Help… My Child’s Got Another Duck!

Help… My Child’s Got Another Duck!

A duck can feel much bigger than it looks on a scorecard. In this episode of the Cricket Mind Podcast, Nathan Wood and Briony Brock answer real questions from parents of young cricketers: what to say after another duck, how to help when a child puts huge pressure on themselves, and how to support them through the inevitable highs and lows of the game. They discuss how parents can be a steady source of support without accidentally making cricket feel heavier — whether that means handling difficult emotions, navigating trials, or balancing the roles of parent, coach, manager or umpire. In this episode: * What to say — and what not to say — when your child gets out for nought * Why cricket can feel so individual, even though it is a team sport * How Play-Cricket, statistics and comparison can add pressure * How to support a child who puts huge pressure on themselves * What to do when emotions spill over after a poor performance * How to help a young player approach cricket trials with more clarity * The challenges of being a parent as well as a coach, manager or umpire * Why your child does not need you to be perfect — but does need to know you are on their side TIMESTAMPS 00:00 — Supporting young cricketers: the questions parents ask 02:58 — What should you say when your child gets a duck? 05:50 — Why cricket feels so individual 14:20 — When your child puts huge pressure on themselves 21:01 — Anger, tears and meltdowns after poor performances 30:19 — Supporting a child at cricket trials 35:55 — Being a parent, coach, manager or umpire 45:44 — Preparing for Trials Workshop If you have found this episode helpful, please subscribe to the Cricket Mind Podcast so you do not miss future episodes. And, if you have a moment, a rating and review on your podcast app makes a huge difference in helping more players, parents and coaches find the show. For more support for players, parents and coaches, visit: https://cricketmind.online [https://cricketmind.online/] Find out more about our upcoming live workshops: https://cricketmind.online/coaching-events/ [https://cricketmind.online/coaching-events/] Follow Cricket Mind Online: Instagram: @cricket.mind.online Facebook: cricket.mind.online YouTube: cricket.mind.online

Can You Survive the Bad Days? | Faisal Shahid

What helps some young cricketers grow through adversity while others become stuck? Why do some players lose confidence after a setback, while others use it as a catalyst for improvement? In this episode of the Cricket Mind Podcast, Nathan Wood is joined by Faisal Shahid, Academy Manager for Warwickshire Women, to explore the psychology of long-term player development. Drawing on his experiences as an England U17 player, MCC Young Cricketer, professional cricketer and high-performance coach, Faisal shares his insights on confidence, resilience, motivation, identity and the ability to "survive bad days". Whether you're a player, parent or coach, this conversation is packed with practical lessons to help young cricketers navigate setbacks, maintain motivation and continue developing through the ups and downs of the game. IN THIS EPISODE: • What long-term development actually looks like • Why confidence is about surviving bad days • The dangers of becoming obsessed with outcomes • How setbacks can become opportunities for growth • Why some players thrive through adversity while others struggle • The role parents play in shaping confidence • How to balance ambition with enjoyment • Why identity and performance should remain separate • What boys' and girls' cricket can learn from each other • The biggest myths in youth cricket ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction 02:41 – Long-Term Player Development 12:37 – Confidence and Surviving Bad Days 21:47 – Setbacks, Adversity and Resilience 34:09 – Motivation and Enjoyment 45:43 – Identity and Performance 48:44 – Coaching Boys and Girls 53:27 – Quickfire Questions ⭐ ENJOYING THE CRICKET MIND PODCAST? Please subscribe to the show, leave a rating and review, and share this episode with a player, parent or coach who you think might find it helpful. 🏏 SUPPORTING YOUNG CRICKETERS WORKSHOP Cricket Mind Online is hosting an online workshop for cricket parents on Tuesday 16th June at 7pm. The workshop will explore practical ways parents can support confidence, resilience, enjoyment, motivation and long-term development in young cricketers. Book your place here: https://cricketmind.online/supporting-young-cricketers-workshop/ [https://cricketmind.online/supporting-young-cricketers-workshop/] 🔗 CONNECT WITH CRICKET MIND ONLINE Website: www.cricketmind.online [http://www.cricketmind.online/] Email: info@cricketmind.online [info@cricketmind.online] Instagram: @cricket.mind.online Facebook: cricket.mind.online YouTube: @cricket.mind.online

