Breaking Free From Performance w/ Phil Kelley | EP.11

What Teenagers Are Really Desperate For w/ Youth Pastor Jacob Hall | EP.14

In this episode of Carry The Fire, Jesse Allen sits down with Jacob Hall for a deep conversation about the battle for the human heart, the next generation, and the transforming love of God. They unpack: • Why the enemy wars against the heart • The difference between religion and relationship • How God speaks through the heart, not just the mind • Why teenagers are starving to be seen, heard, and valued • The power of presence in discipleship • Conviction vs condemnation • Why love is the antidote to fear • How to disciple the next generation with humility, truth, and grace This conversation is for parents, youth pastors, leaders, mentors, and anyone who wants to see a consecrated generation raised up in the presence of God. “Religion says: You’re bad, be better. The Kingdom says: You’re loved, come closer.” #CarryTheFire #NextGeneration #Discipleship #KingdomOfGod #youthministry  Song: The Preparation Composer: BatchBug Website: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCO3-2ZprtSNtQe1MxzlRepA License: Creative Commons (BY 3.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ Music powered by BreakingCopyright: https://breakingcopyright.com 🔔Follow for more conversations! 🔥For more discipleship resources visit: https://gocarrythefire.com 📘Buy a book: https://gocarrythefire.com/books

The Power in a Present Father w/ Aaron Wallace | EP.13

Every man wants to leave a legacy… but what if your greatest legacy isn’t your career, your money, or your accomplishments? In this powerful conversation, Pastor Aaron Wallace delivers a wake-up call for fathers, husbands, and men everywhere: your children will remember your presence far more than your success. This episode dives deep into: Fatherhood and legacy Presence vs provision God as Father Raising children with intentionality Breaking generational cycles Why success at work can still mean failure at home If you’re a father, husband, leader, or man pursuing purpose… this message could change your priorities forever. Your name at work may fade. But your family will remember who you were. Be present. Build legacy. Make your name mean something at home. #Fatherhood #Legacy #ChristianMen #FamilyFirst #GodlyMen #Parenting #KingdomMen #carrythefire  Intro Song: The Preparation Composer: BatchBug Website: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCO3-2ZprtSNtQe1MxzlRepA License: Creative Commons (BY 3.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ Music powered by BreakingCopyright: https://breakingcopyright.com 🔔Follow for more conversations! 🔥For more discipleship resources visit: https://gocarrythefire.com 📘Buy a book: https://gocarrythefire.com/books

Freedom From Sexual Sin and Walking in Purity w/ Trent Bliss | EP.12

In this episode, Jesse and Trent Bliss have a raw and hope filled conversation about freedom from sexual sin and walking in purity. Trent shares his personal journey of freedom from pornography and shame, revealing how confession, safe community, fasting, and abiding in the love of Jesus led to real transformation. Together, they expose the lie that says you are alone in this struggle and unpack why sexual sin is not just a behavior issue but a heart issue rooted in love, intimacy, and pleasure that only God can truly satisfy. This episode explores the difference between conviction and condemnation, why shame keeps people bound, and how walking in purity leads to spiritual authority and freedom. If you have felt stuck, hidden, or exhausted from trying to be better, this conversation is an invitation to stop hiding and come close to Jesus. Freedom is possible. You are not alone. If you would like prayer or someone to talk to, reach out. We would love to walk with you. 🔔Follow for more conversations! 🔥For more discipleship resources visit: https://gocarrythefire.com 📘Buy a book: https://gocarrythefire.com/books

Breaking Free From Performance w/ Phil Kelley | EP.11

What happens when success, ministry, and performance replace intimacy with God? In this episode, Jesse sits down with Phil Kelley for a raw and honest conversation about addiction, identity, confession, and surrender. Phil shares his journey from early ministry success and public platforms to private struggle and how God met him with mercy in the middle of it all. This episode explores the pressure to perform, the fear of being exposed, the power of confession, and the freedom that comes from surrendering control. It’s a story of discovering that God’s love isn’t earned and that healing often comes through community and honesty. If you’re tired of striving, hiding, or trying to be “good enough,” this conversation is for you. There is hope, freedom, and grace in the light. 🔔Follow for more conversations! 🔥For more discipleship resources visit: https://gocarrythefire.com 📘Buy a book: https://gocarrythefire.com/books

Running the Race God Gave You | EP.10

In this episode, Jesse and Matthew unpack powerful Kingdom lessons from Matthew’s first 50K race. They explore perseverance, preparing for the unknown, running at God’s pace, and leaning into His grace when weakness sets in. Through honest storytelling and Scripture, this conversation reveals how the Christian life mirrors a long distance race. Learning to run your race, resisting comparison, embracing seasons of rest, staying faithful to God’s assignments, and discerning when it is time to go. They dive into themes of peace, surrender, trust, community, and how God’s grace often meets us right in the pain cave. If you have felt discouraged, sidelined, or tempted to quit, this episode is an encouragement to keep going. Fix your eyes on Jesus, trust His timing, and remember that you are not disqualified. 🔔Follow for more conversations! 🔥For more discipleship resources visit: https://gocarrythefire.com 📘Buy a book: https://gocarrythefire.com/books