Why Dads Secretly Stress About Money

Why Dads Secretly Stress About Money

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2155756/fan_mail/new] Almost every dad thinks about it. Few talk honestly about it. In this episode of DADHOOD, Thomas and Frankie unpack the emotional side of money, financial stress, unexpected expenses, retirement anxiety, and the pressure many fathers feel to provide for their families. From surprise insurance bills and car repairs to deeper conversations about scarcity, abundance, self-worth, and financial freedom, this episode explores why money often carries far more emotional weight than the actual dollar amount attached to it. If you've ever laid awake worrying about finances, questioned whether you're doing enough, or felt the pressure of providing for your family, this conversation is for you. We discuss: *  Financial stress in fatherhood  *  The emotional cost of money anxiety  *  Scarcity vs abundance mindsets  *  Retirement fears  *  Building a healthy relationship with money  *  Why more income doesn't always mean less stress  *  The hidden currencies that matter most  Because sometimes the biggest financial burden isn't the bill itself—it's the space it takes up in your mind. CHAPTERS 00:00 – Welcome Back To Kiln 03:15 – Why DADHOOD Is About Evolving Out Loud 07:20 – The Money Conversation Starts 11:42 – Paying Off a House Changes Everything 16:30 – When Unexpected Bills Hit 21:10 – The Emotional Weight of Financial Stress 25:35 – Money as Energy: A Different Perspective 30:08 – Why Financial Anxiety Never Fully Goes Away 35:15 – The Cost of Worrying About Money 39:48 – Scarcity vs Abundance Mindsets 44:20 – Retirement, Wealth, and What Really Matters 49:10 – How Society Shapes Our Relationship With Money 54:45 – The Currency That Matters Most 59:18 – Financial Stress and Family Impact 1:03:42 – Building a Healthier Relationship With Money 1:08:55 – DADHOOD Community Updates & Events Subscribe, follow, and share with another dad. Thanks for listening to the DADHOOD Podcast. If this episode resonated with you, make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another dad who’s figuring it out one day at a time.

Why Dads Struggle With Anger & Emotional Regulation

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2155756/fan_mail/new] This week on DADHOOD, we’re officially leveling up. Recorded inside Kiln Co-Working in Holiday, we talk about community, fatherhood, emotional regulation, road rage, parenting through fear, and the hidden pressure dads put on themselves to constantly prove something. From dangerous intersections and dad overreactions to unpacking childhood conditioning, we dive into the ways our upbringing still shows up in our parenting, relationships, and self-worth. We also have a real conversation about masculinity, pushing too hard, and knowing when enough is enough. We also talk about: *  Why dads need real community  *  The hidden pressure to “prove yourself”  *  Parenting after emotional reactions  *  Road rage, fear, and regulating emotions  *  How childhood conditioning follows us into adulthood  *  Why connection with other dads matters  *  Learning when to push — and when to let go  This episode is for dads trying to grow, stay present, and become the kind of man they want their kids to remember. Chapters 00:00 – DADHOOD Levels Up at Kiln 02:10 – Why Environment Impacts Creativity & Focus 05:48 – Building a Real Dad Community 09:15 – The Power of Friendships in Fatherhood 12:42 – Letting Kids Have More Independence 16:18 – The Scary Crosswalk Moment With Jackson 21:05 – Dad Anger, Fear & Emotional Regulation 25:14 – Why Kids Watch How We React 28:45 – Road Rage, Parenting & Staying Calm 33:02 – Childhood Conditioning That Still Shows Up 38:20 – Conflict, Arguments & Emotional Triggers 43:15 – The Rental Car Story & Learning to Respond Differently 48:52 – “Me vs Me” In The Gym 53:20 – Are We Still Trying To Prove Something? 57:14 – Knowing When To Push & When To Let Go 1:01:45 – Building Real Friendships & Dad Support 1:05:20 – Final Thoughts + Dadhood Events Key Takeaways 1. Dads need community more than they realize Fatherhood gets lighter when you have people who understand what you’re carrying. 2. Anger is often fear in disguise Many parenting reactions come from fear, stress, or protection — not the moment itself. 3. Kids learn emotional regulation from watching us How dads respond to frustration teaches kids how to handle life. 4. Just because you’re right doesn’t mean you’re safe Teaching kids awareness matters more than assuming rules protect them. 5. We’re often still trying to prove something Many adult behaviors trace back to childhood wounds, validation, or feeling unseen. 6. Presence matters more than performance Kids don’t need perfection — they need connection. 7. Emotional awareness changes everything Recognizing where reactions come from gives dads the power to respond differently. 8. Healthy masculinity includes vulnerability Talking honestly about mistakes, fears, and emotions makes better fathers. 9. Not every challenge needs to be conquered Sometimes strength is knowing when to stop pushing yourself. 10. Friendship is part of fatherhood Having even one or two trusted dad friends can completely change the experience of parenting. 11. Kids are always watching The way we drive, react, argue, and repair becomes their blueprint for adulthood. 12. Growth starts with honesty Real fatherhood growth happens when dads stop pretending and start unpacking the deeper stuff. Subscribe, follow, and share with another dad. Thanks for listening to the DADHOOD Podcast. If this episode resonated with you, make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another dad who’s figuring it out one day at a time.

