Effective Communication: How Parents Can Talk to Coaches

We have renamed the podcast to Elevating High School Sports

The host announces a change in the podcast's name from Unleashed Athletics to Elevating High School Sports. The mission of the podcast remains the same, which is to have conversations that inform listeners about high school sports. The host expresses gratitude for the support and engagement from the community and shares plans to create an online network and explore opportunities within high schools. The episode concludes with a call for suggestions on coaches, administrators, and officials to interview. * The podcast's name has changed from Unleashed Athletics to Elevating High School Sports. * The mission of the podcast remains the same, which is to inform listeners about high school sports. * The host expresses gratitude for the support and engagement from the community. * Plans include creating an online network and exploring opportunities within high schools. * Suggestions for coaches, administrators, and officials to interview are welcomed. 00:00Introduction and Name Change 03:00Mission and Purpose 06:19Creating an Online Network 09:26Exploring Opportunities within High Schools 09:54Seeking Suggestions for Interviews

ROUTINE AND CONSISTENCY | WIN THE DAY PLANNER - Dan Rigby

In this episode of Elevating High School Sports, host Brian Bonn interviews Dan Rigby, the owner of Win the Day Planner and a coach and educator. They discuss Dan's background in coaching and education, the importance of character development in athletes, and the challenges and pressures faced by high school athletes today. Dan emphasizes the need for coaches and parents to prioritize the growth and well-being of young athletes over winning championships. He also highlights the mental and physical demands of the sport of wrestling and the qualities of successful wrestlers. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the importance of communication and setting clear goals for athletes and parents. Dan Rigby, owner of the Win the Day Planner, discusses the importance of planning and reflection for student athletes. He emphasizes the need for athletes to be intentional and mindful in their daily routines, both academically and athletically. The planner includes sections for gratitude, goal setting, academic planning, and reflection. Rigby also highlights the value of effective communication and teamwork, which are fostered through the planner's Word of the Week and Quote of the Week features. The planner is available in both paper-based and app formats, with additional resources and videos provided in the app. Rigby encourages athletes to cherish their athletic careers and make the most of every moment.   Takeaways * Coaches and parents need to prioritize the growth and well-being of young athletes over winning championships. * Successful wrestlers are not only skilled in the sport but also exhibit strong character and moral compass. * The landscape of high school sports is experiencing an identity crisis, with an emphasis on winning and a lack of focus on personal development. * Parents and coaches should have open and honest conversations about goals, expectations, and the well-being of the athlete. * Communication and setting clear goals are crucial for the success and happiness of young athletes. Planning and reflection are essential for student athletes to optimize their academic and athletic performance. * The Win the Day Planner includes sections for gratitude, goal setting, academic planning, and reflection. * Effective communication and teamwork are fostered through the planner's Word of the Week and Quote of the Week features. * The planner is available in both paper-based and app formats, with additional resources and videos provided in the app. * Athletes should cherish their athletic careers and make the most of every moment. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background of Dan Rigby 07:38 - The Identity Crisis in High School Sports 13:46 - Open and Honest Conversations between Parents and Coaches 29:38 - The Importance of Reevaluation 36:15 - Overview of the Win the Day Planner 44:43 - Effective Communication and Reflection 54:00 - Advice for Student Athletes

Competitiveness and Accountability - Scott Hormann Head Baseball Coach At Lutheran (Parker) High School

