Welcome to The New Good Life

The Economic Megathrust Quake We're Not Ready For

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Is your workday infinite?

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The Inner Life of Rebellion

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Welcome to The New Good Life

Welcome to The New Good Life f*ck i love you — Episode Published: March 22, 2026 About This Episode After a long period of rest and recovery, Jenn returns with a relaunch of f*ck i love you — and a name for the idea she's been circling since she started writing here. This is the essay that introduces The New Good Life (tNGL): a framework for the civilizational shift already underway, rooted in bell hooks' love ethic and the radical idea that wealth, wellbeing, dignity, and deep relationality aren't utopian — they're emerging right now, just not evenly distributed yet. Jenn also walks through FILY's new architecture (four sections, one publication), explains why she's folding everything under one roof, and asks — with characteristic awkwardness — for the thing none of us are supposed to ask for. In This Episode What "The New Good Life" actually means — and why it needed a name The old social contract, its collapse, and what we're building instead The 10-3-1 principle and FILY's new structure The Lemmings metaphor: what the fracture of community actually looks like A direct ask: how to support this work Links & References FILY on Substack [https://jenniferangelamcrae.substack.com] Pathways to Prosperity: Navigating Structural Transformation [https://jennmcrae.notion.site/pathways-to-prosperity-navigating-structural-transformation] All About Love — bell hooks Project Baseline [https://open.substack.com/pub/shawnfromportland/p/introducing-project-baseline-demanding] — Shawn K & Dave Foulkes Support the Work Paid subscriptions start at $9/month. One-time support via Buy Me a Coffee [https://buymeacoffee.com/jenniferangelamcrae]. Or just share something you loved. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jenniferangelamcrae.substack.com/subscribe [https://jenniferangelamcrae.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

OnlyFans, AI Companions & The Relationship Apocalypse

In this raw and intellectually intimate conversation, Jeffrey James and Jenn McRae dive deep into the crisis of connection, exploring how transactional approaches to relationships are fueling a pandemic of loneliness. They examine how OnlyFans, AI companions, and other technological "solutions" reflect our collective failure to build and maintain the muscles of relationality in a culture that systematically undermines human connection.This conversation is part of an ongoing exploration of love ethics, relationality, and how we might rebuild our collective capacity for meaningful connection in an increasingly transactional world. It's a passionate call to recognize that our loneliness crisis isn't a technology problem—it's a cultural one that demands we cultivate new ways of being together. *** 00:01:01 Origin Story: When Jenn and Jeffrey First Met Our hosts share their personal history, tracing back to their first encounter in 2011 at the "blue house" in Vancouver and how their relationship has evolved over 15 years from romantic partners to the deep friendship they share today. 05:40 From Partners to "Core People": Evolution Beyond Traditional Labels Jeffrey and Jenn discuss the limitations of the word "friend" to describe their relationship and reflect on how they've maintained a meaningful connection that transcends conventional relationship categories. 09:06 Fierce Abiding Love: Jeffrey's Love Ethics Jeffrey shares his philosophy of "fierce abiding love" - a practice of staying present through conflict, offering benefit of the doubt, and maintaining generosity of spirit even when relationships get challenging. 14:00 The Friendship Crisis Among Men Jeffrey reveals a troubling pattern from his therapeutic practice: how many successful men have zero friends and no place to process difficult emotions outside their romantic partnerships. 18:15 The Loneliness Pandemic: A $400 Billion Problem Jenn shares research on how loneliness affects one in six people globally, contributing to 100 deaths per hour and economic costs exceeding $400 billion annually in the US alone. 19:28 Transactional vs. Relational Engagement The hosts explore how transactional approaches to human connection—whether with chatbots or other humans—create loneliness, while relational approaches activate our social engagement systems and promote wellbeing. 23:14 The Rat Park Experiment: Connection as Antidote to Addiction Jeffrey uses the famous Rat Park experiment to illustrate how properly nourished social connections make us less susceptible to addictive behaviors, whether those are substances or technological "solutions" to loneliness. 26:37 A Future Worth Living In: Jeffrey's Radical Imagination In closing, Jeffrey shares his vision for a future worth living in—one with deeper connections, devotion to something larger than ourselves, and a commitment to being connected over being right. ***About the Hosts Jenn McRae is a writer and transformation strategist practicing in Victoria, BC, Canada. jenniferangelamcrae.substack.com [https://jeffreyjames.coach/] thepermissionlessprof.substack.com [https://jeffreyjames.coach/]Jeffrey James is a psychoterapist and soul guide practicing in Boulder, Colorado, USA. jeffreyjames.coach [https://jeffreyjames.coach/] jeffreyjames676896.substack.com [https://jeffreyjames.coach/] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jenniferangelamcrae.substack.com/subscribe [https://jenniferangelamcrae.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]