Breaking the patterns we inherited from our parents

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2155756/fan_mail/new] This week on DADHOOD, we get real about the traits we inherit from our parents — the ones that helped us survive as kids but might be holding us back as dads, husbands, and men today. We talk about breaking generational patterns, why we sometimes raise our voices, hustle for validation, struggle with presence, and unknowingly carry childhood survival tools into adulthood. From therapy breakthroughs to parenting awareness, this conversation dives deep into what it actually looks like to evolve as a father and stop passing down the things we’re still healing from ourselves. If you've ever caught yourself reacting in a way that felt familiar… or wondered why certain parenting moments hit harder than they should — this episode is for you. We also talk about: *  Why yelling doesn’t create connection  *  The pressure dads unknowingly put on themselves  *  Childhood coping mechanisms that follow us into adulthood  *  Seeking validation from parents, partners, and success  *  Why your kids need your presence more than perfection Because being a better dad sometimes starts with understanding the little boy you used to be. Chapters 00:00 – DADHOOD Father’s Day Event Announcement 03:12 – The Traits We Inherit From Our Parents 06:08 – Why Dads Raise Their Voice (Without Realizing It) 10:42 – Childhood Survival Tools That Don’t Serve You Anymore 15:18 – Why We Chase Validation as Adults 19:46 – “You’re Dragging the Raft Through the Woods” 24:02 – The Hidden Pressure of Hustle Culture for Dads 29:15 – Are You Truly Present With Your Kids? 34:20 – The Connection We Were Missing Growing Up 39:08 – Parenting While Healing Your Own Childhood 44:15 – Why “That’s Just Who I Am” Is Dangerous 48:27 – Building a Better Version of Fatherhood 52:30 – Final Thoughts + Dadhood Father’s Day Meetup Takeaways 1. Childhood survival tools don’t always work in adulthood The habits that protected us as kids — shutting down, yelling, avoiding conflict, people pleasing — may now be hurting our relationships as fathers and partners. 2. Awareness is the first step to breaking generational patterns You can’t change what you don’t recognize. Becoming aware of inherited behaviors is where growth starts. 3. Raising your voice often comes from stress — not the moment Most parenting reactions aren’t about the immediate situation. They’re usually tied to deeper stress, pressure, or unresolved experiences. 4. Your kids want your presence more than perfection Children remember how emotionally available you were far more than achievements, money, or productivity. 5. Many dads are unknowingly chasing validation Whether through work, success, fitness, or parenting — a lot of men are still trying to earn approval they didn’t fully receive growing up. 6. “That’s just who I am” keeps people stuck Growth requires honesty. Self-awareness matters more than defending unhealthy patterns. 7. Connection beats performance Being a great dad isn’t about constantly doing more — it’s about creating meaningful moments of connection. 8. Healing yourself helps heal your family The more inner work dads do, the less emotional baggage gets passed to their kids. 9. Honest conversations with other dads matter Fatherhood feels lighter when dads have a space to talk openly without judgment. 10. We’re all evolving in real time No dad has it fully figured out — but showing up, reflecting, and trying again matters most.  Subscribe, follow, and share with another dad. Thanks for listening to the DADHOOD Podcast. If this episode resonated with you, make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another dad who’s figuring it out one day at a time.

