Leadership Confessions: Accountability Skills to Set New Leaders Up for Success

Leadership Confessions: Accountability Skills to Set New Leaders Up for Success

Brittney Maxfield sits down with Justin Hale, co-author of the newly released third edition of Crucial Accountability, to discuss why so many new managers struggle in their leadership roles. Justin explains why more than a third of managers feel they were promoted for the wrong reasons, and dives into three skills new leaders need in order to succeed.  Justin walks through the tools at the heart of Crucial Accountability that show how to break down a conversation and communicate in a positive way. These skills are critical for new managers as they tackle what is called the “performance gap” with their employees. Justin shares his own personal stories that highlight why these conversations with leaders matter and how they impact everyone involved. In the end, he provides a framework for balancing empathy and accountability so that even the hardest of conversations can become moments of growth. Chapters [Start] The Accidental Manager Problem: Justin Hale introduces the third edition of Crucial Accountability, and dives into research on why new managers are promoted for the wrong reasons. 05:53 Changing the Math on Silence: Diving into how to understand the avoidance problem and introducing three skills to build up new managers for their roles. 14:13 Leading with Good Intent: How to engage in the right conversation once you have identified and prepared the necessary patterns. 27:20 Empathy and Accountability: A takeaway for new managers to help them face accountability and difficult conversations in the future. Links and Resources * Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=podcast] * Crucial Accountability: Proven Skills to Build Trust, Address Disappointment, and Get Results  [https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Accountability-Address-Disappointment-Results/dp/1264597541/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0] * Crucial Conversations ® for Accountability [https://cruciallearning.com/courses/crucial-conversations-for-accountability/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=MD] (course) * Leadership Confessions: Accountability Skills to Set New Leaders Up for Success | eBook [https://cruciallearningindia.in/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/eBook-Leadership-Confessions.pdf] Learn more about Brittney Maxfield here. [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/author/brittney-maxfield/] Learn more about Justin Hale here. [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/author/justin-hale/] The Crucial Skills Podcast is brought to you by the authors and experts at Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/], home of Crucial Conversations for Mastering Dialogue and Crucial Conversations for Accountability training.

Turn Conflict into Connection | The Relationship Skills Every Team Needs

Relationships are the currency of high-performing teams, families, and communities. But, today, we're struggling more than ever to build and sustain them.  Authors Justin Hale and Emily Gregory dig into why so many of our everyday interactions tend to create friction. They talk about what the research reveals about the motives driving how we connect, collide, and recover with the people we work and live with. Drawing on decades of research, Justin and Emily introduce the concept of "relationship intelligence" and how it influences our interactions with those around us. They unpack the Strength Deployment Inventory ® (SDI ®) and offer a practical framework for turning friction into insight. Chapters [Start] The State of Our Relationships: Justin and Emily present data on loneliness, estrangement, and disconnection at work and home. 12:45 Defining Relationship Intelligence: A look at the origins of the SDI and a core framework for understanding relationship intelligence. 16:45 Motivational Value Systems: The three core motives that drive people’s motivations and how they shape behavior. 22:13 How We Respond to Conflict: Why conflict narrows our focus and looks different for everyone. 31:29 Overdoing Our Strengths: How people can overdo their strengths and impact relationships in the process. Links and Resources * Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=podcast] * Strength Deployment Inventory Free Trial [https://app.corestrengths.com/signup?token=TRY-SDI] Learn more about Emily Gregory here. [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/author/emily-gregory/] Learn more about Justin Hale here. [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/author/justin-hale/] The Crucial Skills Podcast is brought to you by the authors and experts at Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/], home of Crucial Conversations for Mastering Dialogue and Crucial Conversations for Accountability training.

How to Deal with a Passive-Aggressive Boss

When a manager communicates vaguely and then gets upset when their expectations aren’t met, the workplace can quickly become a source of frustration. Crucial Conversations co-author Emily Gregory responds to a letter from a team dealing with exactly this problem. This situation has left the employees feeling criticized, confused, and stuck. Emily unpacks why situations like this feel so demoralizing and what is actually driving the frustration beneath the surface. Rather than validating the impulse to write off a difficult manager, Emily offers a new perspective: get curious before drawing conclusions. She walks through how villainizing someone makes productive conversation nearly impossible, and she provides an approach for naming the gap without assigning blame. Chapters [Start] The Employee Letter: Emily introduces a letter from a frustrated team of employees dealing with a passive-aggressive boss. 01:22 Validating the Frustration: Learn how to accept your own feelings while addressing the gap between expectations and reality between a boss and an employee. 02:53 Moving Forward with Conversation: Some steps you can take to make your way toward having a conversation with your boss. 04:35 Getting to the Root of the Problem: Some tips for addressing unclear expectations in a conversation to get to the real problem beneath the behavior. 05:39 Closing the Gap: A recap of how to approach this kind of conversation, as well as some advice on how to close the expectation gap. Links and Resources * Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=podcast] * Clarifying Expectations with a Passive-Aggressive Boss - Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/clarifying-expectations-with-a-passive-aggressive-boss/] * Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High [https://www.amazon.com/Crucial-Conversations-Third-Talking-Stakes/dp/B09MV3818X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=S4ZGLE01USN0&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.VufgGWf1JuxUe2Xlnt-x6BJNausDD21wNBytKhF3AOTWCBm3ZRcl6S2VpsHMWmXEkpYf7BQRceM6dyHih-wDqQ-XFq5DjQGXtU0tzMPwFQeZ4aqQ_mbwTFGhOeXJSFV_fTsLlBlHg27bHzVICRiOT0JXITpSv_Hs7f7A63UmkLEk_4s4R2XjVd_4LcYprmf_n6A6hcYBy5-yS5goezierKCKqRi3EqjBNCVZLhpv4GE.3oCYUk9ACRTL-D7ffstDpcJf44neffQe0XRzJWHD5Ww&dib_tag=se&keywords=crucial+conversations&qid=1774024336&sprefix=crucial+conversation%2Caps%2C220&sr=8-1&utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=book&utm_campaign=podcast] * Crucial Conversations for Mastering Dialogue - Crucial Learning Course [https://da.cruciallearning.com/crucial-conversations-md/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=paid-search&utm_campaign=PPC-GO_course-MD_search-brand&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=10256705203&gbraid=0AAAAADFz68VbR50cLzEAO9ugj1mJHY9a6&gclid=CjwKCAjw0o3SBhBVEiwAh28-jeGek-tJMO_1E7ksLHXgoSFgYCuzTJG8-FZ72ZfXOLGtUvRzpn88jhoCL3QQAvD_BwE] Learn more about Emily Gregory here. [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/author/emily-gregory/] The Crucial Skills Podcast is brought to you by the authors and experts at Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/], home of Crucial Conversations for Mastering Dialogue and Crucial Conversations for Accountability training.

