Episode 5: 2/3 Spiritual Abuse with Dr. Lisa Compton

Episode 9: (3/3) Rachel Marsiglio, Registered Dietician

Rachel has a fairly unique approach to treating eating disorders as a nutritionist. She recognizes that eating disorders are complex and are linked to different variables.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Eating Disorders and Nutrition 03:30Understanding Eating Disorder Specialists 07:51The Role of Registered Dietitians11:30Trauma and Eating Disorders 16:50Embodied Recovery Approach 21:04Reenactments of Past Trauma 24:22Integrating Body and Mind in Treatment28:21Building a Treatment Team 32:27Insurance and Payment Options

Episode 8: 2/3 Eating Disorder with David Rogers, LPC

Dave Rogers, LPC has been treating Eating Disorders for decades. He is an expert in this area - I have seen the product of his work. Chapters00:00Introduction to Eating Disorders and Treatment 11:00Cultural Influences on Body Image 22:15Understanding Eating Disorders: Causes and Symptoms 33:58The Role of Family and Friends in Recovery 38:29Support Strategies for Loved Ones

Episode 7: 1/3 Body Image with Elyse Meads

Elyse shares her own journey through body image, disordered eating, and residential treatment. Elyse is a counselor pursuing her Master's.

Episode 6: 3/3 Spiritual Abuse with Maria Volpe

Summary In this conversation, Tina Motley interviews Maria Volpe about her experience with spiritual abuse. Maria shares her journey of longing to know Jesus from a young age and how that desire made her vulnerable to manipulation. She explains that spiritual abuse occurs when desire is intentionally manipulated, just like in other forms of manipulation. Maria also discusses the role of closed systems in perpetuating abuse, where the authority and power of the abuser are emphasized, and individuality is suppressed. She shares her personal story of being groomed and isolated by a spiritual leader who exploited her desire for God. Despite recognizing the abuse, she blamed herself and continued to allow it. Tina highlights the dynamics of internalizing blame and the complexity of covert spiritual abuse. Covert spiritual abuse can happen on a large platform or in a smaller dynamic like a husband and wife relationship. It is manipulative and deceptive, using Christian language and scripture verses to control and silence others. The responsibility of safeguarding against spiritual abuse lies with every believer, and it is important to speak up and protect those who are being abused. The lack of advocacy and support can cause additional trauma for the victims. Authentic community is a safeguard against spiritual abuse, where people have vulnerable and authentic relationships that allow for accountability and support. Keywords: spiritual abuse, manipulation, desire, vulnerability, closed systems, authority, power, grooming, isolation, blame, covert abuse, covert spiritual abuse, manipulation, deception, Christian language, scripture verses, safeguarding, advocacy, authentic community, healing Takeaways * Desire makes individuals vulnerable to manipulation in any aspect of life, including spirituality. * Spiritual abuse occurs when desire is intentionally manipulated, exploiting the longing to know God. * Closed systems, where authority and power are emphasized and individuality is suppressed, perpetuate spiritual abuse. * Victims of spiritual abuse often blame themselves and continue to allow the abuse. * Covert spiritual abuse can be complex and difficult to recognize, leading to internalized blame. Covert spiritual abuse can happen on a large platform or in a smaller dynamic like a husband and wife relationship. * Authentic community is a safeguard against spiritual abuse, where people have vulnerable and authentic relationships that allow for accountability and support. * Healing from spiritual abuse requires both spiritual and therapeutic approaches. * It is the responsibility of every believer to speak up and protect those who are being spiritually abused. * Understanding Spiritual Abuse: Manipulation of Desire * Recognizing Covert Spiritual Abuse: A Complex Reality Unmasking Covert Spiritual Abuse * Healing from Spiritual Abuse: A Holistic Approach * "We become more susceptible to spiritual deception when we want to find something deeper than what we are able to see in concrete evidence." * "Desire is what you can play on to get someone to do anything you want." * "Abuse manifests itself the most when we silence what we know to be true about ourselves for the sake of conformity to something bigger." * "Covert spiritual abuse is so cunning and deceptive that it is more in agreement with what Paul said that he comes like an angel of light." * "Covert spiritual abuse is something that's slapped with Christian language, without expressing the heart of our Heavenly Father and the nature of Jesus Christ." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:17 The Exploitation of Desire and Vulnerability 03:37 Manipulation of Spiritual Authority and Closed Systems 09:35 Reconciling the Abuse: Internalization of Blame 12:00 The Importance of Caution and Discernment 27:13 Covert Spiritual Abuse 31:30 Lack of Advocacy and Support 34:42 The Importance of Speaking Up 36:16 The Power Play of Leaders 45:31 Safeguarding Through Authentic Community 51:11 Healing from Spiritual Abuse

Episode 5: 2/3 Spiritual Abuse with Dr. Lisa Compton

Summary Dr. Lisa Compton, co-author of Skills for Safeguarding, discusses the importance of preventing abuse and fostering healing in the church. The book is a comprehensive guide for Christian leaders, lay counselors, and anyone interested in improving the safety of church culture. Dr. Compton emphasizes the need to address trauma and abuse within the church, as the majority of trauma is caused by someone known to the victim. She highlights the role of safeguarders in promoting a safe environment, recognizing signs of abuse, and providing excellent care for trauma survivors. The book also addresses the issue of power differentials, the distortion of theology in abusive systems, and the importance of holding leaders accountable. Keywords abuse, church, safeguarding, trauma, prevention, healing, power differentials, theology, accountability Takeaways * The book Skills for Safeguarding provides a comprehensive guide for preventing abuse and fostering healing in the church. * Safeguarders play a crucial role in promoting a safe environment, recognizing signs of abuse, and providing excellent care for trauma survivors. * Power differentials and the distortion of theology can contribute to abusive systems within the church. * Accountability and holding leaders responsible are essential in addressing abuse and creating a safe church culture. * Preventing Abuse and Fostering Healing in the Church * The Role of Safeguarders in Promoting a Safe Church Environment * "We discuss how power corrupts, some of the warning signs of abusive relationships." * "Abuse is a global health crisis that affects every area of a person's life." * "Understanding power differentials is a big part of safeguarding." Sound Bites Chapters 00:00Recognizing Signs of Abuse and Warning Signs of Abusive Relationships 09:27The Global Health Crisis of Abuse and the Impact on Individuals 14:26Understanding Power Differentials and Their Role in Abuse 25:02Emotional and Spiritual Abuse within the Church 37:10Nathan: A Model Safeguarder in Confronting Sin and Calling for Repentance