Breaking Family Patterns Starts Here

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2155756/fan_mail/new] At some point, every dad realizes it: You start noticing the things your parents did… the patterns, habits, and ways they showed up — and you have to decide what stays and what changes. In this episode of DADHOOD, we get real about navigating relationships with our parents as adults, being treated like “the kid” even in your 30s and 40s, and learning how our own energy affects our children more than we realize. We also share powerful moments of repair with our boys — the moments that remind us parenting isn’t about perfection… it’s about growth. If you’ve ever caught yourself sounding like your parents, struggled with family dynamics, or wanted to become a better father than the example you had, this episode is for you. Subscribe, follow, and share with another dad. Chapters: 00:00 – A Brand New Dad Joins The Club 04:35 – When Parents Still Treat You Like A Kid 10:42 – Breaking Old Family Patterns 18:15 – The Hard Truth About Adult Children 24:30 – Should You Confront Your Parents? 31:50 – Parenting Triggers We Don’t Notice 39:10 – The iPad Lie & Dad Energy 48:40 – A Moment That Changed Everything 57:12 – Why Repair Matters More Than Perfection 01:01:30 – Becoming Better Dads Takeaways • Your kids absorb your energy more than your words. • Becoming an adult means creating healthy autonomy from parents. • Repair after hard moments matters more than pretending they didn’t happen. • Kids often internalize our frustration as disappointment in them. • Breaking generational patterns starts with awareness. • Your child’s perception becomes their reality. • Accountability is one of the strongest things a dad can model. • Being a better parent starts with self-reflection. Thanks for listening to the DADHOOD Podcast. If this episode resonated with you, make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another dad who’s figuring it out one day at a time.

From Quitting to Commitment: Teaching Kids to Stick With It

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2155756/fan_mail/new] In this episode of the DADHOOD Podcast, we dive into the challenge every parent faces — getting kids to stick with something when it gets hard. From starting guitar lessons to daily practice battles, we talk about motivation, discipline, and why sometimes parents need to give their kids that extra push. We also reflect on our own childhood experiences, the things we wish our parents had encouraged us to continue, and how those lessons shape the way we parent today. If you’re raising kids, teaching perseverance, or navigating hobbies and commitments, this episode will hit home. Chapters 00:00 – Introducing Guitar Lessons 02:10 – Why Kids Resist Practice 05:18 – Learning Through Parenting 08:02 – Regrets From Our Own Childhood 11:40 – The Importance of Consistency 14:27 – Pushing Kids Without Breaking Their Spirit 18:05 – Encouraging Passion & Growth 21:33 – Final Thoughts on Parenting and Perseverance Key Takeaways * Kids often want to quit when things become difficult — consistency matters. * Parents play a huge role in encouraging perseverance and discipline. * Looking back, many adults wish they had stuck with hobbies or skills longer. * Practice and repetition are essential for growth, especially with music. * Gentle accountability from parents can help kids build confidence and resilience. * Supporting a child’s interests early can create lifelong passions. * Parenting is about balancing encouragement with patience. * Growth happens when kids learn to push through challenges. Thanks for listening to the DADHOOD Podcast. If this episode resonated with you, make sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another dad who’s figuring it out one day at a time.