Energy Over Hours: Redefining Productivity for Ambitious Women

Healing From the Inside Out: Psychology, Spirit, and the Path to Collective Renewal

What if the health of a nation begins with the healing of its people? In this deeply reflective episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Phyllis E. Leavitt, a psychotherapist with over 34 years of experience working with children, families, couples, and individuals. She is the author of America in Therapy: A New Approach to Hope and Healing for a Nation in Crisis, where she explores the powerful connection between personal psychological healing and the broader emotional health of society. Together, we explore how individual trauma, family dynamics, and collective patterns mirror one another—and how understanding these connections can open pathways to deeper healing. Phyllis shares insights from decades of clinical practice, including her work in sexual abuse treatment and family therapy, offering a grounded yet spiritually informed perspective on what it takes to break cycles of pain and dysfunction. We also discuss the intersection of psychology and spirituality, the role of compassion in understanding both victims and perpetrators, and how cultural narratives shape emotional resilience. This conversation highlights not only the roots of division and suffering, but also the real possibilities for hope, repair, and transformation at both personal and societal levels. Whether you're a practitioner, a seeker, or someone simply trying to make sense of the world around you, this episode offers a thoughtful exploration of healing—starting within and extending outward into families, communities, and beyond. Join us for a powerful conversation about awareness, compassion, and the collective journey toward emotional and spiritual renewal. https://www.phyllisleavitt.com/

Stakeholder Whispering: Turning Communication into Clarity, Trust, and Impact

What if the biggest barrier to success isn’t lack of skill—but misunderstanding what people actually need? In this insightful episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Bill Shander, an author, educator, keynote speaker, and information designer with over 30 years of experience helping individuals and organizations turn complexity into clarity. His work has reached millions through LinkedIn Learning, and he has taught at institutions including Harvard and Stanford. Together, we explore the hidden challenges of workplace communication and why “doing what you’re told” often falls short of delivering real value. Bill introduces the concept of “stakeholder whispering,” showing how uncovering true needs—rather than simply executing requests—can transform collaboration, leadership, and outcomes. We also dive into the emotional dynamics that shape communication, including urgency, authority, and misalignment, and how curiosity, listening, and better questioning can shift relationships from friction to alignment. Bill shares how storytelling and visual communication can cut through complexity, reduce overwhelm, and create shared understanding in high-stakes environments. Whether you're a leader, team member, or early-career professional, this conversation offers practical insights into improving how you think, speak, and connect at work. It challenges us to slow down, ask better questions, and prioritize understanding over assumption. Join us for a powerful discussion about communication, empathy, storytelling, and the quiet skill of truly understanding people before acting on what they say. https://billshander.com/

Energy Over Hours: Redefining Productivity for Ambitious Women

What if productivity wasn’t about doing more—but about doing what matters with more clarity, energy, and intention? In this empowering episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Kristen Edwards, a leading productivity strategist and host of the Ambitious Time Management Podcast. With a background in talent management and years of experience supporting high-achieving working mothers, Kristen helps women simplify their schedules, reclaim their time, and build sustainable systems that actually work in real life. Together, we explore the shift from traditional time management to energy-aware productivity, and why so many ambitious women feel overwhelmed despite doing “everything right.” Kristen breaks down her Focus Formula, explains how to identify hidden time drains, and shares practical strategies for aligning daily actions with personal energy patterns rather than rigid schedules. We also dive into the emotional side of productivity—guilt around rest, the pressure to always perform, and the challenge of balancing career, family, and personal growth without burnout. Kristen offers grounded, realistic solutions for creating structure without losing flexibility, and for building habits that support both success and well-being. Whether you're a working mom, entrepreneur, or high-performing professional navigating competing demands, this conversation offers a refreshing and compassionate approach to productivity—one that prioritizes energy, focus, and sustainable achievement. Join us for a conversation about clarity, balance, and reclaiming your time in a way that actually supports the life you want to build.

The Ripple of Kindness: How Small Acts Create Extraordinary Connection

What if changing the world didn’t begin with a grand plan, but with a simple act of kindness? In this heartwarming episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Nicholas Adkins, founder of the global Pinksocks Life movement and author of PINKSOCKS: How a Pair of Socks Became a Symbol of Love and Connection. What began as a simple gesture has grown into a worldwide community of hundreds of thousands of people committed to spreading love, compassion, and authentic human connection. Together, we explore the profound impact of being truly present with others, the universal human need to feel seen and valued, and how small acts of kindness can create ripples far beyond what we imagine. Nicholas shares stories from his journey, lessons learned from connecting with people across cultures and communities, and insights into why meaningful connection remains one of our deepest human needs. This conversation invites us to slow down, listen more deeply, and rediscover the power of simple gestures in a fast-moving world. We discuss compassion, belonging, hope, vulnerability, and the ways ordinary people can become catalysts for extraordinary change through everyday acts of care. Whether you're feeling disconnected, searching for more meaningful relationships, or looking for ways to make a positive impact in your community, this episode offers inspiration and practical reminders that kindness is never too small to matter. Join us for a moving conversation about love, presence, human connection, and the remarkable truth that sometimes the smallest gesture can transform a life—including our own. Because at the heart of every meaningful connection is a simple message: You matter. You are seen. And you are not alone.

Beyond Burnout: Building Resilience, Clarity, and Sustainable Change

What if burnout isn’t a sign that you’ve failed—but a signal that something needs attention? In this thought-provoking episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Glen Lubbert, co-founder and CEO of Stamina Lab, performance and recovery coach, mindfulness teacher, and entrepreneur. Drawing from his own experience navigating burnout while leading a multimillion-dollar health company, Glen offers a refreshing and compassionate perspective on resilience, behavior change, and well-being. Together, we explore why so many high-achieving individuals feel exhausted despite doing all the “right” things, how cognitive overload impacts our energy and decision-making, and why sustainable growth often begins with awareness rather than effort. Glen shares practical insights on stress, recovery, mindfulness, self-talk, and the hidden ways our daily habits influence long-term well-being. This conversation challenges the idea that personal growth requires constant self-improvement. Instead, Glen introduces a powerful alternative: building forward from what is already working. Through the lens of science, coaching, and human experience, we discuss how small wins restore self-trust, why values are often more reliable than motivation, and how to create meaningful change without guilt or perfectionism. Whether you're a leader, entrepreneur, creative, caregiver, or simply someone feeling stretched by the demands of modern life, this episode offers a healthier, more sustainable way to think about performance, resilience, and personal growth. Join us for a conversation about burnout, recovery, self-awareness, and the possibility of moving forward with greater clarity, compassion, and intention. Because sometimes the most powerful transformation begins not with pushing harder—but with seeing yourself more clearly