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Stop Tiptoeing. Ask These 3 Questions Instead.

8 min · 29 de jun de 2026
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"I'll be in touch." Four words that sound polite and mean nothing, and if you've heard them you already know how the meeting that earned them probably went. A client sent me a recording of exactly that kind of meeting. She was warm, she connected, she did everything we're told to do, and it went nowhere. The real problem wasn't anything she said. It was what she was too afraid to ask, because she didn't want to seem pushy. In this episode I share the three questions I now ask in every meeting that turn a pleasant dead end into a real conversation, even when they feel uncomfortable coming out of your mouth. If you've ever softened yourself in a meeting to avoid being "too much," this is the kind of work I do with women in sales in my 1:1 coaching. Join the Sell INSPIRED Academy: https://www.go.rebeccakilday.com/offer123-9675 [https://www.go.rebeccakilday.com/offer123-9675] – Most sales podcasts give you more tactics. This one proves you don’t need them.  I’m Rebecca Kilday, and Don’t Just Sell is the podcast where your sales career gets easier when you quit selling like you’ve been trained, and start selling like yourself.  – Produced by SpeakEasy Productions.

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