Coaching Conversations with Lourdes & Maria
Why Disappointment Destroys Your Productivity (And How to Stop the Mental War) Have you ever noticed that when a deal falls through, a project gets shelved, or you get passed over for an opportunity, the initial sting isn't what exhausts you? It’s what happens next. Your mind starts building a case—a whole courtroom in your head. “Exhibit A: This always happens. Exhibit B: Why do I even try?” Suddenly, you aren't just dealing with a raw business reality; you’re fighting an exhausting inner war against what already happened. In this episode of Coaching Conversations, Maria Sabio (Clinical Hypnotherapist & Life Coach) and Lourdes Laifer (Life Coach & Mindfulness Teacher) break down a radical, highly practical Stoic framework to stop the bleeding: Amor Fati (the love of fate). This isn't soft self-help or toxic positivity. It is a rigorous mental model designed to eliminate the "second layer of suffering"—the exact emotional overhead that tanks your decision-making and drains your executive energy. Learn how to separate objective facts from optional verdicts, shift your mindset from "Why me?" to "What does this require of me?", and deploy a 60-second micro-reset to reclaim absolute self-leadership when reality doesn't match your preferences. 📥 NEXT STEPS & RESOURCES ✨ Book a Coaching Session with Maria Ready to step out of the mental courtroom, eliminate self-doubt, and architect your own transformation? Skip the abstract theories and get immediate, tailored clarity. ➡️ 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 : ======================================================= ✨One on One Coaching with Lourdes: https://calendly.com/lourdeslaifercalendar/freeconsultation [https://calendly.com/lourdeslaifercalendar/freeconsultation] ✨ One on One Coaching with Maria: https://calendly.com/gobeyondtherapy/breakthrough-strategy-session-clone [https://calendly.com/gobeyondtherapy/breakthrough-strategy-session-clone] 📖 Get the Book: "A Path to Resilience" Take the daily path to becoming unshakable. Our yearlong companion blends ancient Stoic wisdom (Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, Epictetus) with modern psychology and mindfulness. Available everywhere books are sold online. *** A PATH TO RESILIENCE: SMALL STEPS TO AN UNSHAKABLE YOU *** Our book blends together mindfulness, the concepts of positive psychology, and Stoicism. It's a yearlong companion that imparts daily wisdom based on the values of wisdom, courage, justice, and moderation. It’s available at Barnes & Noble and Amazon We’ll see you next time. AMAZON: https://bit.ly/4rFpIel [https://bit.ly/4rFpIel] BARNES & NOBLE: https://bit.ly/4pU6gbZ [https://bit.ly/4pU6gbZ] ====================================================== 𝐒𝐎𝐋𝐔𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐘𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐀𝐏𝐘 Check out our other videos: Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhQy8oJ89KjRjAYf8E2kBfOQWXeZnMwKw [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhQy8oJ89KjRjAYf8E2kBfOQWXeZnMwKw] Lives: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhQy8oJ89KjQiL3uDti19H7FHC_2ow_Tv&si=o5Xf1a-H-lG_3edC [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhQy8oJ89KjQiL3uDti19H7FHC_2ow_Tv&si=o5Xf1a-H-lG_3edC] 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐲. 𝐎𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐥. 𝐎𝐮𝐫 𝐂𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡, 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞-𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. Now is the time to seize the moment; your transformative journey is just a single appointment away. Experience solutions without years of therapy and start your path to lasting change today. #lourdeslaifer #mariasabio #mindsetcoach #selfconfidence #stoicism #stoicwisdom #coachingconversations #mindset #success #lifecoach #mindsetshift #limitingbeliefs #perspectiveiseverything #help #selfempowerment #success #stress #notgoodenough #procrastination #anger #lifecoaching #selfcompassion #forgiveness #mindfulness #limitingbeliefs #relationships #motivation #motivationaltalk #personalgrowth #stoicism #personaldevelopment ⚠ Wellness Disclaimer ⚠ Please note: The health and mental health topics discussed in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. This content is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified health or mental health professional with any questions about your well-being. Do not ignore or delay seeking professional advice because of something you’ve heard here, on social media, or in any other content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or facing an emergency, please contact your doctor or dial 911 immediately. If you need assistance and don’t have access to a health professional, use these resources: Emergency Medical Services—911: For life-threatening situations, call 911 for immediate help, available 24/7.
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