Why AI Implementations Fail | The Behavioral Fix Most Leaders Miss

What happens when organizations invest heavily in AI tools only to watch them underperform, or fail, altogether?  Joseph Grenny is joined by JaeLynn Williams, a leader with firsthand experience implementing AI across healthcare, aviation, and technology companies. They dive into a question that is haunting many executives: why aren’t AI initiatives delivering the results they promised? The answer lies not in the technology, but in the human systems around it. JaeLynn shares case study examples that offer practical insights on where AI implementations break down and how leaders can diagnose and fix them before it's too late. Joseph and JaeLynn walk through a practical framework to help find those patterns of failure and how to prevent them from happening. Whether you're leading an AI initiative or trying to make sense of why your tools aren't sticking, this framework is one you can use immediately. Chapters [Start] Introducing JaeLynn: JaeLynn Williams is introduced and shares a story about an AI implementation that backfired while she was CEO at Air Methods. 03:43 The Behavioral Agility Argument: A look at the real barrier to AI success, including four Crucial Conversations that will set high-performing teams apart from others. 15:23 Four Patterns of AI Failure: JaeLynn walks through real-world examples that illustrate four recurring failure modes, and how to prevent them. 25:27 The Diagnostic Framework: A four-question diagnostic tool that anyone can use in 60 seconds to identify where an AI initiative is breaking down. 34:34 Questions from Listeners: Questions are brought in regarding AI and company implementation and how to bridge the gap. Links and Resources * Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=podcast] * Why AI Implementations Fail - eBook [https://go.cruciallearning.com/20260406-general-ai-ebook] * AI That Delivers: Aligning Technology with Human Behavior [https://webinars.cruciallearning.com/lp/webinar/081421984673ede8] Learn more about Joseph Grenny here. [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/author/joseph-grenny/] The Crucial Skills Podcast is brought to you by the authors and experts at Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/], home of Crucial Conversations for Mastering Dialogue and Crucial Conversations for Accountability training.

A Manager's Guide to Delivering Tough Performance Feedback

What do you do with an employee who believes they're excelling, but the data tells a different story?  Justin Hale, coauthor of Crucial Accountability, tackles this problem head-on, showing how to initiate these uncomfortable conversations. While it is hard, putting them off rarely makes the gap close on its own. And mishandling them can damage trust and stall progress for good. Justin breaks down five steps to prepare for and navigate a conversation when a manager and an employee view performance very differently. His insights offer a roadmap for turning a tense moment into a productive one, for both the employee and the leader. Chapters [Start] The Performance Gap: Justin Hale introduces the gap between an employee’s perception and their work performance, and dives into how to close the gap. 01:23 Step 1: The first step in framing a conversation to make sure expectations are set and met for both parties. 02:31 Step 2: How to have the right conversation with someone once you have identified the root of the problem. 03:20 Step 3: The importance of checking your assumptions about a person before having a difficult conversation with them. 04:28 Step 4: Laying out the facts vs opinions in a conversation to make sure everyone involved is on the same page. 05:32 Step 5: Preparing yourself for multiple outcomes once you dive into a hard conversation with someone. Links and Resources * Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/?utm_source=Podcast&utm_medium=website&utm_campaign=podcast] * When An Employee Thinks They're Awesome, But You Don't | Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/when-an-employee-thinks-theyre-awesome-but-you-dont/] * Crucial Accountability - Book [https://cruciallearning.com/books/crucial-accountability-book/] * Crucial Conversations for Accountability [https://cruciallearning.com/courses/crucial-conversations-for-accountability/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=crucialskillspodcast] Learn more about Justin Hale here. [https://cruciallearning.com/blog/author/justin-hale/] The Crucial Skills Podcast is brought to you by the authors and experts at Crucial Learning [https://cruciallearning.com/], home of Crucial Conversations for Mastering Dialogue and Crucial Conversations for Accountability training.