In this episode, Brian Bonn interviews Scott Hormann, the head coach of Lutheran High School in Colorado and a coach for Colorado USA Prime. They discuss the importance of high school and club baseball, the role of coaches in shaping young men, and the challenges of holding players accountable. They also touch on the landscape of club sports and the importance of finding a team where players can get playing time. The conversation revolves around the importance of finding the right team and coach in order to succeed in baseball. It emphasizes that college coaches don't care about the team you play on, but rather your individual skills and performance. The first two days of tournaments are more important than the last two, as college coaches want to find talent among all the teams. It's crucial to find a place where you can play and improve your skills, and to have a coach who cares about your development. The conversation also touches on the need for players to compete and push themselves, and the importance of accountability and self-improvement. The conversation explores the importance of representing your school in sports and the value of competitiveness. The hosts discuss how the high school season allows players to develop their skills and compete as a team. They emphasize the need for players to be competitive and push themselves to improve. The conversation also touches on the role of video games in teaching competitiveness and the growth of baseball in Colorado. The hosts highlight the importance of relationships, communication, and letting players learn from their failures. They conclude by emphasizing the impact of sports on individuals' lives and the importance of mentoring and teaching.   Takeaways * Coaches play a crucial role in helping young men become better individuals and preparing them for life beyond sports. * Parents should understand that coaches want what's best for their student-athletes and are invested in their personal growth. * Accountability is a vital aspect of coaching, but it can be challenging in a generation where accountability is not emphasized in other areas of life. * The landscape of club sports can be difficult to navigate, but it's important for players to find a team that fits their family, budget, ability, and desire. * Playing time and development are more important than being on a top-tier team, as college coaches will recognize talent regardless of the team a player is on. College coaches care more about individual skills and performance than the team you play on. * The first two days of tournaments are more important for college recruiting. * Finding a place where you can play and improve your skills is crucial. * Having a coach who cares about your development is important. * Players need to compete and push themselves to improve. * Accountability and self-improvement are key to success in baseball. Representing your school in sports is a unique and valuable experience. * Competitiveness is essential for personal growth and improvement. * Video games can be a tool to teach competitiveness and transfer it to the baseball field. * Baseball has grown significantly in Colorado, producing talented players. * Parents should trust coaches and let their children learn from their failures. * Sports have a profound impact on individuals' lives and teach important life lessons. Sound Bites * "This is about helping young men become better young men and being great parts of society when they graduate from high school and when they graduate from college." * "You know, I tell parents all the time, it's your job to love your son and to support him. And I understand. And I learned this the hard way because I was a parent of a competitive athlete. * "Baseball is a game of failure." * "No one cares. College coach doesn't care what team you play on." * "The first two days are more important than the last two of tournaments." * "When I learned that it's not about me is really when I became a better coach." * "There is nothing like representing your school." * "Get stinking competitive with yourself and find ways to compete every single day." * "I found a careful balance inside of video games."   Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background of Scott Hormann 07:56 - The Importance of Accountability in Coaching 14:41 - Finding the Right Team in Club Sports 28:02 - The Need for Competition and Self-Improvement 42:38 - Representing Your School in Sports 51:04 - The Growth of Baseball in Colorado 59:18 - Learning from Failure and Letting Coaches Coach

Effective Communication: How Parents Can Talk to Coaches

In this episode, host Brian Bonn discusses how parents can effectively communicate with coaches when they have concerns or conflicts. He emphasizes the importance of approaching the conversation with a calm and respectful demeanor, setting clear goals for the discussion, and considering the best interests of the entire team. Bonn also encourages parents to have realistic expectations and allow their children to face challenges and grow through adversity.   Keywords: parent-coach communication, conflict resolution, effective conversation, setting goals, team dynamics, realistic expectations, growth through adversity   Takeaways: * Approach conversations with coaches calmly and respectfully. * Set clear goals for the discussion and communicate them to the coach. * Consider the best interests of the entire team, not just your own child. * Have realistic expectations and allow your child to face challenges and grow through adversity. Chapters: 00:00- Introduction: Parents Taking the Lead 05:14- Approaching the Conversation: Starting on the Right Foot 09:29- Getting a Thoughtful Response from the Coach

Leading From Where You're At!

In this episode, Brian Bonn discusses the importance of players taking ownership and leading from where they are on the team. He emphasizes that leadership is not limited to the best players, but is a responsibility that every player should embrace. Bonn encourages players to support their coaches, hold themselves and their teammates accountable, and work together to build a strong team culture. He shares personal experiences and highlights the impact of players taking initiative and leading by example. Bonn concludes by urging players to have difficult conversations and invest in their teams at the deepest level. Takeaways Leadership is not limited to the best players on the team; every player has a role to play in leading and building team culture. Players should support their coaches and hold themselves and their teammates accountable. Leading from where you are means taking initiative, being a cheerleader, and doing the small things that contribute to the team's success. Difficult conversations are a part of leadership and can have a significant impact on the team's dynamics and performance. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Recap of Previous Episodes 04:21 Leading from Where You Are: The Role of Every Player 08:25 The Danger of Relying Only on What You Know 14:16 The Impact of Players Taking Ownership