The Truth About Talent Pathways & Trials

Why do so many talented young cricketers stop enjoying the game? And do players really need to be in a talent pathway from a young age to have a realistic chance of becoming a professional cricketer? In this episode of The Cricket Mind Podcast, Nathan Wood and Briony Brock are joined by ECB Level 4 coach and coach developer Ben Silver for an honest conversation about talent pathways, cricket trials, player development, coaching overload, and what actually helps young cricketers improve over the long term. Ben has worked across county cricket, England pathways, ECB Disability Cricket, and high-performance coaching — giving him a unique perspective on what coaches and selectors really look for, why some players thrive while others burn out, and how young cricketers can develop without losing their enjoyment of the game. Alongside this, Ben also works with Cricket Mind Online as a high-performance coach, helping players optimise the quality of their training and practice routines. In this episode: * What selectors actually look for in cricket trials * Why “high ceiling” players stand out * The truth about county age-group pathways * Whether players need early pathway selection to succeed * Why some talented players stop enjoying cricket * Coaching overload and social media cricket advice * The importance of messy practice and game-based learning * Why player development is rarely linear * What parents should really focus on Timestamps: 00:00 — Jimmy Anderson and the Lancashire U15 “B” team 02:05 — Introducing Ben Silver 03:17 — What coaches and selectors look for at trials 07:33 — Risk vs reward during cricket trials 11:13 — Confidence, bravery and coachability 16:35 — Do players need to be in talent pathways early? 22:57 — Why some talented players stop enjoying cricket 34:38 — Are young cricketers being over-coached? 42:42 — Long-term development vs short-term winning 55:58 — What “messy practice” actually means 🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and all major podcast platforms. 🏏 Learn more about Cricket Mind Online: www.cricketmind.online 📩 Get in touch: info@cricketmind.online 📱 Follow Cricket Mind Online: * Instagram: @cricket.mind.online * YouTube: @cricket.mind.podcast • • Facebook: cricket.mind.online

You’re Not Unlucky | A Coach & Player Perspective

Why do some players stay in cricket for years… while others quietly drift away? In this episode of The Cricket Mind Podcast, Nathan Wood and Briony Brock are joined by coach Laura de Silva and player Charlotte Bernstein for a powerful conversation about confidence, pressure, enjoyment, and the environments that keep players coming back. This episode offers a unique perspective from both sides of the same environment — a coach working to build meaningful relationships and supportive cultures, and a young player experiencing those environments firsthand. The conversation explores girls’ cricket, but the lessons apply across the game for players, parents and coaches alike. IN THIS EPISODE: * Why players really drop out of cricket * The importance of confidence and enjoyment * Why “unlucky” is banned in Laura’s coaching environments * Building strong coach–player relationships * Pressure, expectations and performance * The difference between boys’ and girls’ cricket environments * How coaches can create environments players want to return to * Why support matters more than frustration * Managing cricket alongside GCSEs, school and life * The role friendships play in long-term engagement * Why great environments help players perform better TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 – Are we still losing too many players from cricket? 01:01 – Introducing Laura de Silva & Charlotte Bernstein 02:56 – What makes players want to keep turning up? 06:01 – What great coaches do differently 14:11 – What makes a strong coach–player relationship? 22:44 – Building real confidence in players 27:32 – Why “unlucky” is banned 30:06 – Pressure, expectations and performance 38:15 – Have you ever thought about quitting cricket? 45:06 – Why there still aren’t enough female coaches in cricket 🌐 Website: Cricket Mind Online [https://www.cricketmind.online/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] 📩 GET IN TOUCH: Email: info@cricketmind.online 📱 FOLLOW CRICKET MIND ONLINE: * Instagram: @cricket.mind.online * YouTube: @cricket.mind.online * TikTok: @cricket.mind.online If you enjoyed the episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another player, parent or coach involved in the game.

More Nets Won’t Fix Your Match Performance

Why do so many cricketers perform well in nets… but struggle in matches? In this episode of The Cricket Mind Podcast, Nathan Wood and Briony Brock answer listener questions around early-season performance struggles — from confidence and expectations to training that doesn’t transfer into games. If you’ve ever felt like you’ve “gone backwards” despite a strong winter, this episode will help you understand why — and what to do about it. IN THIS EPISODE: * Why how you feel before batting doesn’t predict performance * The real reason nets don’t transfer into matches * Why early-season struggles are completely normal * How chasing past performances can hold you back * How to respond to a poor team performance as a coach * Why run outs are so common early season (and how to fix it) ⏱ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Intro – Are players training the wrong way? 01:13 Should you trust how you feel before batting? 03:57 Nets vs matches – why it feels different 07:30 “I’ve gone backwards after scoring a 50” 12:16 Coaching after a poor team performance 18:13 Why run outs happen early season 27:20 Outro & listener questions 📩 GET IN TOUCH Got a question for a future episode? Send it in via: 📸 Instagram: @cricket.mind.online 📘 Facebook: @cricket.mind.online 🌐 Website: https://www.cricketmind.online [https://www.cricketmind.online] 📧 Email: nathan@cricketmind.online [nathan@cricketmind.online]