The Dirty Secret About "Amicable" Divorce (That No One Wants to Admit)

Deepfakes, Divorce, and Deception

In this episode of the DivorceLawyer.com Podcast, host Devon Rifkin talks with Nicholas Himonidis, digital forensics expert and attorney, about the alarming rise of AI-generated deep fakes and their impact on divorce and custody cases. Himonidis explains how easily accessible technology now allows anyone to create convincing fake audio or video evidence—and why that poses serious risks in family law disputes. Drawing from real-world cases, he shares how deep fakes have been weaponized in legal battles, destroying reputations and influencing custody outcomes. Himonidis urges legal professionals to take digital evidence seriously and calls for new legal frameworks to address AI-driven deception before it undermines the integrity of the justice system. This episode is a must-listen for lawyers, parents, and professionals navigating the intersection of technology, law, and truth in the digital age. Topics include: * What deep fakes are and how they're created * How AI has made digital manipulation accessible to everyone * Real cases where deep fakes have influenced custody disputes * Why judges and lawyers must vet digital evidence thoroughly * The ethical and legal implications of AI-generated deception * How technology is evolving faster than the law can adapt * The urgent need for new frameworks to protect truth in court

The Dirty Secret About "Amicable" Divorce (That No One Wants to Admit)

In this episode of the DivorceLawyer.com Podcast, host Devon Rifkin speaks with Erin Levine, legal innovator and founder of Hello Divorce, about the hidden adversarial nature of the traditional legal system—and how it often works against couples seeking an "amicable" split. Erin reveals how the language, structure, and incentives of family law can unintentionally pit spouses against one another, driving emotional turmoil and financial strain even when both parties start with good intentions. They explore how court filings, process servers, and legal motions can escalate tension, and why every procedural delay or motion carries real emotional and financial costs. Erin also explains how understanding the system's design can help divorcing individuals reduce conflict, make informed choices, and protect their peace of mind. This episode exposes the "dirty secret" behind the idea of a friendly divorce—and offers practical insight into how to navigate a system that too often profits from conflict instead of resolution. Topics include: * Why the traditional legal system is adversarial by design * How legal documents and procedures fuel conflict * The emotional and financial toll of litigation * Why process servers and motions can create unnecessary distress * How the system benefits from ongoing disputes * Steps individuals can take to reduce emotional triggers * The power of understanding the system to better navigate it

Clauses Parents Wish Were in Their Divorce Agreements but Often Are Missing

In this episode of the DivorceLawyer.com Podcast, host Rob Roseman sits down with Abbey Flaum, a family wealth strategist, to discuss the crucial steps of financial planning and estate management following a divorce. Abbey shares common pitfalls she sees in divorce agreements and why assembling a strong financial team is essential to navigating complex post-divorce realities. They explore the importance of clear, well-drafted clauses, from passport access and holiday schedules to tax implications and asset division. Abbey also offers practical advice for newly single parents, including updating estate plans, aligning legal obligations with financial realities, and communicating proactively with financial professionals. If you're rebuilding your financial life after divorce, this episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you plan wisely and protect your family's future. Topics include: * Why vague divorce agreements lead to future conflict * The importance of proactive financial planning post-divorce * Essential clauses often missing in divorce agreements * How tax planning impacts asset division * Updating estate plans as a newly single parent * Building a trusted financial team for long-term success * Modern family dynamics and blended family considerations * Understanding asset value and financial nuances

Custody Battles: How Courts Make Decisions in the Best Interest of Children

In this episode of the DivorceLawyer.com Podcast, host Rob Roseman sits down with Carla Stern, a highly respected Georgia family law attorney with over 30 years of experience, to unpack the complexities of child custody disputes. Carla shares her deep insights into how courts determine the best interests of the child, the many factors judges consider, and how parents can better prepare for custody proceedings. They also address common misconceptions—like the fear of "losing custody"—and discuss how issues such as addiction, documentation, and even a child's own preferences can influence outcomes. Carla emphasizes the importance of understanding the legal process, documenting family history, and staying focused on children's well-being during even the most contentious divorces. This episode is an essential listen for parents navigating custody battles, offering clarity, practical strategies, and reassurance during a difficult chapter. Topics include: * What "best interests of the child" really means in custody law * Key factors judges evaluate in custody decisions * How addiction issues affect custody outcomes * Why children's wishes matter—but aren't the only consideration * The importance of documentation in building your case * Common misconceptions parents have about custody * How listening more than speaking can help in high-tension situations

Collaborative Divorce vs. Traditional Litigation: Cost, Time, Outcomes

In this episode of the DivorceLawyer.com Podcast, host Rob Roseman speaks with Max Emmer, a family law attorney, about the key differences between collaborative divorce and traditional litigation. Max shares his personal journey from corporate litigation to family law and why he believes a more human-centered approach is essential when guiding clients through one of life's most challenging transitions. He breaks down how the collaborative divorce process works, why it's often more private and efficient than courtroom battles, and who can benefit most from it. Max also addresses common misconceptions—like the belief that collaborative divorce is a "weak" option—and shares practical advice for choosing the right attorney, including why trusting your instincts matters and how you can change lawyers if your current representation isn't the right fit. Whether your divorce is amicable or complex, this episode sheds light on the evolving landscape of family law and offers valuable insights to help you make informed decisions. Topics include: * Collaborative divorce vs. traditional litigation * Why collaboration can still work in contentious cases * Debunking myths about collaborative divorce * The importance of choosing the right attorney * Emotional and financial factors in the divorce process * Why trust and communication matter in legal representation * How a consultative approach leads to better outcomes