Maine Trip Update: Lobsters, Lies, and Ladies Who Golf

Maine Trip Update: Lobsters, Lies, and Ladies Who Golf

Christmas and Cara share updates on their upcoming trip to Maine in October where they'll explore the witch museum, take a nighttime haunted tour, and hopefully fit in a day trip to Acadia National Park. Also, as usual, the conversation took some turns... • Cara joined the ladies golf league at her country club where she's the youngest by "maybe two decades" • An unfortunate incident involving a goose on the golf course leads to surprising ball placement • Excitement builds for their Salem trip in October, including staying next to the witch museum  • Planning a walking food tour in Portland and a visit to the allegedly haunted Bunghole Liquors • Discussion of Maine-based books including the "Clambake Mysteries" series and "The Frozen River" • Cara's recent discovery of chimichurri sauce has her putting it on everything from eggs to beans and rice • Pizza oven adventures and why manufacturers recommend practicing before hosting a pizza party • Teenage slang evolution: "sus" is now considered cringe but "dodgy" remains timeless Welcome to Dead Mom Scavenger Hunt Holla at us with questions or comments: Email: dmshpod@gmail.com Insta: @deadmomscavengerhunt [https://www.instagram.com/deadmomscavengerhunt/] Follow us on Facebook! [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61574005985061] Christmas IG: @drugstorecowgirljewelry Cara IG: @cara.steinmann OR you can get all the uncut video and audio if you join us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/DMSH]. See you there!

Marriage: It's a Team Sport With Mismatched Jerseys

Two decades of marriage has taught us that every couple creates their own unique contract, with different rules, boundaries, and arrangements that work specifically for them. We explore what makes marriages last and how to navigate the complexities of sharing your life with another person. • Identifying deal breakers early in the relationship creates clear boundaries • Having separate finances can eliminate major sources of conflict for couples with different spending styles • Finding ways to accommodate each other's quirks without constant criticism • The "marriage contract" concept—recognizing that each couple creates their own terms • Adjusting expectations as you grow and change together over time • Learning to distinguish between what truly matters and what you can let slide • How living with someone for decades creates patterns and rhythms unique to your relationship • Maintaining individuality within marriage through personal space and independence Welcome to Dead Mom Scavenger Hunt Holla at us with questions or comments: Email: dmshpod@gmail.com Insta: @deadmomscavengerhunt [https://www.instagram.com/deadmomscavengerhunt/] Follow us on Facebook! [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61574005985061] Christmas IG: @drugstorecowgirljewelry Cara IG: @cara.steinmann OR you can get all the uncut video and audio if you join us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/DMSH]. See you there!

Sending Our Trauma on a Quaint Seaside Vacation (Jessica Fletcher is Our Travel Agent Now)

We've decided to visit Maine for our next scavenger hunt adventure instead of our original plans for London or Italy. Neither of us has ever been to Maine, but we're excited for lobster rolls, amazing chowder, and exploring destinations like Portland and Ogunquit. • Using an Alaska credit card companion fare to travel as far as possible while staying in the U.S. • Planning the trip for late October/early November • Excited about the connection to "Murder She Wrote" which was set in fictional Cabot Cove, Maine • Looking forward to trying authentic lobster rolls and comparing them to our limited previous experiences • Already debating chowder preferences - not too many potatoes, plenty of clams, good balance of vegetables • Interested in visiting Ogunquit, known as an LGBTQ+ friendly destination • Seeking recommendations for weird roadside attractions and must-visit spots If you have any tips about great places to visit in Maine, please let us know! Welcome to Dead Mom Scavenger Hunt Holla at us with questions or comments: Email: dmshpod@gmail.com Insta: @deadmomscavengerhunt [https://www.instagram.com/deadmomscavengerhunt/] Follow us on Facebook! [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61574005985061] Christmas IG: @drugstorecowgirljewelry Cara IG: @cara.steinmann OR you can get all the uncut video and audio if you join us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/DMSH]. See you there!

Mother's Day...and Other Landmines

We're back after a short hiatus due to life commitments, travel plans, and some social media frustrations that temporarily derailed our recording schedule. We dive into the complexities of Mother's Day and how it affects people differently depending on their relationship with motherhood. • Breaking down why Mother's Day is more complicated than just celebrating mothers • Examining whether wishing "Happy Mother's Day" to non-mothers is appropriate • Discussing the varying expectations mothers have for the holiday • Exploring how to celebrate the day when you've lost your mother • Sharing personal experiences of how we observe (or don't observe) Mother's Day • Comparing Mother's Day expectations to Father's Day and birthday celebrations • Detailing our approaches to caregiving during illness and recovery We sincerely apologize for the technical difficulties at the end of this episode - we're learning and promise to figure this shit out. Thanks for putting up with us!  Welcome to Dead Mom Scavenger Hunt Holla at us with questions or comments: Email: dmshpod@gmail.com Insta: @deadmomscavengerhunt [https://www.instagram.com/deadmomscavengerhunt/] Follow us on Facebook! [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61574005985061] Christmas IG: @drugstorecowgirljewelry Cara IG: @cara.steinmann OR you can get all the uncut video and audio if you join us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/DMSH]. See you there!

If Juneau, Juneau... (Alaska Part 3)

From floating among glacier ice chunks to soaring down North America's longest zipline, our Alaskan adventure delivered one extraordinary experience after another. The majesty of the Hubbard Glacier left us speechless as we kayaked through what our guide described as "a giant margarita" of floating ice, witnessing the thunderous calving of ice chunks into the crystal-clear waters. Though we missed our kayak excursion in the Indian Islands due to timing confusion, the resulting Zodiac tour took us to breathtaking wilderness areas where we spotted sea lions, otters, and countless seabirds against pristine backdrops. The adrenaline peak of our journey happened at Icy Straight Point, where we conquered North America's longest zipline – a heart-pounding 5,490-foot ride soaring at 60mph while dangling 1,330 feet above sea level. The emotional release upon landing caught us by surprise; we found ourselves simultaneously laughing and crying, overwhelmed by the beauty and exhilaration of flying above the Alaskan wilderness. Quaint towns delivered their own magic. In Haines, we discovered the charming Hammer Museum with its passionate docent describing their collection with "craftsmanship out the yang." Juneau captured our hearts with a delightful food tour introducing us to spruce tip products and local delicacies, while teaching us about Tlingit culture, including the fascinating tradition of "shame poles" and the symbolic eagle-raven "lovebirds." But perhaps our most cherished Juneau memory was discovering Deckhand Dave's fish tacos – so incredible we returned three times in one day! Throughout our journey, we experienced what we call "travel magic" – those unplanned moments and serendipitous encounters that transform a trip into something truly special. Come along as we share these unforgettable Alaskan moments and the travel wisdom we gained along the way. Welcome to Dead Mom Scavenger Hunt Holla at us with questions or comments: Email: dmshpod@gmail.com Insta: @deadmomscavengerhunt [https://www.instagram.com/deadmomscavengerhunt/] Follow us on Facebook! [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61574005985061] Christmas IG: @drugstorecowgirljewelry Cara IG: @cara.steinmann OR you can get all the uncut video and audio if you join us on Patreon [https://patreon.com/DMSH]. See you there!