup to overflow is not self-indulgent. It is essential. If you are in the middle of a career transition, a caregiving season, or a quiet wondering of what comes next, this conversation is for you. 🦋 Connect with Johanna Danaher at anchortoaspire.com [https://www.anchortoaspire.com] for coaching or as a speaker. 🦋 Subscribe to Tami Jorden's Substack [https://tamijorden.substack.com/], visit her website [https://tamijorden.com/], and follow her on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-jorden-322918227/], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ASQDpGEUX/], YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@tamijorden22] & Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/butterflydayspodcast?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==] 🦋

AI Is Not the Enemy: Your Concerns Answered & What to Try Next

You asked, and I listened. After Episode 36, AI Is Not the Enemy, the response floored me. Women came back in droves with questions, concerns, and stories of trying AI for the very first time. In this follow-up solo episode of Butterfly Days, Tami tackles the three biggest concerns head-on, including the tough one about energy and land use, and then keeps moving because your time is valuable. She breaks down exactly how to access AI, shares what her listeners are already using it for, and opens up a whole new list of practical, meaningful ways to put it to work for your life. From money and legacy planning to caregiving, travel, grief, and finally starting that thing you've been putting off, this is your Part Two. Links for AI tools in Show Notes 🦋 Resources Mentioned Claude — https://claude.ai [https://claude.ai/] Perplexity — https://www.perplexity.ai [https://www.perplexity.ai/] Gemini — https://gemini.google.com [https://gemini.google.com/] ChatGPT — https://chatgpt.com [https://chatgpt.com/] Grok — https://grok.com [https://grok.com/] All free to start. No excuses. Just pick one and try it. Subscribe to Tami Jorden's Substack [https://tamijorden.substack.com/] and visit her website [https://tamijorden.com/] 🦋 More from Butterfly Days: Substack: https://tamijorden.substack.com/ [https://tamijorden.substack.com/] Website: https://tamijorden.com/ [https://tamijorden.com/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-jorden-322918227/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-jorden-322918227/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ASQDpGEUX/ [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ASQDpGEUX/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/butterflydayspodcast [https://www.instagram.com/butterflydayspodcast]