How to de-influence your business

How to de-influence your business

A few weeks ago I formed a simple hypothesis: If I don't have to be right all the time, my life would drastically improve. That one idea cracked open a dam - and what came flooding out was an honest inventory of everywhere I'd been performing a version of myself I didn't actually choose. In this episode I get real about what it means to de-influence your life and business - not just your content strategy, but the deeper stuff. The ideals you absorbed. The positions you never consciously took. The version of success you've been chasing that someone else built. In this episode: * The hypothesis that changed everything (and why "not having to be right" is actually the most intuitive move) * The corner-of-the-house IG live that made me think "this is f**king ridiculous" * What I actually want my life to look like — and why I'd been squeezing my life into a brand instead of the other way around * How the influencer era sold coaches and healers a very specific (and very fake) ideal * Why authenticity isn't a trend — it's the only response to a world that feels unreliable * What de-influencing your business actually looks like in practice Links + Resources: * Read the full essay this episode pairs with: Read HERE [https://open.substack.com/pub/confessionsofalifecoach/p/this-post-will-set-me-free?r=37jl1v&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web] * Learn more about working with me: jenliss.com [https://www.jenliss.com/] * Follow along: @jennifer.liss_ [https://www.instagram.com/jennifer.liss_/] ---------- Ready to F**k Around &Get Paid? Join The Expansion Room 👉 jenliss.com/expansion [http://jenliss.com/expansion] ----- 👉  Come into The Expansion Room @ jenliss.com/expansion [https://expansionroom.jenliss.com/] If you loved this episode, make sure to: * Follow the podcast on your favorite app so you never miss an episode. * Leave a review - it helps me reach more amazing unicorns like you. * Follow me on Instagram @jennifer.liss_ [https://www.instagram.com/jennifer.liss_]

The key to manifesting everything

What if the thing keeping you exhausted isn't your schedule, your business, or even your responsibilities? What if it's that you've stopped saying what you actually want? Today we're exploring one of the most overlooked keys to manifestation: desire. Because so many of us have been taught to "be grateful" for what we have while quietly abandoning what we truly want. We convince ourselves what we want is selfish, unrealistic, or we feel guilty about wanting too much. So we want it, then minimize it, and then want it, and then minimize it... And then we wonder why we're exhausted. In this episode, I detail why we often accept the order someone else placed for us instead of claiming what we actually desire. Why gratitude and wanting more are not opposites, the hidden guilt many women carry around desire, and why resentment is often a sign that we've stopped honoring ourselves. If you've ever felt unfulfilled despite doing everything "right," this conversation may be exactly what you need. Your desires aren't frivolous. They are information. They may even be divine direction. In this episode, you'll learn: * Why saying what you want (CLEARLY!) is essential for manifestation * The surprising reason you feel exhausted when you suppress your desires * How gratitude and wanting more can coexist * The hidden web of guilt, shame, and conditioning around desire * Why resentment is often a clue that you've abandoned yourself * How unspoken desires create resistance in your nervous system * A simple three-step practice for receiving more of what you want The Three-Part Practice: 1. Honor what you want.  2. Communicate it.  3. Accept it DAILY.  The universe isn't offended by your appetite. You don't have to settle for the life someone else ordered for you. You get to place your own order, exactly as you want it. ---------- Ready to F**k Around &Get Paid? Join The Expansion Room 👉 jenliss.com/expansion [http://jenliss.com/expansion] ----- 👉  Come into The Expansion Room @ jenliss.com/expansion [https://expansionroom.jenliss.com/] If you loved this episode, make sure to: * Follow the podcast on your favorite app so you never miss an episode. * Leave a review - it helps me reach more amazing unicorns like you. * Follow me on Instagram @jennifer.liss_ [https://www.instagram.com/jennifer.liss_]

The cure for the recovering perfectionist

What if the thing keeping you stuck isn't your strategy, your offer, your content, or your consistency? What if it's your need to get it right? Today we are exploring the hidden force that shows up for every entrepreneur: perfectionism. In this episode, you'll learn why perfectionism has nothing to do with high standards and everything to do with fear, how the nervous system responds when we become overly focused on avoiding mistakes, and why play, experimentation, and messy action are often the fastest path to the results we're seeking. You'll also hear a powerful story about a professional athlete whose performance transformed when he stopped trying so hard to get it right and started playing again. Inside this episode: ✨ What perfectionism actually is (and what it isn't) ✨ Why fear of failure often disguises itself as "being responsible" ✨ How perfectionism creates nervous system rigidity and blocks creativity ✨ The surprising connection between growth, visibility, and control ✨ Why your next breakthrough may require more experimentation and less certainty ✨ A simple challenge to help you loosen your grip and create momentum this week If you've been waiting until you're more prepared, more confident, more certain, or more qualified before taking the next step, this episode is for you. Because your most magnetic self isn't the version of you that gets everything right. It's the version that's willing to play. ---------- Ready to F**k Around &Get Paid? Join The Expansion Room 👉 jenliss.com/expansion [http://jenliss.com/expansion] ----- 👉  Come into The Expansion Room @ jenliss.com/expansion [https://expansionroom.jenliss.com/] If you loved this episode, make sure to: * Follow the podcast on your favorite app so you never miss an episode. * Leave a review - it helps me reach more amazing unicorns like you. * Follow me on Instagram @jennifer.liss_ [https://www.instagram.com/jennifer.liss_]

