Safe or Stuck? Outgrowing People, Places, and Patterns

The Dark Side of the Internet: Hot Girls, Hate Comments, and Handcuffs

The internet is unwell - and this week, we’ve got the receipts. From the chaos over Sabrina Carpenter’s album cover to Diddy being released from jail, we’re unpacking the wild double standards celebrities and online personalities face.  Why do people act like public figures aren’t allowed to be human? Why are trolls obsessed with tearing down hot girls who literally just exist? We also get into the creepy side of the internet - stalker energy, hate comments, fake moral high grounds, and why some people need to log off and touch grass immediately. Fame in the digital age is giving perform or be punished, and we’re not here for it. If you’ve ever felt the pressure to be perfect online or just wanted to roast the weirdos in your DMs...this one’s for you. Connect With Us Patrice's TikTok: @tricetemmah [https://www.tiktok.com/@tricetemmah] Saydee's TikTok: @saydeenotsadie [https://www.tiktok.com/@saydeenotsadie]

Losing and Rediscovering Your Passion in Adulthood

This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt like they left the best parts of themselves behind just to keep up with life.  We’re unpacking what happens when you give up your passions to be “realistic,” how to start chasing them again (even if you’re scared sh*tless), and why being a little delulu might actually save your soul.  We got emotional, obviously. If you've been feeling stuck, lost, or like you’re living in a version of yourself you don’t recognize, press play.  You're not too late. You're not too old. You’re just not done yet. Connect With Us Patrice's TikTok: @tricetemmah [https://www.tiktok.com/@tricetemmah] Saydee's TikTok: @saydeenotsadie [https://www.tiktok.com/@saydeenotsadie]

The Hidden Costs of Friendship: The MAJOR Red Flags We Ignored

You ever look at a friendship and think, “Why does this feel like it’s draining my energy and my bank account?” Yeah, same. This week, we’re breaking down the hidden costs of modern friendships—because emotional labor and financial strain are real, and some people really will test your patience and your Venmo balance. We’re talking about the friends who never seem to pay you back, the ones who only call when their life is falling apart, and the ones who make you feel small the moment you share a win. From shady money habits to emotional one-sidedness, this episode is the wake-up call we all need. We’re also calling out some friendship red flags we wish we saw sooner, the boundaries we’re learning to set, and the honest conversations we’re finally having. Because let’s be real—if it costs your peace or your paycheck, it’s too damn expensive. Connect With Us Patrice's TikTok: @tricetemmah [https://www.tiktok.com/@tricetemmah] Saydee's TikTok: @saydeenotsadie [https://www.tiktok.com/@saydeenotsadie]

Safe or Stuck? Outgrowing People, Places, and Patterns

You've outgrown the job, the group chat, and that one friend you lowkey dread texting back. In this episode, we’re talking about the comfort zone—why it feels so good and why it might actually be keeping you small. From friendships that fizzle to situationships that overstayed their welcome, we get real about what it looks like to leave what’s “safe” behind, even when it hurts.  We’re unpacking the GUILT, the GLOW-UPS, and the “is it just me or…?” moments that come with personal growth. So if you’ve been feeling stuck, this one’s for you. Because sometimes the sign is the way you feel every day. Listen now and ask yourself: am I safe… or just scared to grow? Connect With Us Patrice's TikTok: @tricetemmah [https://www.tiktok.com/@tricetemmah] Saydee's TikTok: @saydeenotsadie [https://www.tiktok.com/@saydeenotsadie]

The Life and Death of the Party Girl: A Tell-All

She’s not gone… she just grew up (kinda).  In this episode, we’re talking about the party girl era—the frat basements, the jungle juice, the going out five nights a week and calling it “balance.” We break down the types of party girls you’d always see at the function, tell our own most chaotic stories on the nights we got wasted, and talk about how our vibe has shifted.  We still go out and have fun, but now it’s more espresso martinis and less climbing on bar tops. If you're in your soft party girl era, reminiscing on your wild phase while curating a calmer one, this episode is for you. Connect With Us Patrice's TikTok: @tricetemmah [https://www.tiktok.com/@tricetemmah] Saydee's TikTok: @saydeenotsadie [https://www.tiktok.com/@saydeenotsadie]