Listen to this before starting something new

Have you ever started something new and immediately felt overwhelmed? First, know this: just because your nervous system suddenly decides you're being chased by a tiger does not mean you have done anything wrong, that you haven't healed enough, and it's definitely not a sign to stop. It's usually a sign to GO. :) In this episode, I'm sharing what happened when I recently found myself in a full-blown spiral while stepping into a new season of growth. What started as excitement quickly turned into overwhelm, panic, comparison, and the familiar feeling that somehow everyone else had figured it out except me. The good news, of course, is that this is incredibly normal. When you step outside what's familiar -even when it's something you want - your nervous systems often interprets uncertainty as danger. That's why growth can feel exciting and terrifying at the exact same time. In this episode, we're talking about why that happens, what your nervous system is actually trying to do, and how to support yourself through the messy middle of expansion without making it mean you're failing. Inside this episode: ✨ Why starting something new can trigger overwhelm ✨ What happened when my own nervous system hit the panic button ✨ How "not enoughness" gets activated during growth ✨ Why comparison gets louder when you're expanding ✨ Practical ways to regulate your nervous system when you're spiraling ✨ Why joy isn't something you earn - it's a powerful tool for creating safety If you've been feeling overwhelmed, behind, or questioning yourself lately, this episode will help you understand what's really happening and how to move through it with more ease. Because every limitation is a chance to transcend into a new possibility! ---------- Ready to F**k Around &Get Paid? Join The Expansion Room 👉 jenliss.com/expansion [http://jenliss.com/expansion] ----- 👉  Come into The Expansion Room @ jenliss.com/expansion [https://expansionroom.jenliss.com/] If you loved this episode, make sure to: * Follow the podcast on your favorite app so you never miss an episode. * Leave a review - it helps me reach more amazing unicorns like you. * Follow me on Instagram @jennifer.liss_ [https://www.instagram.com/jennifer.liss_]

Make more by doing less

What if manifestation has less to do with working harder, and more to do with how you feel while you build your business? In this episode of F**k Around and Get Paid, Jennifer Liss breaks down the powerful shift from chasing success to embodying the feeling you actually want first. Because most entrepreneurs are not really chasing money, clients, freedom, or success. They are chasing the feeling they believe those things will finally give them. The problem is that most people keep those feelings just out of reach by attaching them to future outcomes. This episode explores joy-first manifesting through the lens of entrepreneurship, nervous system regulation, energetic alignment, authentic business growth, and practical law of attraction principles inspired by Abraham Hicks. If you have been hustling, overworking, forcing results, or feeling emotionally exhausted while trying to grow your business, this episode will help you understand why creating from fullness attracts entirely different outcomes than creating from desperation. IN THIS EPISODE *  Why entrepreneurs are actually chasing feelings, not goals  *  The hidden pattern holding your business back *  Why joy is not the reward for success – it is the pathway to it  *  How law of attraction principles apply to business growth  *  Why your audience can feel your energy before they buy  *  How to create from safety, joy, and emotional fullness  THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF: *  You are tired of hustling for results that never feel satisfying  *  You want more ease, alignment, and authenticity in your business  *  You are interested in manifestation, energetics, and nervous system work  *  You want to attract clients and opportunities without forcing everything  *  You are ready to stop postponing joy until “someday”  Because the life you want won't begin when you finally get the thing. It starts the moment you start feeling good. ---------- Ready to F**k Around &Get Paid? Join The Expansion Room 👉 jenliss.com/expansion [http://jenliss.com/expansion] ----- 👉  Come into The Expansion Room @ jenliss.com/expansion [https://expansionroom.jenliss.com/] If you loved this episode, make sure to: * Follow the podcast on your favorite app so you never miss an episode. * Leave a review - it helps me reach more amazing unicorns like you. * Follow me on Instagram @jennifer.liss_ [https://www.instagram.com/jennifer.liss_]